let me run a bath for you. let us sit in the warm water while i rub your shoulders. ill wash your back and your arms and your hands and your chest and your legs and your face and i will kiss your forehead and whisper that you are loved. you are so loved. when we hug our wet skin will stick together awkwardly but that wont matter because its us. lastly i will wash your hair. i will make sure my fingers are gentle. you dont deserve the hurt that youve endured. you are so strong. i am so proud of you. i love you.

Pat Benatar “Love Is A Battlefield”

you know what i don’t get? when like, people write romance stories where two characters are so in love w each other its all magnetism, but they? don’t even have fun together? or are even nice to each other sometimes?

“our love could level a thousand mountains and conquer a million cities”

ok but… are you even… like….. friends????

and is like that is stories still in this years bc ppl don't interact really with the person, they just go to inmediatly be a couple and has never ever be friends, take the time to know the person. Also make sense this type of behaviour bc society is deeply in capitalist consumption mindset which also is part of the predatory mentality. No one of the ppl I know love their couple, they have horrible relationship, and don't know each other bc their couple is not their best friend.

At the beginning of the year a women told me that she would like "to have someone to do those things with, it's super cool, but I'm really fine being single." This comment as a result of what? I was telling about that with my partner made costums and dressed up for Halloween and played board games. In her mind you are a couple or you are a friend, there is no healthy, sensible, and beautiful option of having a good friendship and that this leads, if it happens and interests you, to a romantic couple relationship (or of another type if you are asexual and/or aromantic). Is not just her, is literally EVERY couple that I have encounter

Moi je t’offrirai Des perles de pluie Venues de pays Où il ne pleut pas Je creuserai la terre Jusqu’après ma mort Pour couvrir ton corps D’or et de lumière Je ferai un domaine Où l’amour sera roi Où l’amour sera loi Où tu seras reine

Sophie Hunger - Ne me quitte pas

𝙰𝚞𝚐𝚞𝚜𝚝 𝟸𝟷, 𝟷𝟿𝟷𝟼 𝚃𝚑𝚎 𝙳𝚒𝚊𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚜 𝙾𝚏 𝙵𝚛𝚊𝚗𝚣 𝙺𝚊𝚏𝚔𝚊, 𝟷𝟿𝟷𝟺-𝟷𝟿𝟸𝟹

[ID: August 21. For the collection: “ All the beautiful phrases about transcending nature prove ineffectual in face of the primordial forces of life’ ( Essays against Monogamy). END ID]

I adore you

and if a day passes by without seeing you

I forget you.

How come this time I drew you

The Longing moves the nostalgia in my heart

The night gets longer and the day passes backwards

Oh my fragile heart

The separation is killing me

I have no solution (hal)

I have no solution

My heart doesn't love once

My heart doesn't long for you once either

“why dont you just give him a chance”

idk because im not physically or mentally attracted to him and ‘but he likes you’ or ‘but hes really nice’ isnt going to change the fact that im not interested

Damn, I don’t think women know how much that really hurts

and??? If someone don’t want, they don’t have to. And guess what? life hurts, but everyone pass something like that in some moment, so deal wth it and go on with your life. 

Wanda Jackson, Funnel of Love