❦☥𓆗 Shisa-San 幽玄

This is a very complex question and, without further context, it's challenging to provide a thorough answer. If you are referring to romantic relationships, I've developed the self-respect, self-love, and confidence to disengage from anyone who doesn't reciprocate my feelings. I cannot sustain romantic interest in someone who lacks deep affection for me. This self-growth led me to create my own term 'Affinitophile,' derived from Latin "affinitas," meaning a natural liking, attraction, or inherent connection, and from Greek "philos," meaning loving or having a strong affinity for. In other situations, I address issues directly and, if unresolved, I remove toxic influences from my life, no matter how hard this can be. I've experienced so much pain in my lifetime, finally realizing that I have the power to create my own reality and that my own choices have contributed to past pain.

I have learned to treat myself with the same kindness, love, protection, and loyalty that I offer my best friends. Just as I am committed to ensuring their well-being, I am equally committed to safeguarding my own. I will avoid placing myself in any situations that can compromise my inner harmony.