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Welcome everyone of the magical, the undefined, the chaotic and ethereal kind. This is a blog for my witch path and personal magical ramblings. I'm 28, a bioregional animist witch who is a bit nomadic but currently residing in London (air element, Libra). Originally from Montclair NJ and NYC. My preferred climate is four seasonal temperate deciduous. Coping with this gray oceanic highland climate in the UK that's like bi-seasonal. Femme-aligned agender, she/they, mixed black, pansexual, I follow the seasonal witch holidays but "secularly". I think my witch strengths are astrology (which most people follow me for) and spamming aesthetics/ideas for the sabbats.
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Quick Things to do to celebrate Ostara

So we are still in lockdown and there's not much gathering happening but here are some things you can do to bring in the Spring!

1. Burning down Barriers Spring Equinox coincides with the rebirth of the zodiac cycle. (In the Northern Hemisphere). Aries season is about new beginnings but also our courage to commit to them and face any challenges in our way. This is a good time to reflect on any challenges and how you can overcome them. When you have a good idea, you can write them down and burn it over a fire-safe plate putting energy towards the universe and your will finding a way to clear these paths for you. 

2. Divining, Strategizing and Advice Ask tarot (or any favorite types of divining) for advice on these obstacles and how to overcome them. You can pull a card for the nature of the obstacle, another for unforeseen details you should be aware of and one for general advice.

3. Visit a Park! We are having incredible Spring weather over here so it would be great to take advantage and go to a park. Maybe have a small picnic there and admire the daffodils and budding trees. Leave offerings of energetic blessings and moon water to plants and the earth. Seek out a birch tree that would like to help you with your courage and your wishes. Offer them water. (Birch trees have very fiery excitable energy and are helpful in the areas of courage and vitality.) 

4. Seasonal Flowers While you are out, get yourself a small set of flowers! I got a pack for only £2.50 at sainsburys. You can get them partly budded so over time they will bloom in your room. Tulips are ideal for this sabbat.

This sabbat is symbolic with new beginnings and our inner child. Get in touch with your inner child through meditation, doing things you loved to do as a kid, playing certain games, revisiting stuff. Allowing yourself to have fun, create and play with no judgement.

6. Make egg spell candles If you are using eggs in your breakfast or for your feast make sure to save the shells. Try to crack it towards the top and not the middle. You can save most of the shell this way. After you empty the yolks you can wash the shell and dye them using white vinegar and food coloring. You can even color them with paint. For the inside you can take tea light candles, empty the wax, melt it and fill the hollowed shell. You can place the wick in the middle before it cools. The Egg candle can represent new opportunities and blessings coming your way for the new season.

7. Clear and redecorate your Space and Altar Do a quick clean of your space. Vaccuum the floor, wipe your altar down, open windows and decorate your altar with the bouquet and egg candles. Place symbolism that helps you to have courage and overcome obstacles or inspire new beginnings.

8. Music! Listening to music always helps to set the mood of the day. Here is a playlist for this sabbat!

9. Make a feast So for my feast for 1 it's just a festive dish with a side of veggies and a nice dessert. Ostara's festive dishes that's easy to make/find for 1 can either be a mini quiche with spring vegetables (I like M&S brand if I don't feel like cooking) or seasoned lemon honey baked chicken thighs. The veggie side would be green beans or a butter lettuce salad with a light vinaigrette. The dessert would be custard with icecream. (Or sometimes rice pudding).

Also if it is accessible/local to you and you can forage it safely, this is the time of the year to make a cleavers infusion! It's a great body cleanser for the Spring time!

Have a blessed Ostara everyone! Hope we can break out of this repressive time and finally have things moving forward again.

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✧ *. 🕯️Imbolc Solitary Rituals 🕯️*✧

As the wintery days starts stretching a little longer and signs of life starts peeping about in nature, we are reaching the zenith of the season. The Winter crossquarter is a time of returning light and returning life that marks the end of the cold hibernating season. Candles are lit to welcome the returning light, animals are stirring from hibernation, snow is beginning to thaw leaving behind slush and snowdrops. It is time to look forward to spring, cleanse the home, the self and prepare for the brighter half of the year! 

I see the three sabbats: Samhain, Yule and Imbolc all as new year-ish celebrations, samhain being the death of the year and entering the cold hibernating phase, yule being the rebirth of the year- the longest night which marks the point where we will be returning to the lighter half and Imbolc being the true start to the year after the hibernating/resting period has ended. As the first half of winter is dedicated to resting this period I deem it as cleansing/shedding. I made a transitional wheel here that has gained some traction on this site over the past year.   A lot of us witches practice alone and have our own solitary rituals for each sabbat that we observe (or the ones we’ve created just for ourselves that we observe alone!) Like any solitary eclectic witch I do things my own different way but some of these things might line up with others practices. I do refer to some of the equinoxes/solstices/crossquarters by their celtic sabbat names but I celebrate them in a secular animist way and treat the wheel of the year I celebrate as more of an agrarian cycle and celebrating nature. I use sabbat names as a point of reference and also people that do celebrate these witches sabbats more traditionally might find value in my personal practice! Here is my personal correspondences post and my personal Imbolc tag!

When I am alone and casting spells a lot of it is visualization/intent so my solitary rituals are more like activities I like to do then specifically casting a spell. If I am doing a spell with an activity based on it a lot would be listening to music to get in the mood and focusing on a candle while visualizing for a period of time! Eves are also important to my celebration as I like to stay up until midnight and cast a spell then!

Imbolc’s Eve

January 31st, (Wednesday 2018)

  • Cleaning AND CLEANSING This crossquarter has a lot of emphasis on cleansing and preparing for spring to come, and has a tradition of ‘spring cleaning’ (though it’s not quite spring yet), but even if you are in the deep winter months it’s good to get the air within the home flowing since it tends to be bottled up and stagnating to keep the warmth in. This might not sound like much fun, but when you make it into a magical ritual, this can be a very purifying and elevating experience!
  • Use fragrances like juniper, peppermint, wintergreen while cleaning. Juniper is my preferred scent as it’s cleansing, airy, cool and sharp!
  • Sweeping Use a besom to symbolically sweep away the unwanted energy and or patterns you want to rid yourself or your space of. This is an old tradition!
  • Shedding As the days get longer and the air warmer, it’s time to shed! Get rid of old stuff you no longer need and should part with. Donate old ugly clothes, toss old things, maybe give new life to things you haven’t used in a while. It’s time to purge!  
  • Hang chimes I love the sound of metal chimes as the instrument of choice for this sabbat. It reminds me of melting icicles and wintery air. Chimes makes a great cleansing and peaceful sound for your space!
  • Make Candles!!! Unless if you’re in a space where you can’t have candles, it would be great to create some candles for the sabbat! Candles are very easy to make and you can make them in pretty glass votives instead of trying to find a mold for them. You can even get some tea lights and infuse herbs, fragrances and glitter on the top instead of making a whole candle if you don’t have time. I enjoy using warm plain wintery fragrances for this sabbat such as vanilla or sugar. Having refreshing candles like eucalyptus and mint is nice too! But I’d probably want to make those in a creation like:
  • Ice cube Candles! Here is the DIY link!
  • Beautiful herbal pressed candles
  • Make Ice Lanterns! Wonderful alternative if you can’t have open flames indoors, if you have a spot outside where a lantern would be safe to burn, then this makes a beautiful midwinter decoration! (If open flame isn’t ok anywhere for you, having electric candles works great for this cause candles outside tend to not stay lit due to winds and falling snow/water.) Here’s option one with water balloons and here is option two with a carton!
  • Body Scrubs Make some enchanted body scrubs to exfoliate away the old and bring energy for the new! Here are a few favorites for the sabbat! (honey sugar scrub, coconut oil sugar scrub, lavender vanilla sugar scrub)
  • Milk Bath Spell As this sabbat is about cleaning and renewing the home and the self, I love to have a ritual bath each year. This sabbat also has symbolism of motherhood, nurturing and overall milk and dairy and a milk bath is a way to incorporate the symbolism into your solitary practice! They aren’t too hard to make in advance and here are a few simple recipes you can build off of! If you make it in a jar you can charge it overnight with a quartz crystal on top of the lid! (Plain milk bath, chamomille lavender oatmeal milk bath, pink salt milk bath, milk and honey bath melts, almond milk bath, rosemary chamomille detox bath)  
  • Enjoy snacks while doing crafts such as: yogurt pretzels, buttermints, grilled cheese bites, cheese puffs, white chocolate wafers, bread sticks and cheese dip, and if you are not a fan of dairy then animal crackers (in honor of hibernating animals!), or rosemary crackers, dark toasted bread (like pumpernickel), sliced apples, parsnip fries!
  • Cleanse and Decorate the altar! Wipe down all the incense ash and the surfaces with refreshing essential oils, purify the space, and decorate it with wintery elements, eucalyptus garland, silver mound, lambs ear and white candles!

