these motherfuckers don’t deserve any pussy. fuck their dumb asses. ladies, when a guy asks you out and suggests a place to go, ALWAYS suggest another place to see if his ass is some lame pua wannabe. fellas, stop being a bunch of insecure pussies. this ISN’T how you prove yourselves to be alphas. smfh. real men know when to flex and when to chill, this was a fucking “chill” moment and he blew trying to be “alpha.” dumbass.
“do not tolerate disagreement” wtf?!?! some of you motherfuckers want a fucking dog NOT a woman.
Don’t give men a pass. These are real men. This is a man problem. This guy’s honest about wanting a doormat because he’s too stupid and undeservedly confident to realize how laughable and pathetic he is and comes off as. But plenty of men who are much smoother, who show you a good time, turn out to want exactly what this guy says: submission, sex, and undeserved gratitude for his existence.
I’ve read some of this stuff and it’s like NLP for incels basically. It’s easy to find.
A few examples:
- Constantly move her around, each time she follows you build compliance
- Ask for little things, which again builds compliance
- Get lots of little yeses in a row to make it harder for her to say no
- Location - make it easier for her to come back to yours than get home (eg drive her somewhere)
- Talk her into selling herself, once she is in the mindset of demonstrating her value she will retrospectively believe she must have done it because you are high value
- Deep dive - basically show interest in her as a person, but in a laid back way so she thinks you’re both interested but not amazed
- As soon as she fails to comply, ruin the moment completely and “snap out of it” then try again to escalate to sex (so she will comply so as not to ruin things again)
- Use female friends to look popular and well-adjusted so she doesn’t see you as a threat, then basically act as a threat now she has talked herself out of being scared of you
- Don’t have conversations by text or phone, just use it to get her to meet you alone
I suggest straight women read as much of this stuff as they can, it’s obviously effective because it’s psychological manipulation. Some men are naturally good at this stuff, some pay for “courses” in it… Some become Elliott Rodger.
No. Just no. If he feels emasculated by change in venue then he is not the man for you. If he uses any of these PUA tactics on you, just walk away. Treat each other like people. Why is that so fuckin hard?!?
PUA = “Pick-Up Artistry”
NLP = Neuro-Linguistic Programming
This is horrible and gross to read. But as a survivor of emotional manipulation, emotional and sexual abuse myself, I feel this needs to be spread.
Please stay save.
As a gay man, I can say I’ve seen this with gay men, straight men, lesbians, and straight women. Little controlling things build into big controlling things.
Little things to make the potential romantic partner feel insecure, or like they have to try harder.
Having to guess how the other person is feeling and being treated like they have to make up for not getting things right.
Things like “if you don’t know, I’m not going to tell you”.
There are lots of truly awful and toxic traits. Like telling you who you are allowed or not allowed to be friends with. Or wanting to know your login passwords for ANYTHING.
If someone is insecure enough to need to know your passwords for anything, then they should not be dating.
If you get weird vibes, get out if the situation. Period. You don’t need to be with someone if you think they are lying, and you don’t need to be with someone who CONSTANTLY needs to get proof if your intent.