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SarahTheCoat

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blumineck

Calling all artists, animators, and fans of fun and useful pose references! In 2 weeks time I will be taking part in @adorkastock & Friends' MASSIVE Group Poses for Artists Shoot.

We've got a bunch of models of different sizes and shapes, more props than you can shake a stick at (including bows, a pole and a POOL), and two full days of shooting to get as many reference photos as we possibly can. It's gonna be awesome, and there will be some PHENOMENAL references coming out of this.

If you'd like to pre-order Photo packs, you have until the 25th October. Get them here:

In the meantime, as a taster, here are some of the photos from last time I collaborated with @null-entity (who's also part of this project!) Enjoy!

(You can find the rest of these sets in my Patreon Shop)

@blumineck I know you're a professional and it seems like the photographer is as well, but these photos are making the Health & Safety Inspector part of my brain go crazy. How did you ensure the safety of your fellow model while appearing to point a drawn arrow at him? Is it clever use of perspective? A prop bow?

Great question! The arrow is not, in fact, on the string in that shot. The string sits next to the arrow, so if I were to accidentally release it, it would pass harmlessly by without propelling anything into anyone’s face. I wouldn’t do a shot like that if there were any chance of shooting the arrow!

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Three cats died after their owners used an anti-inflammatory cream used to treat arthritis. The Food and Drug Administration warns to keep drugs away from pets; a tiny bit can be toxic.

Important for spoonies with cats! Creams with Flurbiprofen are fatal to cats. Brands that use this chemical (Not a complete list): Myoflex Traumeel Capzasin If you have cats, check your pain relieving cream for this, and keep them from ingesting it, please!

Oh no! Boosting for all cat owners.

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feuervogel

All NSAIDs are toxic to cats - this includes ibuprofen (Advil/Motrin), Aleve (naproxen), Voltaren – which also comes in a gel form – (diclofenac), Mobic (meloxicam), aspirin… If you’re unsure, ask your pharmacist or check drugs.com.

Signed, your friendly local former pharmacist

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arctic-hands

I don't see people talking about this so today is the 110th anniversary of the Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire, in where the factory owners locked working women and girls inside to "eliminate the risk of theft" (in reality it was too keep them from taking breaks), which resulted in the gruesome deaths of 123 mostly immigrant women and girls and 23 men, many of whom jumped to their deaths from the ninth floor either in a panicked attempt to escape or in order to die quickly. There were reports that some of the workers were on fire already as they jumped.

The eighth floor of the building was able to telephone the tenth floor to warn them about the fire, but the factory on the ninth floor where these women and girls labored had no such communication and such warning.

The factory owners were criminally charged with manslaughter for actions that contributed to the mass deaths but acquitted. However, this tragedy led to mass sympathy to the labor movement, and unions spurred on safety regulations that passed in New York state and eventually the entire country, and activists were able to reduce child labor in the process.

This tragedy is a reminder that has been forgotten in the 110 years since: every safety regulation-- every scrap of paperwork contributing to the hundreds of pages of red tape people like to complain about--every word of it was written in the blood of a laborer.

111th anniversary

They were discouraged from breaks because they were actively trying to unionize, and bosses felt that keeping them from unsupervised contact would prevent them from joining the garment workers' union.

This is why unions are important. This is why today, right now, the biggest companies in America are trying to squash unionization of their laborers and why those workers are fighting so hard to unionize.

@tikkunolamorgtfo did a great write-up a few years ago about the aftermath of the Triangle Shirtwaist fire, and I highly recommend reading it (and anything else you can about the fire). It is painfully relevant still and it's incredibly important women's, Jewish, immigrants', and workers' history.

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mortuarybees

it’s hilarious how polite and proper aziraphale is with everyone except crowley. like his inflection is completely different talking to anathema or gabriel compared to when he’s talking to crowley. with crowley he’s always very enthusiastic or expressive, or whiny or irritable or passive aggressive. it’s literally Bitchiness As Intimacy

“Bitchiness As Intimacy”

I now understand myself so much more!

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suzypfonne

That’s because the bitchy little cupcake has to perform “Angel” for everyone else. Crowley knows him, inside and out 😏 There’s no need to put up that facade, even as he still tries to maintain his plausible deniability around everything else. He gets to be his (fairly human) self with his husband. How freeing to not have to be perfect.

This is an excellent companion to “Crowley loves to complain to Aziraphale because it is safe for him to do so”. 🩷

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At some point, when you have a moment and if you feel like it, I would love to hear your thoughts on Angel Crowley from [Before the] Beginning of S2. :)

I don’t know if I have anything too novel to say, but I am happy to type up some of my thoughts!