Midnight Spell:

The Crossquarter is a time to focus on what you would want to initiate or manifest for the new year. This time is ideal for road opening spells if you need something to open up for you by the time spring arrives. Set goals for yourself, clear paths for yourself, and focus on achieving them by manifesting it on this night!

  • An activity for road opening could be writing down your goals and sealing it in a plastic bag. Take a bowl and put your goals on the bottom then fill it with a thin layer of ice cubes. Light a white candle on top (preferably a floating candle) symbolizing you in your path to reach your goals. As the last of winter’s snows thaw, the barrier of ice between your candle and your goals will be melted away.
  • A quicker and simpler task would be to burn bayleaves which is something I do annually (and also is a common tradition). You burn bayleaves to manifest desires into reality yet also it can be a divinatory practice as the way the bayleaf burns will show you if it’s a task that’s being blocked, if you have to work harder at it or if it’s something that will happen right away.
  • Banishing the old and unwanted This should preferably be done first but think about the qualities that you are not fond of or habits that you’d like to break for the new cycle to come. Light a bundle of juniper or eucalyptus/wintergreen incense and smoke cleanse yourself to start anew. Think about the qualities you’d like to replace the negative ones. Instead of thinking of things like “I want to be less lazy” focus on it more like “I’m productive, I’m motivated, I’m energetic” etc.

Imbolc Day

February 1st 

  • Wear all white! It’s midwinter and a time of cleansing! Wear white to either honor winter or to celebrate the fresh start of the new year to come! (Bonus if you want to wear sparkly makeup like glittery eyeshadow, nail polish, lip gloss)
  • Fresh Air Open up the windows for a few minutes to let the air in and get the stagnant air flowing! It might be very cold but its good for the air flow for at least a few minutes! 
  • Soundbath Use chimes or a singing bowl to cleanse your space and bring in good energy. This would be great to do while you have the windows open for a moment!
  • Day of Light! Fill the home with AS MUCH LIGHT as possible. Open all curtains! Light lanterns and electric candles! Put on white fairylights. Welcome the return to light!
  • Ritual Bath Have a magical ritual spa day! Have some special scrub that you never use cause you don’t have time? Today is the day for it! Have a colorful bath bomb you still haven’t used? Make a bath ritual with it! If you had made the milky bath jar from the night before, have a rejuvenating magical experience and maybe channel your bath witchery to do some energy work in the bath. You can do some tub “grounding” by getting well connected with your physical form and energy surrounded by the magic of the bath you’ve created. Also light some white candles and play some relaxing meditative music. For this sabbat I have a few sound tracks I enjoy listening to! ( 1 , 2 , 3 )
  • Visit a Sauna House Especially if you don’t have a bath and you’d like to get out of the house, going to a sauna house is a wonderful outing and perfect for this sabbat. Especially with symbolism such as fire stirring in the earth, a great way to celebrate that is to sweat it out instead of being out in the cold! The sauna houses by me are all Korean bath houses and they are INCREDIBLE because not only do they have wonderful hot tubs but they also have saunas made out of salt bricks, clay, quartz and jade and it’s a wonderful place to do energy work in or meditate.
  • Eat seasonal winter roots Not a lot is available in the middle of winter but I love white hardy roots like potatoes, rutabaga, parsnips (they make amazing fries!) and turnips. There was this amazing dish a chef made called rootatouille which was a wintery version of ratatouille (which is such a summer harvest dish). Rootatouille is made with roots and covered with a delicious cream sauce instead of tomato sauce. (Skip to 3:33 for the rootatouille part)
  • Enjoy a nice creamy drink like a milky tea or frothy latte! Especially if you don’t have time to make yourself a whole dinner then just having a pleasant milky tea or a frothy creamy latte is enough to get festive! Here’s a recipe I love to do sometimes on this sabbat:
  • Whole Milk or Oat Milk 
  • Kava (Like two tsp to a cup of milk?)
  • Nutmeg
  • vanilla bean or extract
  • cardamom simmer the milk (do not boil) with the spices. Mix until well infused and blended. Enjoy! (Also if you never had kava before, it’s something that makes you feel very very chill and some people use it as an alternative to alcohol. Don’t operate any machinery or do any of the things you shouldn’t do while drunk. It has different effects on different people but if you don’t know how it makes you feel yet then don’t plan on doing anything for the rest of the day).

Evening:

  • Light a bunch of candles!! Make sure that your space is still filled with many lights as the evening rolls in! If you don’t have a lot of candles or don’t want a lot of open flames, I love the look of white fairy lights and white electric candles. It’s mysterious and icy and less worrisome! 
  • Feast! This feast is usually dairy-centric as it’s a very wintery and also maternal feast. Most animals are lactating this time of year and it was a time people had access to something in the middle of winter to eat. Therefore, other than grain, roots and dried meats, dairy has symbolic importance but there are other things available if dairy is not your thing! However a dish I like to make for myself is spicy shepherds pie because the top mashed potatoes is like the snow and the bottom meaty part is like the thawing earth. I put a lot of spices in the meaty bottom so it symbolizes the life stirring in the earth and the warmer days to come. Shepards pie is also easy to make a vegetarian/vegan version of. If you do love dairy a great dessert to enjoy would be a slice of cheese cake or even better- tres leches, but if you are not a fan of either, another dessert I love to make is essentially a brownie sundae where the brownie once again symbolizes the stirring earth and the vanilla icecream (which you can get a non dairy version of) is like the thawing snow. When the two fuse together it might create a light brownish slush which is kind of the sign of winter’s end that everyone dislikes cause they think it looks dirty but I love to celebrate it in the form of a tasty melting dessert. Bonus if you want to make a snowdrop topper to garnish it with.
  • Here’s a link for a fantasy feast I made ages ago with some recipes!

Happy mid winter everyone! Happy Imbolc and I hope everyone has a wonderful transition into spring!

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✧ *.🎄Yule Solitary Rituals🎄*✧

As the days grow darker to the shortest day of the year and the frost creeps on the skeletons of dead leaves and flurries seep into the streams of howling winds, we know we are reaching Winter Solstice. Though this is the darkest point of the year filled with frost and shadows, it is the time to fill the night with thousands of lights and celebrate unity, blessings and rebirth since the days will extend slowly as we enter the new year. To celebrate life and longevity in a moment of darkness we decorate the home with plants that keep its prosperous green and red colors. Pine, cedar, holy, mistletoe, rose hips, cinnamon, chestnuts, pine cones and winter fruits. (Interestingly enough plants like pine and rose hips are packed with vitamin C and can be used in healing teas!) This is also a time to gather together with loved ones and share what you have in a time of rest and stagnancy. Though it would be ideal to gather with a circle of intimate people this post shall focus on solitary practices of course!  

A lot of us witches practice alone and have our own solitary rituals for each sabbat that we observe (or the ones we’ve created just for ourselves that we observe alone!) Like any solitary eclectic witch I do things my own different way but some of these things might line up with others practices. I do refer to some of the equinoxes/solstices/crossquarters by their celtic sabbat names but I celebrate them in a secular animist way and I treat the wheel of the year as a an argrarian cycle celebrating nature. I use sabbat names as a point of reference and also people that do celebrate these witches sabbats more traditionally might find value in my personal practice!  Here is my personal correspondences post and my personal Yule tag!

When I am alone and casting spells a lot of it is visualization/intent so my solitary rituals are more like activities I like to do then specifically casting a spell. If I am doing a spell with an activity based on it a lot would be listening to music to get in the mood and focusing on a candle while visualizing for a period of time! Eves are also important to my celebration as I like to stay up until midnight and cast a spell then!

