I feel like half the time someone complains about TikTok "making up symptoms" for something like ADHD or Autism it's just a guy with adhd/autism sharing an experience they think others with adhd/autism would relate to and then it reaches the wrong audience.
Like, no, just 'forgetting things' doesn't mean you automatically have ADHD but believe it or not, no one here said that was true. It's true for that guy though. But not you. Stop thinking every experience should always apply to you, that's where you're going wrong here.