If we met the Starmaker without already knowing Crowley, I think he would seem kind, exuberant, and clever. But, of course, we meet the Starmaker when we already know who Crowley will be, and so the way he comes across, really, is naïve. Even while we are positioned to contrast the Starmaker with Crowley, we are also given ample opportunity to contrast him with Aziraphale. That’s what I find the most interesting, really: how the Starmaker differs from Aziraphale.

There are two interconnected questions that I am struck with, when I think about how the Starmaker compares to Aziraphale:

  1. Why is the Starmaker so much more naïve than Aziraphale?
  2. Why does the Starmaker fall, when Aziraphale didn’t?

Given the little we know, I believe there are personal, interpersonal, and social factors related to the answers to both questions.

Let’s start with the social factors. We don’t know where exactly the Starmaker is within Heaven’s hierarchy, but he’s at least reasonably high up. We also don’t know where he is, relative to Aziraphale, but it is reasonable to interpret Aziraphale’s introduction (and Starmaker’s lack thereof) as evidence that Aziraphale is lower in the hierarchy than him: he seems to anticipate that Aziraphale already knows who he is, whereas Aziraphale has no similar assumption. This is important, given how social position affects epistemological position.

Within a system of oppression, those who are in a position of privilege are less capable of recognizing and understanding the system surrounding them. This is how privilege functions: it obscures the reality of the oppression that makes it possible. In other words, social privilege implies epistemological disprivilege. The fact that Aziraphale is lower rank indicates that he likely is in a better position to recognize the oppressive elements to the Heavenly hierarchy. The Starmaker, on the other hand, is less capable of picking up on the problems inherent within the system, because he (generally, so far as we know, and up until this point) has benefited from that system. Aziraphale knows to be cautious about presenting criticisms, whereas the Starmaker does not.

Interpersonal factors. We know extremely little about this. If we take seriously Crowley’s comments about “Lucifer and the guys” in S1, then it seems plausible that the Starmaker had a reasonably sized social group. He had friends, perhaps. And we all know what they say: if all your friends decided to get pushed off a cliff, you’re probably going to get pushed off, along with them.

It is very hard to read Aziraphale, on the other hand, as anything but very lonely. There are other angels working on the same projects, and maybe we just don’t see his meaningful connections to others. However, it seems likely to me at least that Aziraphale just didn’t have friends the way that the Starmaker did. This means that, to some extent or another, the Starmaker was better positioned to feel safe, loved, and protected, compared to Aziraphale.

(On a side note, I am also very curious about what sort of relationship, if any, the Starmaker had with Gabriel. Did they know each other? Did they work together? Could they possibly have been like brothers? Crowley knows Michael well enough to know that they're a "wanker"--when did he come to make that judgment?)

Personal factors. The one thing we know about the Starmaker is that he makes stars. He’s an engineer, in other words. Now, there are certain styles of thought and engagement with the world that tend to be common among those who go into engineering. It’s a problem-solving profession: you see a problem, you solve it. Engineering usually also prioritizes simplicity-as-elegance in solutions. The idea of there being a problem that can’t be solved is intolerable. The idea of a problem that is allowed to continue even when a simple solution is available is even more intolerable. Engineers are also susceptible to what is sometimes called “Engineer’s Disease,” or an overextended confidence in the correctness and universality of one’s own perspective. Consider the idea of a suggestion box. The Starmaker would appreciate it, and so he is certain that everyone else would appreciate it as well.  He dismisses Aziraphale’s warning because he isn’t used to the idea that what is apparent to him might actually be false.

It also seems pretty clear that the Starmaker really enjoys the work that he does. He’s been working on a project (for how long? With whom?), and he absolutely adores this project. He gets real meaning and joy out of tinkering with the universe in order to bring his star factory into existence. He's happy, and that matters.

Additionally, let’s think about how Aziraphale and the Starmaker (might) process information differently. I think Aziraphale is introverted while the Starmaker is extroverted. I don’t mean in terms of how “energized” they feel about being alone or with others, but instead about how internal or external their thinking and feeling processes are. The Starmaker tends to process things through external faculties. He talks out his thoughts, he gesticulates, and his emotions are immediately apparent in his expression and mood. (Crowley is far less externally apparent with his thoughts and feelings. I take this to be a learned behavior. But still, this snake slithers when he needs to think.) Aziraphale, on the other hand, can keep his thoughts and feelings a lot closer to the chest. It is easier for him to notice something, solve a problem, experience a reaction, form a belief, etc., without showing it to the whole world.

So, let’s put these pieces together.

Why is the Starmaker more naïve than Aziraphale? The Starmaker is in a more privileged position, which means that it is harder for him to identify the oppressive system surrounding him. He additionally has friends and meaningful work that leave him fulfilled and satisfied. He is predisposed to expect those around him to see things the same way he does, and that means that he expects that problems will be solved and questions will be answered.