Winter Solstice’s Eve

Wednesday December 20th 2017

  • Make a Pot Pourri ESPECIALLY if you have a cauldron, fill it up with all kinds of winter magic! Pot Pourris could make a great base for a spell! You can add all sorts of ingredients and maybe slip a paper with written wishes to be manifested inside. If you are very sneaky and a closeted witch it would be a great activity to do in the home! Add orange zest and rose petals for vitality and energy in winter! Put Rosemary and Rose hips for health. Add Pine or Cedar for prosperity! Put in mint and cloves for purity and keeping the space cleansed. Maybe don’t add all the pairings I’ve mentioned in this bullet point, yet consider that each ingredient has it’s own magical correspondence! There are great pot pourri recipes online. I like this article for some simple ideas!
  • Decorate your Altar This is a great activity especially if you live in a house hold where you can’t express your spirituality throughout the home and have to confine it to your space. Decorate your altar with the plants of the season! It will smell incredible if you add cedar, pine or cinnamon and look beautiful with holy, rose hips, mistletoe and pine cones. Add peppermint for joy and luck and buy a little string of LED lights to wrap around it or make yule tea lights if you want something non electric. Burn peppermint, cedar, cinnamon or sandalwood incense and make your space jolly and merry!
  • Grow (borax) Crystals Borax is super fun and non toxic and you can grow crystals overnight! What you will need is a box of borax, a pot you can use for crafts and some white pipe cleaners. You can make a pipe cleaner ‘skeleton’ for a tea light holder or make snowflake pipe cleaners for the borax solution. Here is a great tutorial on borax crystals. If you add food coloring you can change the color (it will nearly always come out as light pastel unless you add a lot but I like the white color for this sabbat anyway).
  • Make Sigil Snowflakes Design spell snowflakes by drawing a thin sigil, then folding a paper up into triangles and drawing your sigil on the final triangle. You will have beautiful snowflake designs with amplified energy to hang in your windowsill! (I like this quick tutorial for ideas).
  • Bake! Winter is the ultimate baking season and it makes the home smell great and you can indulge for the winter! Create delicious treats like ginger bread cookies, cinnamon rolls, red velvet cupcakes or even a mini yule log! You can also make poppets in the form of cookies or spell cookies in shapes of Yule trees (prosperity), ginger bread men or animals (if animals to maybe acquire some kind of quality that animal has to help you in your journey), or stars for joy!
  • Offerings to Nature In this dark part of the year when you give back it can make an impact. Make pinecone bird feeders (of pine cones you’ve collected in nature please don’t use the craft store scented ones), Orange bird feeder, or treats for the fae. You can make beautiful sun catcher ice sculptures to decorate your balcony or garden with (1 , 2 ). Leave meringue mushrooms or holiday sweets for the spirits!
  • Spell Baubles Make some spell baubles! Like the way there are spell jars, you can fill these baubles with certain desires and decorate your altar with them.  Also as a tip, if you buy the large baubles, keep the ingredients dry so you can add an electric tea light inside and make them spell bauble lanterns! It will be a wonderful decoration in your space when the night is so long.
  • Smoke Bundles for Cleansing Many of the seasonal fir plants can help cleanse the air! I’d suggest cedar, cinnamon, rosemary, sage and pine. Yew is toxic though I have absolutely NO IDEA who would even decorate their home with yew?? Why? But I could see the confusion occuring only if someone was harvesting pine in the wild and confused it with Yew. It’s good to be able to tell apart the difference between Yew and other pines and make sure to avoid it!
  • Make Scented Candles I made this post years ago and I believe some links are broken (but also my instructions are sketchy cause this was when I was just learning how to make candles so don’t pay attention to my instructions anyway haha the ingredients are what matters), but you can be creative with scented candles! Winter solstice is a great time to make the home smell jolly and be creative plus you can add spells in it! Here are some of my favorite candles that you can find inspiration from! 1- spell pillar with things ontop  2- frosty pillars  3-Pillar with things around it  (also my own when they are lit).
  • Make blessed crafts for friends! If you have witchy friends or friends that respect your practice you can make them cute charms for gifts in the winter! This can be a combination of things above like a scented votive candle, a smoke bundle or a crystal tea light or:
  • Make a Magical Ugly Winter Witch Sweater: We all need sweaters this time of year but also simple stitching, beading and embroidery is much easier than I thought and I ended up having an idea to embroider some cute tacky witch things on sweaters and make some enchanted sweaters! Michaels and other bead shops in the city sell crystal beads and you can sow stitch magic into it! I am making some for some witchy friends with flourite, amethyst and rose quartz beads as a gift for the winter solstice. If you have some sweaters you’d like to magic-afy but not ruin with kitschy-ness, you can still sew some crystal beads on the inside or in a place that it will not scratch you.
  • Fill the home with Music! This is definitely the time of year we need cheer within the home! Some music I love for the winter solstice is the Nut Cracker. I also love ambient winter sound tracks like this one that’s very meditative or more mysterious like this one. There’s a lot of winter fairy music on youtube. Look up any Gothic Winter instrumental music and you will find a lot of tracks. There is also Katrina Skye who is super cheesy but she is so cheesy it’s charming. Her music tends to be very wiccan though.

Midnight Spell: Winter Solstice is wonderful to do a spell focusing on reviving something for the new year. If there is something you want to bring to life again, an old hobby, an old connection, an old project or goal or dream, you can focus your spell on that!

  • An activity could be lighting a sparkler envisioning it to ignite the spirit of life and revive you. Pass it around your head, around your body and between each leg (like how you would cleanse yourself with sage or palo santo). Pass it over your magical items and crystals to charge (make sure it’s not near anything that’s very flammable though). Sparklers can give off a lot of smoke so I would not recommend this if you live in a smoke free environment. 
  • Put to rest As we descend into the slower restful part of the year it would be wise to use this time to focus on goals we want to accomplish for the next year and slow down or halt other issues we want to put to rest in order to focus on ourselves, whether it be bad habits, people that won’t allow us to grow, or locations we keep finding ourselves that are unhealthy. Write down these obstacles on a piece of paper or cardboard, put it in a container full of water and place it in the freezer in order to 'freeze’ these things.

Yule Day

Thursday, December 21st 2017

  • Ice skating Even if you are alone, ice skating on the first day of winter is pretty magical! Set up your favorite magical winter playlist on your ipod or invite a friend and glide away on the ice! The best is if it’s an outdoor rink!
  • Setting up lights It is the shortest day of the year therefore being the darkest. To elevate your space, set up many colorful lights for a magical experience! If you have a space you can have open flame then:
  • Burn Scented Candles Either the magical ones you’ve made on the eve or some that you’ve bought! Winter scented candles really add charm to the space!
  • Sing! Song worship is a wonderful form of magic. You can sing spells or devote a song to your guides. Even if you don’t have a song to sing then intoning is a great way to elevate the space. Intoning would be wonderful to warm up your vocal chords and energy with then you could pick a devotional song or even a carol to sing!
  • Offerings Your guides have been with you all year and the year (or sun) is going through it’s period of rebirth. You can set aside offerings in gratitude for them. If you want to make it in theme with the holidays you can set aside something like milk and cookies! If your guides like something specific then of course offer that to them.
  • Winter Grounding Do some energy work on the first day of winter to center yourself and go within. Stand in the snow or on the cold hard ground and feel the cold electrify your senses as you ground with the earth. If cold is very much not your thing you can do energy work in your room with a sound bath using white noise tracks or meditative winter music. Put tumbled crystals like quartz, blue lace agate or angel aura quartz in the freezer until they’re cold and make a grid on your body by placing one on your third eye, throat, chest, navel etc and meditate. Focus on taking in as much energy to reserve for the season.
  • Make a Merry Potion! As it’s the darkest time of the year the mood can plummet. A personal potion of mine is a wonderful potpourri-like tea that can help boost your mood. It has dried rose hips , hibiscus petals and anise and Rhodiola rosea or rhodiola tincture. I would suggest getting a rhodiola tincture (you can purchase from wholefoods or online) and putting it in there. I swear by this plant and tincture, rhodiola has been a great plant ally to me especially to help cope with depression (it helps increase serotonin) but since I don’t know all the medical specifics you should consult it with your doctor if you are on something like antidepressants. It’s a semi known thing so your doctor would probably have good advice whether its safe for you to take it or not. Otherwise I have literally been spreading this tincture at work and have been seeing changes with my coworkers and my own mental health like it has helped me survive this far so I will be using it to survive winter. 
  • TREAT YOSELF Winter is the season of resting.  Make a potpourri-like hot bath with clementine slices, rose petals, epsom salt and anise stars. Be careful to not add something like cinnamon cause the oil can burn the nether regions. Also be careful with peppermint oil cause that can leave icy burns in the nether regions. If diluted properly the two could work but if you are not familiar with working with those oils I’d suggest leaving them out!

