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Here are some things you should know: 1. Dannie. British. 34. She/Her 2. Bi af 3. Cockles trash 4. I don't even fucking know what I blog about anymore. Does anyone even care? 5. I write sometimes. Maybe. If my crippling anxiety and depression allows it. Usually it involves dicks in butts. (Especially Castiel's in Dean's.)
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“I don’t want to read this” is totally valid.

“This is disgusting to me” is totally valid.

“I don’t want to read this because it is disgusting to me” is totally valid.

“I don’t think anyone should be allowed to read or write this because it is disgusting to me” is authoritarian.

“I don’t think anyone should be allowed to read or write this because it is disgusting to me” is authoritarian.

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spellscarred

Bro, blocking someone and then using their tag like this is, all offence, weak as fuck. Like all you had to say was, na bro I don’t promote pedo protags on this here blog, because I wholly agree with the premise of your argument given contexts (i.e., writing abusive relationships to show the evils, great; writing abusive relationships to show the romance, yikes).

This response is so, so comically shitty within the context of that tag, oh my god.

“I don’t think anyone should be allowed to read or write this because it is disgusting to me” is authoritarian.

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splort

Why is it wrong to be authoritarian to stop the spread and creation of CSA material? If anyone can explain to me why a line cannot be drawn there for moderation purposes, and why underaged erotic fiction should be allowed to exist, it would be helpful

Do you hear yourself? You just said “why is it wrong to be authoritarian” with your real, actual words.

okay, whoops, good point. Should have thought that through a little more. Let me try again:

“I don’t think anyone should read or write this because it is harmful to the people who read and write it.” Is that authoritarian? That’s more where I’m loosely coming from. It’s practically a cognitohazard. Fiction can impact how people think - that’s one of the ways propoganda works.

(I am entering this conversation to learn, full respect)

Hey friend, thanks for being willing to talk about this.

Some of what I’m about to say is probably going to sound like the “slippery slope” fallacy, but what I need you to understand when I say it, is that it’s not a theoretical possibility, it’s something that has happened historically and is happening in the USA right now.

First of all, let’s set the stage and agree that no piece of fiction can cause literal, physical harm to a person. Therefor, any harm that could be caused is going to be emotional or psychological.

So already we’re on shaky grounds here. Who is deciding what fiction causes psychological or emotional harm?

In the USA right now, the people who are deciding what fiction is causing psychological and emotional harm are conservatives who are using the idea to censor and restrict queer literature, as well fiction and history talking about racism.

These people are saying that reading queer stories and learning about history harms their children by “brainwashing” them with “propaganda”

This is the problem.

Any time you declare that “fiction causes harm” you’re going to have malefactors using that idea to push THEIR version of what causes harm.

Fiction isn’t something that causes physical harm to people. It can absolutely cause subjective harm, but that varies from person to person.

Also, it’s fiction. Unlike the harm a physical attack causes, you, as the writer or the reader, are always in control of fiction. If you feel like a book is harming you, it’s always within your power to stop reading it.

Any time we mandate what fiction causes harm, we open ourselves up to tyranny.

Does that make sense?

You mention “CSA material” specifically– CSA material is material which exists because a child has been really, measurably harmed. Fiction about imaginary characters can never actually hurt any physical children. And because of that, and because any kind of censorship of fiction inevitably leads to tyranny, and because reading fiction doesn’t cause measurable harm– we need to protect that freedom of fiction, even if we find it disgusting.

If nothing else, if you completely restrict fiction about the sexual assault of children, you restrict victims of childhood assault from discussing and expressing their experiences.

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And just to be clear, when conservatives are censoring and banning queer material, they are doing it by claiming that it’s “pornography”.

Mads Mikkelsen once said “imagine censorship in the hands of your worst enemy.”

Once censorship of fiction becomes a fixed thing that continues to happen, someone can find any excuse to label something as worthy of censoring.

And it’s always queer and marginalized people who get hit with it the hardest.

Censorship is not a scalpel, it’s a steamroller.

There is fiction out there that is fucking disgusting and awful, and I can keep my back to it while I defend its right to exist alongside the stuff I enjoy because losing the nasty stuff will take away what I enjoy too.

Sometimes stuff that is really awful can be held up as an example of “hey, don’t do this”.

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pro-bopass

[The initial screenshot is of tumblr tags reading, “#pls tell me this isnt an excuse for people to write p*do fics again”

The later screenshot reads, “If you accept – and I do – that freedom of speech is important, then you are going to have to defend the indefensible. That means you are going to be defending the rights of people to read, or write, or to say, what you dono’t say or like or want said. The Law is a huge blunt weapon that does not and will not make distinctions between what you find acceptable and what you don’t. This is how the Law is made.”]

