Clothes Shopping tips that would have saved me a lot of stress
Go shopping on a day when you feel good about your looks ~otherwise you might get distracted by your face in the mirror and hate everything~ That means DONT go on your period. You will propably feel shitty no matter how awesome you actually look. Theres a chance you will cry in the changing room. You dont need this shit The changing room loghts are horrible and they make your body look horrible. Take that into account. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD WEAR A GOOD BRA what! the! fuck! even! are! the! sizes! Unless you want the company or a specific person's opinion go shopping alone. You can concentrate better, you can take as long as you like and there is no conflict of fashion senses. If it doesnt make you feel bomb when you put it on dont buy it If you dont feel comfortable wearing it DONT BUY IT Try everything you like on. A mass produced piece of clothing doesnt flatter all body shapes. That doesnt mean there is something wrong wirh your body. There is just something wrong with the clothes. Wear relatively form fitting pants that are going to look good with both looser and tighter tops. I usually go for black sweatpants. Loose on loose may not give you an accurate image. Try avoid dresses if you are mostly going to try on tops It's ok to like clothes that are not Your Usual Style . Consider how you might make them edgier or softer by accessorizing them and pairing them differently to match your aesthetic or just straight up say fuck it and accept it's ok to try different things (what do you mean I'm projecting because I liked that one pink sweater - white shirt combo and I had to reevaluate my entire life)