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I read posts online that interest, infuriate, stimulate, inspire, or otherwise move me. I'll share short snippets. Mastodon Shuffle
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Gunsmoke Blues

Earlier this month there was a shooting at a local store where I sometimes shop, a random bystander was shot. Another random guy rushed to the wounded man. Finding no pulse he began CPR. An off-duty police officer seeing them kicked the fellow performing CPR to the ground who died a few hours later from head injuries. At the time this happened I was shopping at the other nearby branch of the same store chain. That last detail somehow made the shooting catastophe nearer to me than it actually was.

Here are the names of the five people dead--another 18 wounded--in the Club Q mass shooting: Kelly Loving, Daniel Davis Aston, Derrick Rump, Raymond Green Vance, and Ashley Paugh.

The obituaries for a couple of the victims pointed out they were not "members of the LBGTQ community." I understand the point, but also note that being in a loving relationship with a community means a lot. My heart goes out to the army veteran Richard Fierce who subdued the gunman along with other patrons. His daughter's boyfriend, since middle school, was killed. All of this hurts a lot.

In thinking about these victims I was reminded of reading about the victims of the mass shooting at the Tops Friendly Market in Buffalo in May. Thirteen where killed and reading about them I shook my head and whispered: “What nice people.”

I work in a store. If I survive should there be a mass shooting there, I suppose I will read about the lives and accomplishments of those lost. Sometimes customers are cranky, and sometimes I'm just cranky about customers. But something the lives lost to these indecent incidents reminds me is that everyday I am surrounded by people whose stories of life are richer than I expect.

With all that's going haywire, we've got to find ways to love one another.

 Gunsmoke Blues by Buddy Guy

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I was not a gay man first by any manner of means until I became involved in fighting AIDS, and because someone close to me died. And suddenly I was no longer the white man from Yale, I was a faggot without a name.

Larry Kramer quoted in an obituary by Neda Ulaby at NPR. Larry Kramer, Pioneering AIDS Activist And Writer, Dies At 84

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The day that I met Bayard I was actually on my way to Times Square. We were on the same corner waiting for the light to change. He had a wonderful shock of white hair. I guess he was of my parents' generation, but we looked at each other and lightning struck. He was my life partner for 10 years.

Walter Naegle quoted in a StoryCorps story by Ericka Naegle at NPR. Long Before Same-Sex Marriage, 'Adopted Son' Could Mean 'Life Partner'

I saw this report after reading an article in The New York Times by Elon Green, The Lost History of Gay Adult Adoption. I really didn’t know about this LGBTQ history before. LOL but Naegle’s “and lighting struck” was surprising in a different, and pretty delightful way.

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Terry Firma at Patheos. Remembering the UpStairs Lounge: The U.S.A.’s Largest LGBT Massacre Happened 40 Years Ago Today

41 years ago, but this photo is haunting to me. In the 1960's all states outlawed sexual acts between persons of the same sex with quite harsh prison terms. In Pennsylvania the laws were overturned by state court in 1980, but not legislatively until 1995. The Supreme Court ruling in 1986 in Bowers v. Harwick affirmed the constitutionality of Sodomy Laws. Chief Justice Burger wrote:

To hold that the act of homosexual sodomy is somehow protected as a fundamental right would be to cast aside millennia of moral teaching.

An important aspect of these laws being on the books isn't immediately obvious, but was quite real: they made assembly subject to official harassment. The people gathered were members and family members of the Metropolitan Community Church. Thirty three people died in this arson.

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