I'm shocked.
[watches Abandon All Hope]
[carefully considers the Meg and Cas scenes]
[rewinds several times]
[talks it out on Twitter]
Yep. Heterosexists made something out of absolutely fucking nothing. Some of the metas I have read on this are just absolutely fucking laughable.
Apparently undermining an enemy's convictions to keep her distracted from a slowly succeeding escape via telekinesis is "caring about and respecting her",
being audibly overexerted and angry when unable to kill her (because she is a hugely powerful demon queen under the protection of an archangel and you are in a ring of Fire that tends to dampen your powers) is "probably unable to kill her cos he liked her",
and using a rapist's technique against her (Did he read her successfully [for once] cos she gave him long enough and he had nothing else to do, stuck in the ring? Did he read her mind when he touched her forehead? Idk but he knew what was coming from her.) by faking leaning in for a kiss and using her as a bridge to get out of the ring--leaving her screaming and burning as you walk out, is considered "attraction" and "sexual tension"--even a "crush" you always had, instead of victory over a hated enemy and survival. At least. If it happens between two characters coded male and female.