Evening

  • Celebratory Feast If you are alone you can make yourself a delicious winter stew! It will be fun to slow cook something meaty or rich and make the whole home smell great and bring anticipation for dinner! If you are looking for more elaborate dishes I love to use seasonal ingredients for every sabbat. Pine is an excellent flavor that pairs well with fish like salmon. Chestnut is divine either sweet or savory. Roots like potatoes, turnips and ginger are a must!
  • Blessings Since Yule to me is about generosity and unity I like to use the day to do helpful spells and send blessings to loved ones. Tip when you do a spell for someone: make sure it’s something they ask for and truly need. For example if you know your friend has been struggling to find a job or money you can do a money spell for them. If your friend has wished in front of you to be able to move out into a safer place, you can put energy out towards that. However a bad example would be if you think your friend is miserable cause they are single and you do a love spell. That can end up in a disaster! Only do a spell on something you know they need. Otherwise just send a blessing of good energy towards your loved ones!
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✧ *.🎃Samhain Solitary Rituals🎃*✧

As the air grows cooler and the winds begin to howl and rip the dead leaves from trees, we know the veil is thin and Samhain is near! After the equinox, which was equal parts night and day, Samhain marks the time of the wheel that we descend into the darker half of the year. It’s this time of the year that communication and connection to the spirit world is a lot easier and we’ve grown accustomed to making wards to protect the home from malevolent energy in the form of jack o lanterns and lights. On a positive note it is a time to leave out treats and foods for passed away loved ones and to remember them. It’s the final harvest full of well spiced comfort autumn foods as well as a ‘New Year’ since it’s a sabbat that honors the natural cycle of death and sees it as a form of transformation.

A lot of us witches practice alone and have our own solitary rituals for each sabbat that we observe (or the ones we’ve created just for ourselves that we observe alone!) Like any solitary eclectic witch I do things my own different way but some of these things might line up with others practices. I do refer to some of the equinoxes/solstices/crossquarters by their celtic sabbat names but I celebrate them in a secular animist way and treat the wheel of the year I celebrate as more of an argrarian cycle and celebrating nature. I use sabbat names as a point of reference and also people that do celebrate these witches sabbats more traditionally might find value in my personal practice!  Here is my personal correspondences post and my personal samhain tag!

When I am alone and casting spells a lot of it is visualization/intent so my solitary rituals are more like activities I like to do then specifically casting a spell. If I am doing a spell with an activity based on it a lot would be listening to music to get in the mood and focusing on a candle while visualizing for a period of time! Eves are also important to my celebration as I like to stay up until midnight and cast a spell then!

Hallow’s Eve

Tuesday October 31st 2017

  • Dressing up in your most witchiest Ok every year I’m a witch, whether it’s just a lazy witch in my black clothing or an over the top kitschy witch with colorful hair and electric colored make up, but I just like to have these looks casually on Halloween day cause its amazing and a chance for me to be myself!
  • Pumpkin Carving! If you haven’t already tonight is definitely the night for pumpkin carving! Write sigils inside your pumpkin for protective magic. I love this DIY for a pumpkin indoor lantern cause it shows how to rub spices like cinnamon and nutmeg inside to achieve that sent of pumpkin pie in the home. Use electric candles instead of flame if you want it to last the night since the flame’s heat will cook the pumpkin.
  • Mini Pumpkin Tea lights Also an easier alternative to carving if you don’t have much time. Even gutting the mini pumpkins takes a lot of time for me but doing so and filling them with a black tea light will make an excellent centerpiece either for your altar or feast table!
  • Making Candy Apples I associate candy coated sweet red apples with halloween (and caramel/maple sugar on granny smith for mabon) and I love how you can make the candy various colors like a poisonous black or vibrant blood red!
  • Setting sweets aside for spirits So everyone has spirits that chill with them and it would be great to show appreciation for the positive spirits that surround you. Set some sweets on a dish and make a tiny altar for them in your space.
  • Enjoying sweets while doing crafts! Enjoy some of that halloween candy for yourself! My favorite treats on this night are chocolate coated donuts, reeses cups, cider sugar donuts, red licorice and apple cider.
  • Watching a spooky or Halloween themed movie Or halloween themed film. My favorite will always be the 80s halloween special The Worst Witch with Tim curry. I watch it religiously.
  • Spirit Contact I wouldn’t suggest using an Ouija board or doing any communication with spirits if you have never had experience. They can be rude and harass you, YET if you are experienced and know how to guard yourself, then this is a great night to play with an ouija board! (PS I think Ouija Girl has a great informative blog about working with ouija boards. Here is her FAQ page. But still, it’s always better to do work with a medium or someone with experience than trying to figure it out alone). A safer experience for someone with no spirit communication experience is attending a seance! In NYC there are a few mediums that hold seances monthly. I love the one at Catland in Brooklyn, the mediums that host the event there are fantastic. It might be hard to attend an authentic one on Halloween night since a lot of people will want to just try to cash in on creating a 'spooky’ experience, but if you really want, try to get in contact with mediums and ask if they host any seance events. Important to know: usually the spirits that chill around you are guides and family and they might have more info to give you then you might be ready for. My first seance I really don’t know what to do with the info given to me but I really hope I make the best of it and don’t mess anything up.
  • Witches Flight This is like an extension of the previous point where if you have never done this before just completely disregard this suggestion cause flying is dangerous. For many years witches have flown on Halloween night to other realms using flying ointments.
  • Protective Magic: Finally, protect yourself from the high spirit activity with crystals like black tourmaline, obsidian and spirit quartz. Do protective spells for any cats you see or live with especially black cats since they tend to be targets.   

Midnight Spell:

  • This sabbat honors the natural cycle of death and transformation. Focus on what you want to transform in your life. Magic on this night is very powerful so think about it before hand and make sure it is what you want for if you ask to transform something, you might find a lot of endings that suddenly occur in your life to lead to the transformations that you want. (There was a conversation on here I can no longer find but it was put  really nicely that death is not just some simple 'transformative’ process it can be very drastic, often very uncomfortable and if you are not ready though you ask for something to change, you might not be ready for the new obstacles that will be thrown at you. Just know that you will be ready for what you ask for.)
  • Some spell activities can be shuffling the deck visualizing what you want to change and then finding the death card and seeing the card that follows will be your answer to seek how you can further bring that transformation closer.
  • I’m a mixologist and enjoy working with liquor for rituals. I find fire to be a great transformer yet instead of burning something I prefer blessing a shot of whiskey or absinthe with my intent then taking it like liquid fire to transform me within. If you do not like alcohol or can not drink it for whatever reason you can perform this with hot apple cider instead!

Samhain Day

Wednesday, November 1st 2017

  • Upon the day I like to dress in complete black. My makeup is very dark and I wear long black dresses and veils. Depending on how you want to honor the dead, dress how you wish.
  • Gravesweeping Visit your loved ones on this day and leave flowers and gifts on their grave! If you want you can also visit any cemetery, yet make sure to practice good graveyard etiquette. Leave a penny by the gate, do not sit or lean on any tomb stones, of course don’t take anything from a grave. Be respectful of those whom are resting.
  • Close Your Garden This is a time to close the garden for the winter to come. Harvest the last fruits and herbs and bring in any delicate potted plants within the home.
  • Shadow Work Especially if you are looking to transform some aspect of your life this is a great time to do shadow work and look within if you are creating any obstacles for yourself. Get to know your shadow self, get to solve problems together. This is also an excellent day for divination and scrying.
  • Meditation and Energy Work by the base of a tree I love to do energy work on the days of the sabbats yet as the earth grows colder, the roots dig deeper and the world goes into hibernation. Sit at the base of a tree preferably with thick roots and feel it’s connection to the cold earth beneath you. Dig into yourself and see what needs to rest and what needs to be healed.

