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Pink studio apartment in Washington | photos by Laura Metzler

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An elegant pre-war home in Warsaw | design by Colombe Design & photos by Kasia Gatkowska

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Muted colors in a Scandinavian apartment | styling by Rydman & photos by Boukari

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no one wants to hear it but love is earned after the initial infatuation. commitment is something u both mutually agree to and then from there it’s work. it’s not work like it’s a chore it’s jus work like it takes effort. to get good at these things takes practice. it takes practice to learn to communicate better and it takes practice to learn to love each other in the ways u need to be loved.

And it’s also terrifying! Like it’s the kind of vulnerability you can’t do while being all cool and in control of things, you have to like open up the really awkward, ugly inner part of yourself and hope that the other person is still into you. 

Like you have to actually say - with words coming out of your mouth or hands or whatever way you use to directly communicate in person - what you would like from the other person! You have to say stuff like “hey the thing you did made me feel some ways and we have to address this like adults” and hope that the other person says “I see, yes I also think we should address this like adults” (instead of “no I didn’t” or “you’re overreacting” or other shut-down-ing shit that ruins lives). 

Worth the read my oh my

in 2018 i coped and learned to enjoy spending time with myself

in 2019 i aim to become labeled as a terrorist by the state 

2017: dumb bitch

2018: sad bitch

2019: bad bitch

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— F. Scott Fitzgerald // The Sensible Thing