Something that makes me angry:
So we've seen the disgusting take that Anakin was right/justified to massacre the Tuskens
Now thankfully, there are people outside of us pro-Jedi who say "No."
Unfortunately, there are some people who agree that what Anakin did was wrong, but then they go and say "he should have just gone after the men" or only the ones responsible
How is only killing the men better?
Your still killing an entire group over the actions of the few, just because it's a smaller group doesn't make it better
And Anakin has no way of knowing which Tuskens were responsible
No, he can't "use the force" to figure that out
All that aside, by what right does Anakin have to kill the Tuskens? To act as judge, jury, and executioner?
"Because they killed his mom!"
There's a reason why judges, jurors, and executioners are not supposed to have a personal connection to cases/crimes/victims/accused
Furthermore, its wrong for a Jedi to be the judge, jury, and executioner
They are not supposed to take things into their own hands like that
Most importantly, Revenge is not the right way
Jedi don't take revenge, because it will not make them feel better, it will not undo what is done
Revenge will leave you worse off
At best, it will give you satisfaction, but satisfaction is temporary, it fades in time
And I think that people have got it into their heads that this is a Jedi-only thing, That only Jedi need to not take revenge (or they think that the Jedi are wrong for thinking revenge is bad), that taking revenge is natural and good for real people
The pain that made you take revenge will not be fixed
Just temporarily covered up by satisfaction
And when the satisfaction goes away, the pain will become apparent again
Related note to this, but I think its very important to note that in her final moments, Shmi didn't seem to care about the pain she was in, she did not ask for revenge
All that mattered to her was that she was with Anakin
There was no pain, no sadness, just joy, pride, and happiness at seeing him
Because those good feelings, those positive emotions, will always outweigh the bad, make them not matter
(Also I think this was deliberate on Lucas' part, Shmi's death has a lot of parallels to Vader/Anakin's in rotj, the pain no longer mattering, just the happiness in spending their final moments with their children)