The After Hours

Maybe TMI for main but [look away now if u need to]

I had very gay sex with my, previously very dom very top, boyfriend who, for some reason, slipped into bottom mode last night

And uhhhhhhhh

Being able to top your very big 6'2 dom boyfriend whilst he begs you to fuck him is fucking incredible actually

It's been (checks calendar) over a year since I topped anyone and I missed ittttttttttt

Thankfully he seemed a big fan so 👀👀👀

I need to find ways of making my current situation more bearable bc in the interim whilst I keep looking for a permanent job, I am effectively trapped on my house from 9-5pm mon-fri sitting at a desk, staring at a screen all day doing admin

Not only is it soul destroying but its also body destroying

Honestly my body has never been so sore and uncomfortable. And normally my out of work activities are things like writing, playing video games, watching TV and films, talking to friends online etc but by the time I've finished work it's dark outside & I've spent all day in a box on a computer. So I don't want to spend all evening doing the same thing 😩

I've also had about 6 or 7 different interviews for in person or hybrid roles and not gotten any of them so my Confinement of 2024 sadly endures

Anyway, the point of this is: do people who work from home have any tips on how to cope with such a set up?

Damn excuse me we have how many seasons of Demon Slayer now???

Last time I watched we were only just getting S3 and I feel like it wasn't that long ago????

Maybe the trauma compressed time for me

anyway, hi friends!

Moved into my new house almost 2 weeks ago + I'm spending my first night alone (on halloween boo) as my partners gone to a gig

I bought myself the new sims life + death expansion pack with the intention of playing today but I'm also considering catching up with Demon Slayer, JJk or some other equally spoopy anime

I do also have 2 computer screens now so I could even do.... both...at the same time... hmmmm

omg I missed the boops last time so

happy boopaween

There's nothing quite like your father in law saying very loudly at 12am in a room with you, your partner, and your mother in law: "well he (my partner) is hung like a bloody horse ain't he?"

I literally could not stop laughing whilst his mother looked horrified 🤣🤣

Me this week: oh it'll be fine, packing will only take a few hours

Me, currently packing: whyyyyyyyyy???? Its taken me TWO HOURS just to do my clothes

We finally have final, final confirmation that we're moving tomorrow and picking up the keysssssssssss

I've held off on being excited until everything was finalised in case of some kind of last minute disaster but its happeningggg

Me and my partner will be moving in together for the first time into this beautiful 2 bedroom flat. It's got literally everything I wanted: lots of natural light, a huge kitchen, in a nice quiet area just 10 minutes walk from a "town" centre and it has a spacious living room that's big enough for a table so we'll be able to host games nights at our house and a spare room for people to stay over in

Honestly, now it's confirmed I feel such a sense of relief. Its been a horrendous process full of uncertainty and last minute arrangements so I'm glad it's mostly over. We just have to actually move in 😂

I told my partner back in March I wanted to live with with him and I'm so happy it's finally happening? No more saying goodbye, no more staying over. Living together. Cuddles everyday. Kdhdkdhdodkdldld.

I'm still a little nervous because oh god what if we're not compatible living together or something. I'm sure it will be fine but living with a partner, especially with prior horrible experiences, is an experiment in really getting to know each other.

I'm still excited thoughhhh.

And his parents have been sooooo nice??? They not only paid our deposit but are driving up to London tomorrow to gift us a bunch of furniture and help us move in??? Which is unfathomable to me as a person with a less than helpful parent.

Now I just have to...pack.

And then survive tomorrow.

Wish me luck!