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Every Woman Needs a Pair of Red Shoes...

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Hello! Once you get this you have to answer with 5 things you like about yourself, publicly, then send this on to 10 of your favorite followers (non- negotiable, positivity is super cool!) 💕

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OKAY FINE FI - JUST, YK, MAKE ME DO A HEALTHY THING.  I’M FINE WITH THAT. I’M COOL.

I like that I have become more patient as the years have gone by - this was not easy and i still work on it all the time. Yays!I like my attention to others’ feelings - I place high value on being a good friend, and yet the spectrum-y brain does not make it easy to note those ‘feelings cues’ things!  I WORK AT THAT.  and it’s working, apparently :)

I like that I have become more dedicated to self-care.  I used to put myself dead last.  Now I’m starting to take care of my health, mental and physical.  Like an actual adult (in my *cough* 50s!)

I like that being drawn down a spiritual path is something I haven’t remained complacent about, but rather I study and work at it daily.  I challenge my preconceptions, and the study challenges me!

I like that I am actually developing new dreams and new life-goals.  I wasn’t really thinking about the possibility of that happening, and that’s really cool :)

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lunadove

Something cool I just noticed about Arrival is that Louise Banks’ outfits are always incredibly practical. She’s never unnecessarily sexualized in the movie. 

90% of the time she’s wearing whatever can be scrounged up in the goverment’s base camp. Her face has minimal make-up and looks pale, and her hair is almost always tucked up into a messy knot. This fits in with the story, because she’s under tremendous stress and working long hours with almost no sleep, so it’s realistic that she looks disheveled.  

It’s just really cool that this film realized there’s no reason for Louise to be sexualized, and just decided to let her be disheveled and untidy, and dress how someone in her situation would realistically be dressed. 

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ecouter-bien

And on that (clothing) note, I noticed that she only really starts to make progress once she takes her bulky hazmat suit off. She learns from them when she reveals/exposes herself, physically and, later, emotionally.

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votedami

The thing I hate most about depression is that it tricks you into thinking you don’t have depression. It makes you think that nothing is wrong with you, that you just feel this way because you lack value as a person. Whether that’s in your relationships, your academics, or a view of yourself, it makes you think you aren’t good enough for any of that.

“It’s not the illness,” it says, “You feel this way because it’s who you are.”

Me: I can’t get out of bed today, what is wrong with me. I’m so lazy and terrible and I am a huge flake and there has got to be something wrong with me. My brain: There is no war in Ba Sing Se.

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merindab

Still reading “You Mean I’m Not Lazy, Crazy or Stupid?” - a book for and about adults with add. And this is all me, especially that last bit.

rbing again to add that I want to thank op for posting this. seeing this on my dash several months ago was the very first time I ever considered I could have ADD/ADHD inattentive. I never had the slightest idea before. fast forward to now and I’ve been going to therapy and on medication and things have turned around so much for the better.

I’m so glad to hear that! That’s why I posted it, because I knew I couldn’t be the only person that this rang I giant bell with.

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darkpuck

I WAS THAT LITTLE GIRL. THAT WAS ME.

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dsudis

I was AT THE SAME TIME this little girl and the “trouble with bright girls” little girl–I was told that I was smart enough to “compensate” so I didn’t need treatment/help, so anything I had difficulty with I had to avoid like the plague because even though I knew why it was hard for me because I had been told I had ADD, I also knew that my status of smartness was at risk any time I struggled with something, and had no idea how to actually consciously deal with my ADD when natural ability/terror of deadlines didn’t get me through.

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