selfihateyouithink reblogged
endless gifs of dean being adorable
Monster Movie, 4.05
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selfihateyouithink reblogged
The idea that sex is something a woman gives a man, and she loses something when she does that, which again for me is nonsense. I want us to raise girls differently where boys and girls start to see sexuality as something that they own, rather than something that a boy takes from a girl.
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie (NPR)
selfihateyouithink reblogged
Presenting Director Misha Collins
#Misha Collins#!!!!!! Directing#What if I'm sexually attracted to Misha Collins#S9 spoilers#S9#Twitter#Jim Michaels#Russ Hamilton#Kevin and Jill Parks#Edibles#Food cw#Industry Bullshit#Watching things#Virginity cw#(I'm glad they still consider Cas a 'virgin' though cos that means fuck that#April x Cas cw#bullshit as his First Time or whatever the fuck)#(#I won't let the text rape Castiel into being allosexual sorry#)#Supernatural#Fandom
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chaoticliterature-deactivated20
Reminder that while the concept of virginity is technically a social construct, your sexual debut is still allowed to be special to you, and you are still allowed to wait and want to make it meaningful, and your self-perception is still allowed to change after you have sex. Just as long as you’re doing these things for yourself, and not because someone told you that you should.
You do you.
“And you, Dean? What set you on the path away from sin?” x
dirtyovercoats
Supernatural 9.08 Sneak Peek - Rock and a Hard Place
selfihateyouithink reblogged
i don’t trust this show with the concept of virginity
9.3 Coda, for Ace Awareness Week (Because Cas is Demisexual, Damn It)
Castiel ignores him for a few hours, clearly preferring the bare walls and soft bed of the room Dean chose for him to the company of a friend who would throw him out on his newly human ass.
Dean doesn’t blame him, but he does stick the rest of the burritos in the fridge and wait with his feet up on the table and his nose buried in a book. He sits like this until Cas comes back out, because of course he eventually does, going for the last easy food he’ll get in a while.
#Ace Awareness Week#Deancas#Destiel#Dean x Castiel#9x03 I'm No Angel#S9 spoilers#Lol Megstiel#April x Cas cw#SPN rape tag#Rape culture#Rape cw#Virginity cw#Dean.Tessa#end!Cas#Fan fiction#Fic.me#Dean.Lisa#Sam Winchester#Ezekiel in Sam#Demisexuality#Dean.Cas#Castiel is a sex indifferent greyromantic demipansexual#Dean is Cas's sex donut#I won't let the text rape Castiel into being allosexual sorry#Chastity x Cas cw#5x03 Free to Be You and Me#6x10 Caged Heat#2x01 In My Time of Dying#Supernatural#Fandom
selfihateyouithink reblogged
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If you consider a woman
less pure after you’ve touched her,
maybe you should take a look at your hands.
(via y-outhlagoon)
selfihateyouithink reblogged
imreallybad-deactivated20150610
repeat after me:
- virginity is a social construct
- you don’t lose your virginity
- there’s nothing valuable or precious about virginity, it’s an imaginary concept
- virginity is inherently heterocentric
- your worth is not defined by whether or not you’ve had a dick inside you
- what you define as sex is up to you, you get to decide how many people you’ve had sex with
- the end
selfihateyouithink reblogged
when-i-was-a-young-wart-hog-dea
I think the concept of virginity was created by men who thought their penises were so important it changes who a woman is.
nlmsbb
realist shit I have ever read.
#Same#This is the reason I can barely handle the word being used in my presence#It makes me balk the same way a slur would#Just say you haven't had sex there is no need for that word like you're in some kind of phase of matter#or whatever#Virginity cw#Misogyny cw#Male supremacy#Human sexuality#Humanity fail#Justified misanthropy#I need this because humanity#Fuck slut shaming#Life philosophy#It is a heterosexist sexist slut shaming term and I don't want to hear it.#Cissexism cw#Random
selfihateyouithink reblogged
What does virginity mean to a queer person, who may never have vaginal intercourse in her/his/hir life? What of a lesbian who chooses to never engage in any sort of penetrative sex act her entire life, does she remain some sort of super, extra virgin? If a straight man receives a blowjob, he will in all likelihood still consider himself a virgin, but a gay man receiving a blowjob may have a more complicated understanding of what it means for his sex life. In many ways, our conception of “virginity” erases or invalidates queer sex.
YES.
(via ftmfeminist)