Evening Celebratory Feast

  • So in many practices people like to host a dumb supper but instead I like to have a lively feast where everyone will share a story about someone they loved that passed away or a story of an ancestor in their family. At the end of each tale we toast our glasses to them! (And pour a little bit of drink to them or set aside a snack if they are not into alcohol.)
  • Hold a feast of rich comfort foods that are spiced and sweet like sweet potato mash, candied brown beans, pumpkin bread, smokey bourbon pulled pork or maple glazed beef brisket, roasted carrots and beets and (I personally love to make baked mac and cheese but its a fall comfort soul food for me). My Samhain feast is abundant with fall soul foods and sweet roots and spices. (here is a fantasy feast post and my personal feast post from last year)
  • If you are alone (as this is a solitary post), make a few fall dishes you deeply enjoy or cook the favorites of loved relatives that have passed away, eat some sweets and set out some offerings to passed away loved ones.
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✧ . 🌾 Summer Crossquarter Solitary Rituals 🌾 *✧

The Summer Crossquarter is also referred to as Midsummer and in some pagan circles Lammas and or Lughnasadth. Midsummer is only next week! It is the zenith of Summer (almost metaphorically like a full moon of the season) where it’s at it’s height and it’s hottest but after will begin the steady transition into fall and shorter cooler days. This is also the middle of the year where we start to enter the darker half of the remaining year and we acknowledge what we’ve gained so far (reaping what we sowed) yet seeing what it might take to reach our goals which lies ahead. It’s time to finish projects and enjoy the first harvest of the harvest season! Enjoy the wonderful concert of crickets, the height of summer and the wheat and corn feast. I have a personal correspondences post that might help explain why I chose certain things! (Also here is my personal tag!)

A lot of us witches practice alone and have our own solitary rituals for each sabbat that we observe (or the ones we’ve created just for ourselves that we observe alone!) Like any solitary eclectic witch I do things my own different way but some of these things might line up with others practices.

When I am alone and casting spells a lot of it is visualization/intent so my solitary rituals are more like activities I like to do then specifically casting a spell. If I am doing a spell with an activity based on it a lot would be listening to music to get in the mood and focusing on a candle while visualizing for a period of time! Eves are also important to my celebration as I like to stay up until midnight and cast a spell then!

Midsummer Eve

Monday July 31st 2017

  • Go to a farmers market and support the summer harvest there. If you have a bee farmers tent, support them and buy beeswax carved candles for your ritual and some honey. The farmers market at this time of year will have delicious and many ripe things along with glorious summer flowers.
  • If you have a garden or work with a community garden, give your garden some offerings. Offer it water, crushed eggshells, and your gratitude. If you take things for your feast remember to thank it.
  • Enjoy some snacks while doing crafts like popcorn, wheat crackers, sunflower seeds, fruit gummies, peach rings, potato chips, fries, corn on the cob. 
  • Decorate your Altar and coat it in sunflowers, wheat, things that are bee related, maybe even potato related, corn husks, wheat structures and corn dolls, lazy eyed susans, ivy and beeswax candles. Use the colors that remind you of midsummer and the harvest! I also like to add gold coins or even chocolate coins that are coated in gold foil that symbolizes prosperity and the rewards that come with hard work.
  • As a mixologist I love to make my own infusions and liqueurs and I also think alcohol drunk with intent can be very magical. This time of the year as everything is in season and herbs are at their peak I love to do an infusion with mint and gin or vodka, basil and vodka (most things with vodka cause vodka is like the ‘water’ of alcohol since its pure with no flavor. It’s like the clear quartz of spirits lol), rosemary and vodka, jasmine flowers and vodka and summer fruits with vodka too. I usually let them sit in large mason jars and when I shake them up I shake it with my intent. I take shots when getting into a headspace for magic or when I go to a circle with friends I make special drinks with them. If you work with entities it can make a wonderful offering. If you want to turn any of them into a liqueur (a sweeter smooth alcohol) just make simple syrup and you can add the same ingredients into the syrup to make it flavored to enhance the flavor of the infusion once you mix it in there. 
  • If possible if you have a nice park somewhere or an area that’s safe that you can go to, go camping! Spend a night under the stars and sing with the fireflies. For me to do a midnight spell under the stars would be glorious but I am also lucky to have a massive backyard with a massive lawn space and little fear of anyone bothering me there (other than racoons lol). I also have a sunroom I can sleep in.

Midnight Spell:

  • Focus on what you would like to complete and goals to accomplish. This sabbat is great to set goals and help break through obstacles.
  • If you prefer a more physical activity based ritual than a visualization one you can do a practice by making a vision board of what you want to accomplish. Place it down on the floor like a grid and light a candle in the center to focus energy and intention to what you want (also energetically charging it) before hanging it in front of your bed. 
  • Basil is also in season and basil is an herb of prosperity. You can eat basil in a spell to symbolize the wealth you will gain or make an oil spell with it by infusing it in a carrier oil to bring prosperity into your life when you apply it on you. (Oregano as well!) 

Midsummer (lughnsasadth) Day

(Wednesday June 21st 2017)

  • Go on a journey! If possible take a trip to the woods! Hiking and just spending time outside where it’s sunny is nice too. The beach during this time of the year (August to mid September) is IDEAL because throughout summer the heat has warmed up the water so the water is a lot warmer. 
  • Bake Bread! If wheat is not your thing then corn bread or corn muffins are lovely! There is also zucchini bread as zucchinis are also in season and zucchini bread is delicious! If bread isn’t your thing at all no matter it’s contents then you can always enjoy a baked potato! 
  • make a bee fountain because there’s always time and wonderful magic in making a bee fountain. 
  • Do an enjoyable physical activity like hiking, bike riding, rock climbing, swimming, archery, fishing or kayaking. Lugh was a god of friendly sport and competition and this sabbat can be enjoyed by engaging in fun sport. If none of this sounds appealing to you (highly understandable) there are other ways to enjoy the summer outdoors passively without much physical effort. 

Evening

  • Celebratory Dinner Cook a dinner with foods of the summer harvest! Eat corn, wheat, potatoes, berries, melons, peach ciders, bread bowls, pastas, popcorn. For the ‘meat’ selection I love to eat fish as it resembles wealth in many cultures and catching a reward.  and enjoy any beer, cider or fruit juice that corresponds with midsummer as well. 
  • Make a plate for any entities you like to work with.
  • Also practice feeling gratitude for the things you have accomplished and acknowledge the rewards of your hard work.
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✧ . 🌸Beltane Solitary Rituals🌸 *✧

Bluebells are popping through the freshly sprouted glass, blossom petals litter the streets and flowers burst open to bloom on every lawn and ceramic pot as we approach the pinnacle of Spring. The time of the Spring Crossquarter, Beltane, is upon us! It's time to re-pot house plants and give them plant food, sow seeds in the garden, sow seeds of intention and give back to nature. Beltane is nested perfectly within the earthly season of Taurus and near Earth Day and I feel like it's a second earth day for pagans and witches.

Beltane is the sabbat that mirrors Samhain, though it's celebration is completely opposite (fertility and life vs death and the end) it has the same intensity of the Halloween festival. Instead of spirits, it's the fae that is out and about, mad with excitement at the stirring earth, causing pranks, confusion, hayfever and mischief to their victims as pre festival activities as they prepare for their grand fairy queen ball. With other witches I've celebrated this by dressing up as a fairy or spirit of nature which felt a lot like a halloween yet more etheral and mysterious than spooky, yet this post is for solitary witches that don't have their own community to do a whole fairy ball with.

A lot of witches practice alone and have our own solitary rituals for each sabbat that we observe (or the ones we’ve created just for ourselves that we observe alone!) Like any solitary eclectic witch I do things my own different way but some of these things might line up with others practices. I do refer to some of the equinoxes/solstices/crossquarters by their celtic sabbat names but I celebrate them in a secular animist way and treat the wheel of the year I celebrate as more of an agrarian cycle and celebrating nature. I use sabbat names as a point of reference and also people that do celebrate these witches sabbats more traditionally might find value in my personal practice!  Here is my personal correspondences post and my personal Beltane tag!

When I am alone and casting spells a lot of it is visualization/intent so my solitary rituals are more like activities I like to do then specifically casting a spell. If I am doing a spell with an activity based on it a lot would be listening to music to get in the mood and focusing on a candle while visualizing for a period of time! Eves are also important to my celebration as I like to stay up until midnight to cast a spell then!

