hey guys! it’s bec here.
it’s been a very long time since i’ve been on here (or on tumblr in general) and it’s time for me now to explain why and then bow out as gracefully as i can.
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oh to wrap bandages around and put disinfectant on another man’s wounds as i catch his tender gaze and lovingly call him an idiot and tell him to be more careful
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men’s shoulder blades… men’s backs… rb if you agree
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boys do this: throw stones at my window at midnight and sneak me out to kiss under the stars
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I’m!!! Gonna lay on my BOY!!! I’ll be back after sleeping for 1000 years on him
he is Sleeping on me i am here forever
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Hierarchy of needs diagram except it’s just one and it says “boyfriend”
spacefroggity
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Hierarchy of needs diagram except it’s just one and it says “boyfriend”
I hope this is satisfactory, OP.
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GENDER IS A PRISON AND I CHEWED THROUGH THE BARS!!!!!!!!!!!!
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no offense but why are brown-eyed boys literally the most beautiful thing on this planet??
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hey transphobes
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Removing the carpet on the stairs in my flat reveals arcane secrets
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I dont have any good pics of me so here’s my contribution for trans day of visibility
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[Image description: Text that says “Happy TDOV!” in the colors of the trans pride flag. /End ID]
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Transgender Day of Visibility is on March 31st and if you’re trans then these blogs might boost your selfies if you send any to submit to them:
- @brownandtrans (for all trans people of color)
- @fattranspoc (for fat trans people of color)
- @fuck-yeah-transmen (for trans guys)
- @nbpocparty (for non-binary people of color)
- @transmasculineselfielove (for transmasculine people)
- @nbselfielove (for non-binary people)
- @nonbinarynotandrogynous (for non-binary people)
- @nonbinarycuties (for non-binary people)
- @chubbytubbytrans (for fat and chubby trans people)
- @fuckyeahcutetranschicks (for trans girls)
- @transgirlsarebeautiful (for trans girls)
- @dailytransselfies (general)
- @transbutts (general)
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Transfeminine resources:
Presentation:
- Tucking
- Chest area
- Voice
- Broad shoulders tips
- Hair removal
- Feminine walk
- Curves
- Waist training
- Growing out your hair
- Clothing
- Makeup
- Passing
Medical transitioning:
- Not medically transitioning
- Fertility
- Puberty blockers
- Estrogen & anti-androgens/testosterone blockers FAQ
- The types of surgery available
- Surgery: A guide for transfeminine people
- Pumping (Silicone injections)
- Facial Feminization Options
- Breast Augmentation
- Genital surgery
Other:
- Representation
- Transfeminine period dysphoria
- Yes, Transfeminine People Can Get Period Symptoms
- Slipping into masculinity
- Women’s restroom etiquette
- Transfeminine people can breastfeed
- Having sex or masturbating
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Transmasculine resources:
Presentation:
- Binding FAQ
- Masculine clothing
- Facial hair
- Masculine makeup
- Getting short hair / Masculine long hair
- If you can’t start T
- Lowering your voice
- Packing and standing to pee
- Passing as male
- Not shaving legs
- Swimming
Medical transitioning:
- Not medically transitioning
- Fertility
- Puberty blockers
- Testosterone FAQ
- Top surgery
- Facial masculinization surgery
- Body masculinization surgery
- Hysterectomy and oophorectomy
- Genital surgery
Other:
- Periods and related things
- Help! I need to see a gyno
- Pumping
- Masturbation and sex
- Using the men’s bathroom
- Hudson’s FTM Guide
- Height dysphoria
- Hip dysphoria
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More resources:
- What gender am I? A roadmap to questioning
- Trans 101 for trans people
- What is the transgender umbrella?
- How do I choose a name?
- How do I come out at work/school or to family/friends?
- Dysphoria info and coping tips
- Mental health coping page
- Being trans in school
- Non-binary resources
- Resources to send allies/friends
- A page to send to parents/guardians
- Convincing someone to respect name/pronouns
- Here is how to get hormones in America
- Here is how to get hormones in the UK
- The NHS’s Guide For Young Trans People in England
- Here’s a US resource with info on changing legally changing your name and gender marker
- Here is a UK resource with info on changing legally changing your name and gender marker
- What are the WPATH-SOC guidelines?
- How to save money
- How to buy a trans-related item online without parents knowing
- I have to go swimming, what do I wear/do?
- Trying to sleep when you have dysphoria
- Airports and traveling by plane
- Gender neutral bathrooms
- Getting insurance to cover your transition
- Does transitioning help mental health?
- Trans teen’s experiences with inpatient hospitalization
- Trans identity isn’t a mental disorder
- Being religious and LGBT
- Transgender Lives: Your Stories (to see trans adults)
- Gender neutral pronouns in Spanish
- Gender Variance Around the World Over Time
- A map of gender-diverse cultures
- American LGBT history by the National Parks Service
- Other trans blogs on Tumblr
Crisis help: Suicide and crisis hotlines
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Anyone can reblog, including allies! Hopefully these resources reach someone who needs them. Happy TDOV everyone!
Happy Transgender Day of Visibitlity! We here at TDOV hope everyone had a safe and healthy day.
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Some fun images for TDOV. (ID: four images with the words “trans day of visibility 2019” in the colors of the trans flag on pastel blue, yellow, green, and pink backgrounds.)