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I’m kind of dying over how savvy and wise Cas seemed in front of Hannah, with all the metaphors and talking about humanity and being all mentor-y, but then the minute he’s alone with Dean he blurts out the first thing in his head and then when Dean jokes with him about it he gets all flustered and doesn’t know what to say hELP HE’S SO CUTE WITH HIS CRUSH
Do you think BDSM could help me channel shit I went through? I was raped and tortured by a man for three months of my 17th year of life- everything from gags to chains, and ropes. I have scars and I'm both scared of them, but it makes me excited and hopeful when i see lesbian BDSM scenes. I don't understand why. I'm a lesbian.
Because of the dynamics of D/s I can actually enjoy having sex. I’m a rape victim as well, sex was awful, sex was a performance for me with a sham standing ovation for my partner.
If you want to be domme I suggest understanding why, and what you are getting from this.
For me, it’s the safety, control, and I sincerely understand how much of a gift submission is. My partners, 9 times out of ten, are bigger and stronger than I am, but they still beg for permission, the big finale isn’t the mans orgasm, but my satisfaction. Yes I hit, choke, and say names, but my partner is very aware that they are safe too.
I say this because bdsm porn scenes are for the male gaze, and I understand that women like it just as rough as men do, but when it comes to sexualized violence against women, you really need to make sure that you are not ‘taking it out’ on the person. Some people enjoy that, but for a lot of people who claim to be dom/me’s it’s hard to control and it turns into abuse. BDSM can help with a lot of things, but it can also make shit worse, and you always need to make sure you have you and your partners best interest at heart.
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spn ladies meme: one hunter [tamara]
↳ I don’t give a rat’s ass if they’re the Three Stooges or the Four Tops! I’m gonna slaughter every last one of them!
#BTVS's relationship with femininity is really cool#bc it doesn't portray buffy's more girly interests as vapid or distracting - in fact several times they aid her#and it doesn't portray her hunter sides as masculine-coded really either#when the initiative comes in it's very manly but that too is led by a woman#and buffy's STILL better at it than all of them - not just physically but#she's the one who asks questions and doesn't just follow orders gung-ho#BASICALLY I JUST REALLY LOVE BUFFY AND WANT EVERYONE ELSE TO LOVE BUFFY#buffyverse (via)
andrew calling jesse to congratulate him for the part in the new batman vs superman film
andrew laughing picturing jesse bald and telling him he’s going to do a great job
andrew telling jesse he’s going to miss the curls
andrew asking jesse which one is better marvel or dc as a joke
Anna: You ready for this? Castiel: As I’ll ever be. Anna: It’s kinda funny when you think about it. Castiel: How could you possibly derive humour from this situation? Anna: Well, I mean, look at us: two fallen and rebelled angels with guns. Castiel: It’s definitely ironic. Anna: Guess we’re not as different as you thought, huh? Castiel: You got my back? Anna: Always. Castiel: Just like the old days.
“This is just like Sumeria all over again.”
“You and I remember Sumeria very differently.”
a summary of supernatural:
thats it thats the show
Autistic Cas leaning over and playfully biting (and chewing) on the shoulder/sleeve of Dean’s hoodie he’s wearing.
Dean laughing as Cas tugs on the hoodie with his teeth.
Dean and Cas ending up in a cuddle pile with Cas rubbing his face against Dean’s hoodie cause he likes the texture (and feeling/hearing Dean’s heart beat).
Dean finding he’s not so anxious when he’s around Cas.
[on how she got into acting] When I was five my brother was in a High School production of Chicago. I went to see him every night and memorized it, after closing night I went to my parents and told them that I wanted to be Roxy Heart. 10 years later we saw a local theatre company was doing a casting so I went down, and I got cast as Roxy, so that was a full circle moment for me.
quirkytaiwan:
13 Photos From Taiwan’s First Same-Sex Buddhist Marriage
Huang Mei-yu and Yu Ya-ting wed Saturday in a traditional Buddhist ceremony. Their union still isn’t recognized by the Taiwanese government, though support for gay marriage is mounting across Asia.
By Jessica Testa on Buzzfeed
Buddhist Master Shih Chao-hwei performed the ceremony, giving the women his full support: “I am certain you will lead a life of happiness together, especially after you have overcome so much difficulty and societal discrimination,” he said. “You have blessings not only from the Buddha, but also from those whom you may or may not know who are in attendance.”
OMG their dresses are so pretty!!!
