Sex On The Micro-Side: Your Questions, Redux
Q. If a solid latex dildo has been lubed or washed with the wrong product, and is now sticky, is there a way to neutralize the deterioration, or should we just get a new one? (more…)
Mark Twain Knew Best: How to Be in the Moment
Q. How does someone who is accomplished at giving themselves orgasms do it with a partner? Like not let their mind wander off and think of all the ways that they can do a better job of giving the orgasm, instead of focusing on what is happening at the moment? How can one enjoy someone else’s technique? (more…)
If It Ain't Broke: Orgasms and Expectation
Q. I’m almost 25 and have never been able to have more than one orgasm per sexcapade. Is there…
Lover Of Unreason: On Convincing, Or Really, Not At All
Q. I’m in a monogamous, heterosexual relationship, and I don’t always (or often) orgasm from…
This Week in Misogyny Just Can't
Oh dear. There is just so much wrong with the world this week. A little bit of good news, but a lot…
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Q: So I'm in my mid twenties and I've started waking up mid orgasm every week for the past month or so. And I don't get it. I've never had this (I don't want to say issue cause it's kind of fun..) happen before. Not during puberty when that sort of thing is more common, so I'm curious as to why. Why do these things happen and what do you think could have changed that I'd start having them about a decade after puberty?
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TW: Fertility issues
From the article:
While I am a huge proponent of the good ole Nuva Ring — mostly because it did not screw with my emotional health, dermatology, or weight like some other hormonal methods of birth control did — I've been off the Ring since July of last year due to long-lapsed insurance and a couple of other mitigating factors. So, to keep untimely fetuses at bay, we've been going the ole rubber route.
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Honestly, there's not a lot interesting on my end to report, aside from the obvious. We're right on track for the year, not a lot extra going on, but we had a pretty rough year last year in the bedroom department, and this feels like progress to us.
How is everyone else doing? Spill the beans, ladies.
Report on your Big O status at Persephone Magazine
I'm not usually the one around here who talks about this, but I need to, right now. See, there's been a lot of talk around these parts about taking care of yourself, and we're (as a site) pretty open about talking about sex. (Thank you, Papers-are-Patient! Ms. Vagina Science! Awkwardette! Others!) But today I'm here to propose the kind of New Year's Resolution that I don't think anyone, from the abstinent Christian to the body-positive Health at Every Size-ers, could possibly object to on practical grounds.
I am proposing orgasms for everyone.
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