"I have said this many times, and I will keep repeating myself until I'm blue in the face, because it's that important.
I will die on this hill.
That being said...
... DATING IS NOT INCLUSIVE.
Dating, by its very nature, is discriminatory. The concepts of inclusion and exclusion shouldn't even touch the realm of dating.
Shaming people over their preferences and sexual orientation is predatory.
Shaming people out of their boundaries? Predatory.
It's manipulation, coercion, it's gaslighting.
Inclusion is having access to that which you are entitled. You are not entitled to any of the following: someone's time, someone's personal space, someone's body.
No means no. This mantra should have graduated to common sense, but it hasn't.
No one has to justify their boundaries. Take your rejection and move on to someone who actually wants you."
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The fact that there are people who want to harangue others into being with them who don't want to be with them, and regard themselves as having a higher morality, a more pious, more enlightened being, shows how far things have come off the rails.
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