Spring Crossquarter’s Eve

Monday, April 30th 2018

  • Clean litter around your area This is a great excuse to go on a nature walk and enjoy the wonderful spring weather, yet also please the spirits of nature and make our green spaces more enjoyable and safe for the beings that live in it. Wear some gloves and help clean up!
  • Enjoy snacks while doing crafts like green pepita seeds, red radishes, gummy worms, pixie sticks, chocoshrooms, unicorn inspired anything, fairy floss, kale chips etc!
  • Watch Fairy Films while doing crafts There are some movies I hardcore associate with this sabbat. Those being: Strange Magic, Thumbelina, LABYRINTH, fern gully and stardust. They help to get you in the spirit!
  • Make LED flower lights If you are feeling creative and want to cover your space in glowing flowers you should try this craft! If you can get fabric tulips I think the process would be easier and quicker since you wouldn't have to layer.  
  • Flower tealight bowl If you still want flowers but don't have too much time for crafts, get a bouquet of flowers and cut their stems off. In a wide glass bowl, fill it half way with water, and float the flowers on top. Add tealight candles to light up the piece.
  • Make paper flowers I have so many of these DIYs saved and they are super pretty. You can add LED's inside too and have large paper flowers glowing in your space! ( 1 , 2 , 3 , 4 , 5 )
  • attach them to a branch! ( 1 , 2 )
  • make garland  
  • Hang chimes! Enjoy the fairy festivity by hanging twinkling chimes! It’s a low energy activity that can make the space feel wonderful. Open the windows to let in some sweet spring air and have the chimes twinkle.
  • Make Flower Water! Simmer lavender petals or rose petals in a pot of water. If it's edible you can use the water in cooking but if not you can use the water as a cleansing wash and to elevate the energy! Get a perfume bottle to put rose water in and mist the air in your space.

Midnight

This night is known as witches night and often has been an evening for ritual dancing and witches flight. It's also a good night to do attraction magic

  • Bloom Focus on what you'd want to bloom and grow further in your life. Whisper your wishes to the flowers outside and sprinkle full moon water on them as an offering.
  • Attraction Magic This time of the year things start to speed up and it's easier to get certain outcomes, people or resources to come to you. Use this evening to do spells to attract what you need to create an ideal summer. Candle magic (Bonus if it's floral ) would make a great attraction charm especially for the element of fire on this festival and that you can carve your wishes onto it.
  • Sex Magic This is a festival of fertility and deep fiery creative manifesting energy. It can pull on the lower energy pools of the body. If you are comfortable with that part of yourself you can tap into that energy and the energy of the stirring earth with masturbation and using it to manifest what you want. Before hand meditate and visualize what you want to manifest. While climaxing focus your energy on that and you will release powerful energy towards that spell while orgasming. You can also charge charms and sigils this way. You can use safe tumbled crystal eggs and 'massage' wands (I always stick to quartz based minerals or glass products since those don't dissolve in water), anoint yourself with oils, burn rose incense, take a self indulging floral bath with flower petals to seduce yourself before hand, light candles, there's a lot of magical tools and magic in general to incorporate into this ritual. It's very self indulging and all about making yourself comfortable and using your own unique energy (plus orgasming on the midnight of Beltane is a great way to bring in the festivity while alone haha).

Spring Crossquarter's Day

May 1st

  • Dress like a fairy or in florals I love to dress in florals or in flowery lace on this day. If possible you should dress up like a fairy or spirit of nature but if you have to be a functioning human in modern society not many places might accept that so a quieter way would be to dress floral. Wear a flower crown! Make a ribbon wand. Use your own colorology/color correspondences for the ribbons you pick. Tie ribbons in a braid in your hair for knot magic. Wear rose oil or any floral fragrance oil that is your favorite (I am obsessed with hyacinth).
  • Flower Essences A wonderful form of flower magic is flower essences. It's a gentle way to heal and transform your energetic and emotional body. Is there something you want to let go or manifest within yourself? You can look that up like (thing I want to do + flower essence) and the internet can give you a thorough list. (Examples can be resentment, anger issues, responsibility, courage, feeling loved etc). There are a lot of books on it but flower essence knowledge can be expensive to obtain which I personally find unfair since they can be helpful. A good book if you’d want to invest in it would be the flower essence repertory but google (for now) is free and you can just keep track of flower essence powers in your grimoire and google the ones you need. Find the flower ally that speaks to you the most, order that essence (Bach is the best company) and start today as the first day to take it and note your journey in your book of shadows.
  • Play fairy-like music I have instruments and music I associate with each sabbat and for Beltane it's harps. They sound graceful like fluttering wings and falling blossom petals. Here are a few soundtracks ( 1 , 2 , 3 , 4 , 5 ), fill your space with ethereal music!
  • Repot plants It's easy to get caught up in life and forget about your green best friends but I like to remember this day as a day to repot your house plants. They will love you and grow bigger and leafier due to it, it definitely honors the spirit of nature within the home and it's helpful to take time to remember to do this!
  • Make a butterfly feeder Butterflies have come out and about! Make butterfly feedersso they have get a tasty treat!
  • Make seed bombs Make bombs of local wild flowers (especially the kinds butterflies and bees need) and throw them around in empty grassy lots!
  • Do fun fairy inspired activities Such as making enchanted bubbles (add a teeny pinch of mica to make them sparkle but not too much or else they won’t hold and add floral fragrance to them) and blow them in a park, play pranks on people you don’t like such as stealing their shit and hiding it in some obscure place, eat sweets (bonus if it’s floral like rose, jasmine or lavender), read poetry and riddles.
  • Make delicious floral treats The easiest would be to make teas like rose, lavender, hibiscus or jasmine, you can make rose lattes as well (with a milk wand and hot milk with a dash of rose water) or steamed floral milk (pairs best with plant based milk like coconut, macademia or almond). Make floral buttercream to sandwich between cookies or decorate flowery cupcakes with. Enjoy flowery macarons if you don't have time to bake or add gelatin to floral teas on the eve (bonus if you have flowery cake molds to pour it into) to enjoy today.
  • Have a picnic under a flowering tree The weather is finally wonderful which makes this day a perfect day to celebrate under a blooming tree in a park. Bring spring picnic foods with you like cucumber sandwiches, radish salads, kale chips. Connect with the blossoming trees and do energy work with them. Charge yourself on a carpet of fallen petals on the ground laced with tree roots. Leave some food as offerings to the spirits of nature as well. Let bees and butterflies drink from your bottle cap.
  • Venture into the realm of nature and plants Massive disclaimer about psychadelics, if you don't know yourself well or don't trust yourself you should avoid them at all costs, but shrooms is incredible and the most wonderful experience if you use them only for sacred and spiritual practices. It attunes you to the realm of plants and the fae, trees will have messages to give you, you can see the earth breathing, the world is alive and we are all connected to this planet. You will remember people you love and you will feel loved, your ancestors will be surrounding you, you can hear the gossip among the fungi, you can feel the stars and planet's gravitational movements in the heavens. As wonderful as it can be, it can be dangerous though to people unfamiliar with it which leads me to say I'm only making this suggestion to the witches that have experience with it and understand it. Beltane is a day a lot of witches "travel" and often sometimes with the use of more intense tools way more complex and dangerous than mushrooms, but anyway on a day to honor blooming nature and the thriving earth, shrooms is an ideal tool to help you access that realm if you have a day off so you can be in a park under a flowering tree and cry over how beautiful tulips and moss are.
  • Walk barefoot on the earth If the weather is nice, take a walk in a grassy park  or in your yard barefoot. Feel the fertile ground charging your body with energy. Do a grounding ritual and some energy work!
  • Flower magic Like all plants, flowers are also kind and our allies and are wonderful to do magic with. Learn about the various flowers and what magic they are good in helping you with. Make friends with them, offer them water and sing to them. I made a post a while ago about flowers for love and friendship spells. You don't have to pick the flowers, it's best if they are kept alive or if you grow them. But if you happen to pass a florist or have them already picked, then you can use them in your physical spells as well!

