you know what i don’t get? when like, people write romance stories where two characters are so in love w each other its all magnetism, but they? don’t even have fun together? or are even nice to each other sometimes?
“our love could level a thousand mountains and conquer a million cities”
ok but… are you even… like….. friends????
and is like that is stories still in this years bc ppl don't interact really with the person, they just go to inmediatly be a couple and has never ever be friends, take the time to know the person. Also make sense this type of behaviour bc society is deeply in capitalist consumption mindset which also is part of the predatory mentality. No one of the ppl I know love their couple, they have horrible relationship, and don't know each other bc their couple is not their best friend.
At the beginning of the year a women told me that she would like "to have someone to do those things with, it's super cool, but I'm really fine being single." This comment as a result of what? I was telling about that with my partner made costums and dressed up for Halloween and played board games. In her mind you are a couple or you are a friend, there is no healthy, sensible, and beautiful option of having a good friendship and that this leads, if it happens and interests you, to a romantic couple relationship (or of another type if you are asexual and/or aromantic). Is not just her, is literally EVERY couple that I have encounter
