selfihateyouithink reblogged
psa: stop treating asexuals like they are incredibly innocent children who have a weird obsession with dinosaurs/dragons/unicorns/ect because this stereotype is actually kinda belittling and degrading because not wanting to fuck people doesn’t make you a child who only wants to draw with crayons and eat mac n cheese fuck off with your “uwu” bullshit.
#Same#One of many complaints I had about#asexualsupernatural#I saw like three or four Sastiel fics like this almost immediately#And that combined with the 'ace!Cas malevolently teases Dean' and 'Sam is demi cos he doesn't have sex with that many people'#and 'aro!Meg is totally respectful of ace!Cas'#was like a barrage of dealbreakers for me#Admit it assholes you think of us like kids because children are the only people it's okay to abuse like you do asexuals#The only people it's okay to e r a s e from adult discourse like you do asexuals#And yeah fuck you on that note fuck you#Asexuality#Ace spectrum#Allosexism cw#Sex as a mark of being 'adult' is an inherently flawed and dangerous fallacy#Stop perpetuating it in all ways but especially this one#GSRD#Humanity fail#Justified misanthropy#They're works of art#Life philosophy#Fandom is#(SIDE NOTE: this does not mean NO asexuals have 'childlike' behavior or fantastical interests or inability to cook#It doesn't mean jack shit about ALL asexuals it just means that your default should not be 'ace = childlike'#I'm ace spectrum (ace most of the time) and I like to color and eat mac and cheese#I also like to discuss the damaging effects of poverty#I also am busting my ass to graduate#I also rage about rape culture and how it affects me as an ace spectrum person#Ace adults exist too assbags (and in fact you're more likely to know you're ace as an adult than you are as a kid cos heteronormativity)#Learn that)#Random