Why does the Starmaker fall while Aziraphale doesn’t? Recognizing the flaws in the system is not as sudden or dramatic for Aziraphale. He’s in a better position to recognize the flaws in the system. He also, it seems, is far better able to tolerate apparent problems. He doesn’t encounter the world with a clear certainty that solutions can be found and will be accepted. He also can think his thoughts and feel his feelings without making them apparent to others.  He doesn’t have friendships the way the Starmaker does, and so he is less likely to be caught up in others’ drama. He has less experience feeling safe and trusted, and so it is easier for him to recognize how he isn't safe and what/who can’t be trusted.

In other words, it’s what we’ve all known all along: the Starmaker fell because he couldn’t imagine it would be dangerous to ask questions. Aziraphale didn’t because he wouldn’t have tried asking them in the first place.

That’s where my thoughts are, right now, at least.

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The average person has two thoughts a day about Crowley's psychology, whereas Crowleys Georg...

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I'm still working out what the significance of this is, but I'm now surer than ever:

In season 2, Aziraphale's bookshop is the Garden of Eden.

What first tipped me off was the end of 2x01, when Gabriel asks about Outside, and Crowley urgently warns him that he needs to stay inside the bookshop. It reverberated against the themes of season 1, where choosing freedom over safety is symbolised by Leaving the Garden. Supporting this connection, one of the songs on the season 2 soundtrack is called Leaving the Bookshop; it plays in 2x06 when Crowley escorts Nina and Maggie outside.

There's an even clearer indicator of the symbolism, though, and I am so fascinated by the implications. When Gabriel first arrives at the bookshop in a state of undress, one of the things he says to Aziraphale is:

"Who told you I was naked?"

It's a funny line but it's also surprisingly biblically significant. In Genesis, Adam and Eve's loss of innocence after eating the fruit of knowledge is shown by their realisation they are naked. In this scene, Gabriel is like them before this transgression, innocent and unconscious of his own nakedness.

But it's even more on the nose than that, because in Genesis, when God appears to Adam after he eats the fruit, Adam hides, and then admits he's afraid because he's naked. And I quote directly, Genesis 3:11 (New International Version):

And [God] said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree that I commanded you not to eat from?”

I'm sure this reference is intended. It's too similar to be a coincidence. So Gabriel's memory loss is comparable to the innocence that preceded the Fall of Man, and that's fascinating in its own right. This also makes the bookshop, where he is protected so long as he stays inside its walls, a clear parallel to Eden.

In relation to Gabriel, I think Beelzebub is Eve, offering Adam the knowledge of good and evil in the form of a fly holding his hidden memories. An argument could be made that they are the serpent to his Eve, but I think the partnered dynamic makes this a more fitting interpretation.

I'm still thinking on the roles that Crowley and Aziraphale play in this analogy. I keep coming back to Gabriel's line, "I don't go outside, and now I have two friends." If this is Eden, who are his friends? Are Crowley and Aziraphale reprising their roles as the serpent and the guardian? Are they God and Satan playing games with their own little universe, perhaps? Or are they Adam and Eve?

Obviously, if the bookshop is Eden, this has major implications for Crowley and Aziraphale too in the context of their break up. With this framing, Crowley telling Aziraphale, "You can't leave this bookshop" becomes a fascinating twist on his traditional role. He's asking Aziraphale to stay with him in blissful ignorance, rather than confront the truth of their world. I'm not arguing that this is the only level at which this line should be read, but it's one that's worth considering.

You may also notice that in light of this biblical reference, "Who told you I was naked" becomes the first time amnesiac Gabriel echoes the words of God. I'm really not sure what these echoes mean, but they sure do intrigue me.

Crowley also gave something away to protect Gabriel and Beelzebub when they left the bookshop.

Shut the fuck up I'm OBSESSED with this.

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fdelopera

i love this, especially considering the way the walls of Eden mirror the architecture of Aziraphale's bookshop. those architectural parallels are more than a clever easter egg -- they are thematically essential to the story.

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oh my god . guys . azirpahale’s whole thing is that he’s SAFE . he doesn’t go fast . he tends to hold onto things of comfort . he lives a relatively quiet life in a bookshop . i think we all know that him saying “ nothing lasts forever “ was his “ i love you “ because he’s willing to give his bookshop up . but it’s so much MORE than that . it’s him giving up that safety , that certainty . it’s him saying “ i don’t need to be safe and steady anymore because i’ll have you with me and you matter more . i WANT to give that up because you’ll be with me . “

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genuinely friendly reminder to never EVER share someone’s location/information without their explicit permission. you do not know why that person is asking, what they plan to do with that information, or even if the asker has that person’s best interest in mind at all.

