potentially a hot whump writing take but the bad caretaker label is stupid. like...., okay because theyre not a perfect all-in-one therapist/PT/doctor/self sacrificial Mary Sue ass angel who Never Does Wrong Ever, that means they get to be lumped in with genuinely shitty/backstabbing/mercurial ""caretakers""? (I hate the word carewhumper stfu) it's unrealistic and impossible to preform those standards. give caretakers room to be human too.
anyways shout out to caretaker characters who arent perfect, who are trying their best but lost, dont know medicine or the fucking DSM5 or how to undo years worth of trauma responses for things they dont know about, are hypo empathetic or otherwise have difficulty connecting with who they need to take care of, who run out of patience; caretakers who resent the duties forced on them or even the subject of said duties, who are burnt out, who wish the situation never happened, who are aware of their inadequacy but know this is the hand that fate dealt them and they have no choice in it.