round and round the winchesters go

You’re right, it’s not.Demisexuals don’t really do one night stands (especially not in media, where one night stands, when consensual, are typically indicative of immediate attraction–and btw fucking someone in the car is not indicative of non-attracted ‘just having sex cos it’s a good situation’ sex-indifferent opportunism). Demis and Grey As don’t fuck someone and then flirt with someone else within hours. That’s allo behavior. Sam is and always has been straight and nothing else but straight. No ace. No aro. Just straight, but neurodivergent (post-traumatic and codependent) in a way that typically stops him pursuing things because of how it’s gone before, and because of his cowed, dependent, little brother role.

People need to fucking stop trying to shove Sam in, because he’s not a fucking demisexual and all they’re doing is muddling what demisexuals actually are to force their fave into queer discussions where he doesn’t belong, by twisting the text of his generally abstaining until it’s unrecognizable. I find it very offensive when people argue he does, honestly, because A) it’s bullshit and B) it’s always this really damn annoying reading of my orientation used to do it, like cos Sam is so allistic and normative in the ways he interacts with people (unlike autistic and marginally more disordered Dean) he can’t be like That Filthy Dean when it comes to to sex, he’s a Saint Who Makes Love to Loving Souls or what the fuck ever. I’m tired of it. He’s not queer, he’s never been queer, and if he were some form of ace, it wouldn’t be proof of damn innocence, contrary to popular belief.