If there's anything this Andy thing has taught me, it's that yes, your identity and your experiences and your attitudes clearly can inform the way you interpret your media, for better or worse.
And shockingly, the straight white dude with a history of impersonation, emotional abuse, and manipulation of all kinds has no problem sympathizing with those types of characters (as long as it's subtle enough for them to get away with it) and justifying their usage of these things in a sexual situation with explicit intended harm, downplaying the fact that that's rape, defending the narrative's excusing it, and using it as another bit of fodder with another rape as textual proof of heterosexuality while gaslighting people who are justifiably furious at this version of events.
Y'all, that's fucking terrifying. We need a bunker away from that kind of person and his supporters (and other people who seriously do not understand consent at all).