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Beauty, whimsy, and a touch of melancholia
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The daily routine of most adults is so heavy and artificial that we are closed off to much of the world. We have to do this in order to get our work done. I think one purpose of art is to get us out of those routines. When we hear music or poetry or stories, the world opens up again. We’re drawn in — or out — and the windows of our perception are cleansed, as William Blake said. The same thing can happen when we’re around young children or adults who have unlearned those habits of shutting the world out.

Ursula Le Guin

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thesofthuman

the world is heartbreaking every day and the world is beautiful every day and we have to pay attention to both

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Daily "avoiding hopelessness" checklist

Hey, friends. I know I've been really struggling to look towards the future with any kind of hope, so here are some little things I've been trying to do every day that might help you, too.

  • Accept that your productivity might look weird right now. Don't expect yourself to act as if nothing is wrong.
  • Make art. I try to write something every day, even if I don't really feel like it, and I've found that once I get into it, I'm grateful I did.
  • Do something to plan for the future. Doesn't have to be big. Even getting some ice cream you know future you will thank you for counts.
  • Eat. Even if you're not hungry. I keep skipping meals because I don't feel like eating, and then I force myself to make something and realize I was absolutely starving.
  • Clean up one thing in your space. If doing all the dishes and sweeping the floors and putting away laundry all feel too overwhelming, try just doing one of those things.
  • Lean on your online and offline communities. I live in a county that voted trump by a margin of eighty percent. My world feels scary and hostile right now, and it's my communities that are helping me feel hopeful.
  • Try to find one thing that feels normal. One thing that feels safe and normal and helps you feel a bit more grounded. My local grocery store just got their shipment of chocolate oranges in for the season. That's my thing.
  • Try to find one thing to look forward to, no matter how small. My thing is checking my ao3 inbox for comments on my fics.

Love you all <3

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museenkuss

Marie Museenkuss survival guide for the dark months

move body every day (Pilates, flexibility, yoga, dancing tutorials on YouTube — to keep my body warm and happy and my spirit entertained)

one lunch/shopping/other date with friends a week (to make sure I’m not sinking into self-isolation, to exchange words, thoughts and concepts, to laugh together)

1h of reading a day (to keep myself inspired)

one good film a week (to keep myself inspired visually, to starve off the bottomless scrolling spiral)

one outing a week (Museum, cinema, reading, anything to get out of the house and remember that there is more than darkness, sludge and dread. Also to spend time with myself (or friends/family?) and appreciate the opportunities that going to new places and seeing new things/people give me)

do something with hands (knitting, writing, anything I can hold in my hands later on to remember how I passed the time)

take care of appearance (coordinate outfits both at home and outside, do nails, use scrubs, get ears re-pierced etc to feel comfortable in my own skin and avoid sinking into apathy, to bring pops of colour into the grey)

stimulate the senses as often as possible (new foods, colourful notebooks, playlists, scarves with interesting patterns — anything to keep myself alert, interested and entertained)

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Dolls’ house made by Frans and Christina Bosdyk in Picton, New South Wales, 1997-2006. It is is heavily influenced by traditional 17th century Dutch dolls houses and is made to 1/10-1/12 scale, with 20 rooms and a working electrical system. The style of the building and rooms span a period from late nineteenth century to the 1950s and portrays aspects of Dutch and Australian life from that time (via).

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