OP is also not exaggerating how common this is. my abusive parents successfully kidnapped me from work once because a coworker who didn’t know my situation told them when my next shift was. my parents didn’t even know where I lived at that point in time, which was very much on purpose. it took me days to get away again. ALWAYS tell the person that is being looked for that someone is looking. never share personal information or even how to get in contact them. you can take information in and pass it along, but you absolutely cannot give any out.

[image descriptions: screencap of tweets from rahaeli @rahaeli 7/9/21.

Hello friends, your regular reminder that a not insignificant number of social media “missing person” efforts are actually someone’s abuser trying to get them back, especially with missing older teens. Please don’t share unofficial missing person flyers–

–and if you do spot/know the person in them, tell THAT PERSON someone is looking for them instead of providing any information to the person doing the looking.

I cannot tell you how many times I have seen a site wide “missing person” turn into the person writing in to ask us to enforce the restraining order, or the custodial parent begging us to shut down the non custodial parent’s attempted kidnapping

Every time I say this, someone says “but what if it’s real, better safe than sorry” and no, it absolutely is not. For a good while I got “this is my abuser, please make them stop” requests for 70-80% of the viral unofficial missing persons crossing my feed.

This number is obviously anecdata–I’ve never been able to find a peer reviewed study attempting to pin down prevalance. But based on those experiences, I absolutely advise never sharing one of those posts.

(I used to finish this PSA thread saying that if a missing person alert came from police or a federal agency, it had likely been screened for abusive tactics and was more likely to be real. I no longer say this.)

This should be your principle for any time someone wants you to connect them with someone else, btw. Never give someone’s info to the person who asked. Tell the asker you’ll give that third party THEIR contact info instead.

–and if you do spot/know the person in them, tell THAT PERSON someone is looking for them instead of providing any information to the person doing the looking.

I will probably be muting this in a bit, but some followup: for those questioning “just how often does this happen, even?”, I wasn’t keeping an exact count but I think we just hit double digits of people saying “this happened to me/a friend” in replies to QTs of this

As in, of the current 70 or so quote tweets, around 10% of them have a person telling a story about a time their abuser faked a social media post expressing concern over them as a missing/vulnerable person in order to continue abusing them.

It’s not rare. It’s not unusual. It is, in fact, vastly more common than *any* dangerous situation in which social media attention can do literally anything to improve the situation. (I’ve rarely seen a dangerous situation massive social media attention can improve, honestly.)

To the people who want to argue about this advice: I have, more than once, personally seen an abuser’s viral missing persons post end in suicide or homicide. I have never in 20 years seen a case of stranger kidnapping at all, much less one that’s resolved by virality.

All I’m asking you to understand is that the abusers who do this are very, very good at convincing you their “missing person” is irrational, in danger, or has diminished capacity. You will never be able to spot these situations by reading over a single post. Ever.

If you want to retweet missing personsviral alerts because you want to do good in the world, please understand that there is a much, much greater statistical chance you are *actually* contributing to making things much worse for the person instead. Please just think about that.

And to answer the “well why are you qualified to say this”, since this has gotten way out of my usual circles: hi, I’ve been working trust and safety/ToS on social media for 20 years now. I am never, ever the person with the worst stories when I go out drinking with others.

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If you’re doubting this the thing you have to remember is that stranger kidnapping is very rare, for either children or adults. The vast majority of the time, when someone is kidnapped or held against their will, it’s by someone they already know, someone close to them: a parent, a partner, that sort of thing. So if someone has been kidnapped or whatever, the people closest to them (who are usually the ones to put up missing posters and whatnot) should be the first suspects, not the last. It’s possible that the person putting up the missing person fliers is the parent who has custody and the noncustodial parent kidnapped the kids … but it’s just as possible that the person putting up fliers is the noncustodial parent who is doing this as part of a plot to find the kids so they can kidnap them. You can’t tell which is which just from seeing the flyer.

And when people choose to leave voluntarily and cut all contact with people close to them, they don’t just do it on a whim. There’s pretty much always a reason. For example, the people they’re cutting contact with might be shitty and abusive. Now, the reason might also be “the person leaving is messed up by drugs” or whatnot, or “they’re being forced by an abuser to cut contact.” Those are also reasons. But a lot of people who cut contact with someone in their life do it for very good and valid reasons. You can’t tell which is which just from seeing the flyer.

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remember this especially now with so many trans and gay people fleeing states that are passing anti lgbtq laws

i guarantee there’s going to be homophobic families saying their “mentally disturbed family member” is missing

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