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inkskinned

i have thought a lot about censorship and what is “appropriate”. not a lot of people know this, but lolita was written to show what we allow on our bookshelves: there being no swear words in it meant it was free from censorship. a book about child molestation was allowed because it didn’t explicitly use the word “fuck”. he wrote it to show we don’t really care about protecting children, and it ended up being seen as a romance.

someone once told me - actually, many people have - that lgbt content isn’t appropriate for children. any content. not just kissing. i’m drowned in questions: “won’t the parents have to explain it?” “kids shouldn’t be thinking about sex at this age, or do you think differently?” “what will the kids think?”

at six i saw disney movies. people kiss and get married. i didn’t ask “what does that mean.” i didn’t ask “are those people going to have sex?” i didn’t ask anything, because i was six, and no six year old thinks twice about these things. nobody ever “explained” being straight to me, it was a fact, and it existed, and i was fine with that. why would being gay require a thesis, i wonder.

someone once told me that the one of the reasons people hate lgbt individuals is because they can’t see us as anything but sexual. we’re not people, so much as sinners. that they don’t see love, they see sex. just sex. it’s perversion, not a matter of the heart. only of the body.

i think i was in my early twenties before i saw someone like me. 

how old were you, though, before you saw violence? before you saw sexual assault on tv? i think something like that is only pg-13, and if it’s implied, they can get away with anything. i remember watching things and learning about blood, but knowing sex - sex was what was really wrong. sex was always rated r. sex was always kind of a bad word. i was told a lot that i wasn’t ready.

i had a dream last night that i made a site where people could ask any question they wanted about sex and get answered by a professional. it was shut down in moments because 15 year olds wanted to know if it should hurt, if “double-bagging” was a real thing, if this, if that. we shudder. don’t let the children know about that! 

but at thirteen i had seen enough violence it no longer struck me. i couldn’t say “fuck” but i knew that if you break your femur, you can bleed out internally in under half an hour. in school i wasn’t allowed to write about loving girls because what would the administration think - but i could write about wanting to kill myself and people would say how lovely, how blistering.

i have thought a lot about censorship. sometimes people on this site try it with me: don’t write this, don’t be so nasty. some of it is intrinsic. we know as people with a uterus not to complain about “that time of the month”, we know better than to talk about sexual assault (how shameful), we know that talking about a vagina is somehow scandalous. i can say “dick” and nobody questions me. some people only refer to the bottom half of me by “pussy”. they won’t wrap a mouth around “vagina” like it’s poison to them. even discussing this, that the language halts, that there’s an intrinsic desire to say “girls” instead of “women” - feels naughty, illicit. not for children.

the other day someone suggested i make my blog 18+. i said, okay, it deals a lot with depression and other problems that might be for a mature audience. oh no, they said, that’s not it, i think that’s helpful. i said, okay. so what is it then. well, you’re gay. you write about loving women. and i said, i don’t write about sex often and they said. it’s not about the sex. but wlw isn’t for a general audience. teenagers aren’t ready.

oh.

lolita is recommended for high school and up. i think about that a lot. i know girls who love it, who say it speaks to them on a deep level. it’s beautiful prose, after all. that was the whole point of the novel. something that looked like a rose but was intrinsically awful. i think about how if i was a model they’d want me to look young, thin, prepubescent. how my body would be sold and how through the mall i walk by images of barely-clothed women while mothers cannot breastfeed in public without fear of retribution. 

i think about how i can write a novel about violence and it will be pg-13 but if my characters say “fuck” twice it’s inappropriate. i said fuck three times so far in this post, which makes it only appropriate for adults. 

i think about that, and how my identity is something that people suggest lines up with a swear word. that people shouldn’t talk about it. that it’s a vulgarity. bad for children, harsh, confusing.

fuck. i love women. which one makes this only for those over eighteen.

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robotmango

“why do we even need ao3/ why won’t they censor content i don’t like/ what’s that money going towards”

it’s going towards not arbitrarily deleting all your fucking blogs overnight because yahoo had a shareholders meeting, that’s what the fuck it’s going towards. if you don’t own it, they can yank the cord whenever they feel like it, for whatever reason, using whatever wobbly catch-all algorithm they want, and that is exactly what the fuck we’ve been telling you. “wellll i’m not a porn blog, it’s not going to affect me,” oh worm?? you sure?? this website is suddenly gonna be capable of censoring posted content with surgical precision? give ao3 ten bucks immediately and get real

Fucking THIS

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