please don't erase aro people's rightful criticism of the "love is love" slogan by claiming that love can be platonic or universal or whatever. "the use of 'love is love' as a unifying phrase for the entire queer community is harmful" and "we don't always mean romantic love when we discuss love" AND "it's okay if you don't want to describe your feelings, attachments, or interests in terms of love" are all opinions that can and should coexist
also, not to detract from OP’s point, because they are 100% right, but trans people like... exist? and for some trans people such as myself, my transess is much more important to me than my sexuality and i cannot emphasize enough how disheartening it is to see the lgbtq community represented as just “love is love”.