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Too many ppl here is so fuck up that they think that a men who really love his wife/couple is worth of being call "obssesive" or some internet term like being a simp or a wifeguy. Shaming a men for loving his wife and calling him out even as a "joke" for not being bad with his couple...
What that says about you and your world, huh? What are you telling the guy with that? Why even saying any other thing that you are happy that they have a lovely relationship?
Some ppl making post about how they feel but don't wanting really to tell you nor u to know so make the whole sentence with asterisks. Someone just said that is basically ppl wanting to speak about themselves and share how they feel but don't want other to know or not know everything, which is not sharing and not speaking and dont knowing how to write about your feelings bc can be hard. U can just say "i feel bad bc things are though" if u don't want them to know all while you find spaces that are safe and not an ocean of stranger in social media. Bought a diary or speak with real ppl. We can't keep behaving like is OK to not having human interactions and that is OK to be unable to see the link between all this. Is not ok all of this and is sickening that people don't get what's the problem
let me run a bath for you. let us sit in the warm water while i rub your shoulders. ill wash your back and your arms and your hands and your chest and your legs and your face and i will kiss your forehead and whisper that you are loved. you are so loved. when we hug our wet skin will stick together awkwardly but that wont matter because its us. lastly i will wash your hair. i will make sure my fingers are gentle. you dont deserve the hurt that youve endured. you are so strong. i am so proud of you. i love you.
you know what i don’t get? when like, people write romance stories where two characters are so in love w each other its all magnetism, but they? don’t even have fun together? or are even nice to each other sometimes?
“our love could level a thousand mountains and conquer a million cities”
ok but… are you even… like….. friends????
and is like that is stories still in this years bc ppl don't interact really with the person, they just go to inmediatly be a couple and has never ever be friends, take the time to know the person. Also make sense this type of behaviour bc society is deeply in capitalist consumption mindset which also is part of the predatory mentality. No one of the ppl I know love their couple, they have horrible relationship, and don't know each other bc their couple is not their best friend.
At the beginning of the year a women told me that she would like "to have someone to do those things with, it's super cool, but I'm really fine being single." This comment as a result of what? I was telling about that with my partner made costums and dressed up for Halloween and played board games. In her mind you are a couple or you are a friend, there is no healthy, sensible, and beautiful option of having a good friendship and that this leads, if it happens and interests you, to a romantic couple relationship (or of another type if you are asexual and/or aromantic). Is not just her, is literally EVERY couple that I have encounter
“why dont you just give him a chance”
idk because im not physically or mentally attracted to him and ‘but he likes you’ or ‘but hes really nice’ isnt going to change the fact that im not interested
Damn, I don’t think women know how much that really hurts
and??? If someone don’t want, they don’t have to. And guess what? life hurts, but everyone pass something like that in some moment, so deal wth it and go on with your life.
