one of the more interesting gender selectors i've seen

contrary to popular belief not everyone has an innate sense of internal gender or care to have one or seek a name for it, some people go their whole lives without questioning their occupation in one of two gender roles, but for some people, if pressed, they don’t feel that internal sense of ‘i am a woman’ or ‘i am a man’, and in that case i feel the switch over to transgender vs cisgender relies on active identification of a gender other than the one they were assigned. if someone’s like ‘idk dude I just work here’ then that’s valid

#i would describe my gender as not exactly ‘idk dude i just work here’ #more like…..when someone assumes you work somewhere that you don’t #but you know how to help them so you do it anyway #my gender is wearing a red shirt at a target

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A portion of people in the notes are like ‘but that makes you trans. That’s called being agender’ and another portion of people are going ‘this is how the majority of cis ppl feel and it’s NOT agender’ and personally I feel like both of them are missing the point here. Yes a lot of people identify as agender because of this feeling. Yes a lot of people with this same feeling still identify as cis. These are not mutually exclusive experiences and it doesn’t mean the agender people are secretly cis or the cis people are secretly agender. It just means they have very similar experiences of gender that they choose to conceptualize and label differently, and neither of them are mistaken or wrong to do so.

gender is a performance and i missed rehearsals

VICTOR/VICTORIA (1982) dir. Blake Edwards

YOUNG MAN!

There's no need to feel down,

I MEAN YOUNG THEY!

I forgot your pronoun,

Prev do you think it's okay to just go on other people's posts and be funnier than them?

transmisc. transmiscellaneous.

Girlboy with a he/him pin on one sleeve and a she/her pin on the other. Two people sitting on either side of her aggressively correcting each other on his pronouns

*her pronouns

*his pronouns

ah the two genders Wabbit Season and Duck Season

Alleviating gender dysphoria, not with binding or packing, but a secret third thing (padding your waist and ribs until they are the same size as your breasts)

I’m sorry but this comment is sending me

the replies are killing me

if cis people are so great then why don’t they have a siberian orchestra 

my step mom was asking me more questions about the nonbinary thing and after talking to me for a bit, she said "oh, so youre a rosé! not a chardonnay transitioning to a merlot, just your own unique type" which was such a middle aged white woman way to frame it, but i cannot lie gang. it did make me want to cry

This is the funniest thing on the internets today, don't you hide it in the tags

“Thought that was a beautiful butch lesbian but it’s just a man” did you know these things aren’t mutually exclusive

anyways shout out to butch lesbians who are also men, if you have a million fans I am one of them, if you have one fan that fan is me, if you have no fans, I am no longer alive, if the world is against butch lesbians who are also men, I am against the world

Third, secret option: Niobium

Knowledge is empowering

you can literally get gender changers for like $3

someone can ask me the definition of gender and I’ll just say "david tennant in shakespeare plays" :

I love that David is willingly and consciously androgynous in every Shakespeare role, but all in different ways...

Yeah no this is my gender now, this is what I'll say when people ask.

"What's in your pants?" (Begins reciting Hamlet in a shitty Tennant impression)

Yeah no this is my

gender now, this is what I’ll

say when people ask.

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

Girlboy with a he/him pin on one sleeve and a she/her pin on the other. Two people sitting on either side of her aggressively correcting each other on his pronouns

*her pronouns

*his pronouns

G… gender roles? [I open my hand, confused, and reveal a fistful of dnd dice] Which one do I…?

You get it