Evening

  • Feast Cook yourself something lovely to celebrate the pinnacle of spring! A great and simple dish is artichokes since they are a lot to pick apart and eat and are a beautiful savory flower that pairs well with delicious salad dressings and vinaigrettes to dip into. Other wonderful dishes can be beet soup, roasted beet hummus with radish + cucumber and asparagus to dip, white asparagus, literally anything with black truffle on it, chive bread rolls, oyster mushrooms, snails with chive and garlic butter, chopped red cabbage salad, adirondack blue mashed potatoes, truffle risotto, something simple and leafy like a tossed spring salad with radishes and purple lettuce. Endives with chopped boiled eggs and roasted beets nested inside, duck with sugar glaze and fresh edible blossoms. Most countries don't have a midspring feast holiday so many people might not be familiar with midspring food ideas but there are a lot of beautiful and flowery dishes in season this time of year to enjoy alone! Not to mention the desserts! Lemon and lavender pound cake, rose meringues, floral parfaits, rose buttercream cakes, violet and chocolate brownies, lilac sugar dusted cookies, candied rose petals, sakura jellies etc. Bake yourself something wonderful and magical for dessert! Also if you like to drink while celebrating, try creme de violette mixed with anything whether it be rose prosecco, plain soda water or a light wheat beer. There are other wonderful cordials too such as elderflower (St. Germain) that you can mix with a white iced tea (or an elderflower iced tea), and rose and lavender syrups you can mix with soju and sodawater. If you love wines you should try a dandelion or rose wine or steep edible flowers in a light wine over the day to infuse!
  • Leave offerings to nature Leave a bowl of flower water outside, sprinkle native wild flower seeds, mist the plants or sing to the trees. Let earth know you still love and honor her. Leave any extra food you made to your guides that care about you.
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✧ *. 🕯️Imbolc Solitary Rituals 🕯️*✧

As the wintery days starts stretching a little longer and signs of life starts peeping about in nature, we are reaching the zenith of the season. The Winter crossquarter is a time of returning light and returning life that marks the end of the cold hibernating season. Candles are lit to welcome the returning light, animals are stirring from hibernation, snow is beginning to thaw leaving behind slush and snowdrops. It is time to look forward to spring, cleanse the home, the self and prepare for the brighter half of the year! 

I see the three sabbats: Samhain, Yule and Imbolc all as new year-ish celebrations, samhain being the death of the year and entering the cold hibernating phase, yule being the rebirth of the year- the longest night which marks the point where we will be returning to the lighter half and Imbolc being the true start to the year after the hibernating/resting period has ended. As the first half of winter is dedicated to resting this period I deem it as cleansing/shedding. I made a transitional wheel here that has gained some traction on this site over the past year.   A lot of us witches practice alone and have our own solitary rituals for each sabbat that we observe (or the ones we’ve created just for ourselves that we observe alone!) Like any solitary eclectic witch I do things my own different way but some of these things might line up with others practices. I do refer to some of the equinoxes/solstices/crossquarters by their celtic sabbat names but I celebrate them in a secular animist way and treat the wheel of the year I celebrate as more of an agrarian cycle and celebrating nature. I use sabbat names as a point of reference and also people that do celebrate these witches sabbats more traditionally might find value in my personal practice! Here is my personal correspondences post and my personal Imbolc tag!

When I am alone and casting spells a lot of it is visualization/intent so my solitary rituals are more like activities I like to do then specifically casting a spell. If I am doing a spell with an activity based on it a lot would be listening to music to get in the mood and focusing on a candle while visualizing for a period of time! Eves are also important to my celebration as I like to stay up until midnight and cast a spell then!

Imbolc's Eve

January 31st, (Wednesday 2018)

  • Cleaning AND CLEANSING This crossquarter has a lot of emphasis on cleansing and preparing for spring to come, and has a tradition of ‘spring cleaning’ (though it’s not quite spring yet), but even if you are in the deep winter months it’s good to get the air within the home flowing since it tends to be bottled up and stagnating to keep the warmth in. This might not sound like much fun, but when you make it into a magical ritual, this can be a very purifying and elevating experience!
  • Use fragrances like juniper, peppermint, wintergreen while cleaning. Juniper is my preferred scent as it’s cleansing, airy, cool and sharp!
  • Sweeping Use a besom to symbolically sweep away the unwanted energy and or patterns you want to rid yourself or your space of. This is an old tradition!
  • Shedding As the days get longer and the air warmer, it’s time to shed! Get rid of old stuff you no longer need and should part with. Donate old ugly clothes, toss old things, maybe give new life to things you haven’t used in a while. It’s time to purge!  
  • Hang chimes I love the sound of metal chimes as the instrument of choice for this sabbat. It reminds me of melting icicles and wintery air. Chimes makes a great cleansing and peaceful sound for your space!
  • Make Candles!!! Unless if you’re in a space where you can’t have candles, it would be great to create some candles for the sabbat! Candles are very easy to make and you can make them in pretty glass votives instead of trying to find a mold for them. You can even get some tea lights and infuse herbs, fragrances and glitter on the top instead of making a whole candle if you don’t have time. I enjoy using warm plain wintery fragrances for this sabbat such as vanilla or sugar. Having refreshing candles like eucalyptus and mint is nice too! But I’d probably want to make those in a creation like:
  • Ice cube Candles! Here is the DIY link!
  • Beautiful herbal pressed candles
  • Make Ice Lanterns! Wonderful alternative if you can’t have open flames indoors, if you have a spot outside where a lantern would be safe to burn, then this makes a beautiful midwinter decoration! (If open flame isn’t ok anywhere for you, having electric candles works great for this cause candles outside tend to not stay lit due to winds and falling snow/water.) Here’s option one with water balloons and here is option two with a carton!
  • Body Scrubs Make some enchanted body scrubs to exfoliate away the old and bring energy for the new! Here are a few favorites for the sabbat! (honey sugar scrub, coconut oil sugar scrub, lavender vanilla sugar scrub)
  • Milk Bath Spell As this sabbat is about cleaning and renewing the home and the self, I love to have a ritual bath each year. This sabbat also has symbolism of motherhood, nurturing and overall milk and dairy and a milk bath is a way to incorporate the symbolism into your solitary practice! They aren’t too hard to make in advance and here are a few simple recipes you can build off of! If you make it in a jar you can charge it overnight with a quartz crystal on top of the lid! (Plain milk bath, chamomille lavender oatmeal milk bath, pink salt milk bath, milk and honey bath melts, almond milk bath, rosemary chamomille detox bath)  
  • Enjoy snacks while doing crafts such as: yogurt pretzels, buttermints, grilled cheese bites, cheese puffs, white chocolate wafers, bread sticks and cheese dip, and if you are not a fan of dairy then animal crackers (in honor of hibernating animals!), or rosemary crackers, dark toasted bread (like pumpernickel), sliced apples, parsnip fries!
  • Cleanse and Decorate the altar! Wipe down all the incense ash and the surfaces with refreshing essential oils, purify the space, and decorate it with wintery elements, eucalyptus garland, silver mound, lambs ear and white candles!

 Midnight Spell:

The Crossquarter is a time to focus on what you would want to initiate or manifest for the new year. This time is ideal for road opening spells if you need something to open up for you by the time spring arrives. Set goals for yourself, clear paths for yourself, and focus on achieving them by manifesting it on this night!

  • An activity for road opening could be writing down your goals and sealing it in a plastic bag. Take a bowl and put your goals on the bottom then fill it with a thin layer of ice cubes. Light a white candle on top (preferably a floating candle) symbolizing you in your path to reach your goals. As the last of winter’s snows thaw, the barrier of ice between your candle and your goals will be melted away.
  • A quicker and simpler task would be to burn bayleaves which is something I do annually (and also is a common tradition). You burn bayleaves to manifest desires into reality yet also it can be a divinatory practice as the way the bayleaf burns will show you if it’s a task that’s being blocked, if you have to work harder at it or if it’s something that will happen right away.
  • Banishing the old and unwanted This should preferably be done first but think about the qualities that you are not fond of or habits that you’d like to break for the new cycle to come. Light a bundle of juniper or eucalyptus/wintergreen incense and smoke cleanse yourself to start anew. Think about the qualities you’d like to replace the negative ones. Instead of thinking of things like “I want to be less lazy” focus on it more like “I’m productive, I’m motivated, I’m energetic” etc.

