yeah seriously. it's up to men who don't suck to talk to the ones who do. just like it's up to white people who don't suck to talk to the racist ones. just like a black person can't argue with someone who wants them dead, i can't argue with people who say "your body my choice." we put ourselves in danger as you said. it's time for all those male feminists to step the fuck up. time for allies of all kind to step the fuck up and do something. instead, a lot of people who pretended to be allies to various marginalized groups are saying shit like "i think democrats should be meaner to trans people actually" like what the everloving fuck. or at least, we are learning who actually meant anything they said and who just lets the wind blow them around.
also, honestly, probably we should do something about the unregulated social media "news" that are feeding these young men misogyny and racism and funneling them toward more extreme versions of that. but again, that's not the job of the women they date. like it's great when women do issue ultimata like "if you don't stop with the racism i'm going to dump you" and stick to it, but that doesn't always work in getting those men to disengage (it does sometimes though). and it only works if the ultimatum has any power, if you do actually dump his racist ass.
with the rise in interest in 4B, men are about to learn that solving their "loneliness" by hating women and voting for fewer rights for them has consequences of more loneliness. just like all the dumbshits who voted for trump because "borger too spensive" are about to learn just how fucking expensive borger can get with his "beautiful" tariffs!!!
exactly!
