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I am an Angel of the Lord who probably would do well in finance, and I don't like to do what people expect. Thirty-four. White USian. Autistic, anxious depressive (with PTSD). Nonbinary/genderqueer (demigirl). She/they pronouns. Sex-indifferent pan gay greyromantic demisexual. INFP/ISFP. Survivor. Socialist. Feminist. Relativist. Agnostic atheist. Struggling college student (yes, still). Honest misanthrope (because humans are works of art but humanity is tainted by its hatreds, conceits, and deceits), almost never neutral (because the status quo isn't), and unapologetic slasher 'til death do I stop. I am things, I question things, I like things, I hate things, I watch things, I read things, I write things, I say things, I do things. Things happen on this blog.

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romanticize healthy relationships

#Same #Love #Relationships #Romantic love #KEEP IN MIND I DO NOT MEAN RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN HEALTHY PEOPLE #NOT NECESSARILY COS THAT WOULD BE JUST A BIT ABLEIST #I mean #Give me people who don't know how to love themselves BUT DO LOVE OTHERS learning how to do both #Not the fucking opposite: people who love themselves but hate everyone else treating people terribly until one lets them without hating back #and then all of a sudden that relationship is PERFECT #Stop giving me relationships where people hate each other's shit but want to fuck and romance anyway #Stop giving me relationships where people subvert themselves cos one of them is meaner than the other #Stop giving me a gracious lover and an abusive fighter #Codependency and counterdependency a dog and someone taking them for a walk #Now remember #The narrative can CHANGE #And people usually don't start OUT healthy but may be healthier in a relationship together later #provided they get to a point where they're totally different and they address what they were before #Provided they get to a point where doing what they used to do easily out of obligation inspires guilt #And they don't want to do it anymore and they SAY they don't want to do it anymore or visibly embody reluctance to do it #You can be unhealthy without knowing it until you're healthier and yeah #But yeah #I want relationships where people getting into them are healthy enough that they can support each other #Where they grow and learn and enable each other's growth #I'm attracted to relationships that facilitate change and kindness and open-mindedness not ones that stagnate intolerance and villainy #Hi yes this is me #Casual ableism cw #Life philosophy #Fandom is #Random

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