  Imbolc Day

February 1st 

  • Wear all white! It’s midwinter and a time of cleansing! Wear white to either honor winter or to celebrate the fresh start of the new year to come! (Bonus if you want to wear sparkly makeup like glittery eyeshadow, nail polish, lip gloss)
  • Fresh Air Open up the windows for a few minutes to let the air in and get the stagnant air flowing! It might be very cold but its good for the air flow for at least a few minutes! 
  • Soundbath Use chimes or a singing bowl to cleanse your space and bring in good energy. This would be great to do while you have the windows open for a moment!
  • Day of Light! Fill the home with AS MUCH LIGHT as possible. Open all curtains! Light lanterns and electric candles! Put on white fairylights. Welcome the return to light!
  • Ritual Bath Have a magical ritual spa day! Have some special scrub that you never use cause you don't have time? Today is the day for it! Have a colorful bath bomb you still haven’t used? Make a bath ritual with it! If you had made the milky bath jar from the night before, have a rejuvenating magical experience and maybe channel your bath witchery to do some energy work in the bath. You can do some tub “grounding” by getting well connected with your physical form and energy surrounded by the magic of the bath you’ve created. Also light some white candles and play some relaxing meditative music. For this sabbat I have a few sound tracks I enjoy listening to! ( 1 , 2 , 3 )
  • Visit a Sauna House Especially if you don’t have a bath and you’d like to get out of the house, going to a sauna house is a wonderful outing and perfect for this sabbat. Especially with symbolism such as fire stirring in the earth, a great way to celebrate that is to sweat it out instead of being out in the cold! The sauna houses by me are all Korean bath houses and they are INCREDIBLE because not only do they have wonderful hot tubs but they also have saunas made out of salt bricks, clay, quartz and jade and it’s a wonderful place to do energy work in or meditate.
  • Eat seasonal winter roots Not a lot is available in the middle of winter but I love white hardy roots like potatoes, rutabaga, parsnips (they make amazing fries!) and turnips. There was this amazing dish a chef made called rootatouille which was a wintery version of ratatouille (which is such a summer harvest dish). Rootatouille is made with roots and covered with a delicious cream sauce instead of tomato sauce. (Skip to 3:33 for the rootatouille part)
  • Enjoy a nice creamy drink like a milky tea or frothy latte! Especially if you don’t have time to make yourself a whole dinner then just having a pleasant milky tea or a frothy creamy latte is enough to get festive! Here’s a recipe I love to do sometimes on this sabbat:
  • Whole Milk or Oat Milk 
  • Kava (Like two tsp to a cup of milk?)
  • Nutmeg
  • vanilla bean or extract
  • cardamom simmer the milk (do not boil) with the spices. Mix until well infused and blended. Enjoy! (Also if you never had kava before, it’s something that makes you feel very very chill and some people use it as an alternative to alcohol. Don’t operate any machinery or do any of the things you shouldn’t do while drunk. It has different effects on different people but if you don’t know how it makes you feel yet then don’t plan on doing anything for the rest of the day).

  Evening:

  • Light a bunch of candles!! Make sure that your space is still filled with many lights as the evening rolls in! If you don’t have a lot of candles or don’t want a lot of open flames, I love the look of white fairy lights and white electric candles. It’s mysterious and icy and less worrisome! 
  • Feast! This feast is usually dairy-centric as it’s a very wintery and also maternal feast. Most animals are lactating this time of year and it was a time people had access to something in the middle of winter to eat. Therefore, other than grain, roots and dried meats, dairy has symbolic importance but there are other things available if dairy is not your thing! However a dish I like to make for myself is spicy shepherds pie because the top mashed potatoes is like the snow and the bottom meaty part is like the thawing earth. I put a lot of spices in the meaty bottom so it symbolizes the life stirring in the earth and the warmer days to come. Shepards pie is also easy to make a vegetarian/vegan version of. If you do love dairy a great dessert to enjoy would be a slice of cheese cake or even better- tres leches, but if you are not a fan of either, another dessert I love to make is essentially a brownie sundae where the brownie once again symbolizes the stirring earth and the vanilla icecream (which you can get a non dairy version of) is like the thawing snow. When the two fuse together it might create a light brownish slush which is kind of the sign of winter's end that everyone dislikes cause they think it looks dirty but I love to celebrate it in the form of a tasty melting dessert. Bonus if you want to make a snowdrop topper to garnish it with.
  • Here’s a link for a fantasy feast I made ages ago with some recipes!

Happy mid winter everyone! Happy Imbolc and I hope everyone has a wonderful transition into spring!

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✧ *.🎄Yule Solitary Rituals🎄*✧

As the days grow darker to the shortest day of the year and the frost creeps on the skeletons of dead leaves and flurries seep into the streams of howling winds, we know we are reaching Winter Solstice. Though this is the darkest point of the year filled with frost and shadows, it is the time to fill the night with thousands of lights and celebrate unity, blessings and rebirth since the days will extend slowly as we enter the new year. To celebrate life and longevity in a moment of darkness we decorate the home with plants that keep its prosperous green and red colors. Pine, cedar, holy, mistletoe, rose hips, cinnamon, chestnuts, pine cones and winter fruits. (Interestingly enough plants like pine and rose hips are packed with vitamin C and can be used in healing teas!) This is also a time to gather together with loved ones and share what you have in a time of rest and stagnancy. Though it would be ideal to gather with a circle of intimate people this post shall focus on solitary practices of course!  

A lot of us witches practice alone and have our own solitary rituals for each sabbat that we observe (or the ones we’ve created just for ourselves that we observe alone!) Like any solitary eclectic witch I do things my own different way but some of these things might line up with others practices. I do refer to some of the equinoxes/solstices/crossquarters by their celtic sabbat names but I celebrate them in a secular animist way and I treat the wheel of the year as a an argrarian cycle celebrating nature. I use sabbat names as a point of reference and also people that do celebrate these witches sabbats more traditionally might find value in my personal practice!  Here is my personal correspondences post and my personal Yule tag!

When I am alone and casting spells a lot of it is visualization/intent so my solitary rituals are more like activities I like to do then specifically casting a spell. If I am doing a spell with an activity based on it a lot would be listening to music to get in the mood and focusing on a candle while visualizing for a period of time! Eves are also important to my celebration as I like to stay up until midnight and cast a spell then!

Winter Solstice's Eve

Wednesday December 20th 2017

  • Make a Pot Pourri ESPECIALLY if you have a cauldron, fill it up with all kinds of winter magic! Pot Pourris could make a great base for a spell! You can add all sorts of ingredients and maybe slip a paper with written wishes to be manifested inside. If you are very sneaky and a closeted witch it would be a great activity to do in the home! Add orange zest and rose petals for vitality and energy in winter! Put Rosemary and Rose hips for health. Add Pine or Cedar for prosperity! Put in mint and cloves for purity and keeping the space cleansed. Maybe don't add all the pairings I've mentioned in this bullet point, yet consider that each ingredient has it's own magical correspondence! There are great pot pourri recipes online. I like this article for some simple ideas!
  • Decorate your Altar This is a great activity especially if you live in a house hold where you can't express your spirituality throughout the home and have to confine it to your space. Decorate your altar with the plants of the season! It will smell incredible if you add cedar, pine or cinnamon and look beautiful with holy, rose hips, mistletoe and pine cones. Add peppermint for joy and luck and buy a little string of LED lights to wrap around it or make yule tea lights if you want something non electric. Burn peppermint, cedar, cinnamon or sandalwood incense and make your space jolly and merry!
  • Grow (borax) Crystals Borax is super fun and non toxic and you can grow crystals overnight! What you will need is a box of borax, a pot you can use for crafts and some white pipe cleaners. You can make a pipe cleaner 'skeleton' for a tea light holder or make snowflake pipe cleaners for the borax solution. Here is a great tutorial on borax crystals. If you add food coloring you can change the color (it will nearly always come out as light pastel unless you add a lot but I like the white color for this sabbat anyway).
  • Make Sigil Snowflakes Design spell snowflakes by drawing a thin sigil, then folding a paper up into triangles and drawing your sigil on the final triangle. You will have beautiful snowflake designs with amplified energy to hang in your windowsill! (I like this quick tutorial for ideas).
  • Bake! Winter is the ultimate baking season and it makes the home smell great and you can indulge for the winter! Create delicious treats like ginger bread cookies, cinnamon rolls, red velvet cupcakes or even a mini yule log! You can also make poppets in the form of cookies or spell cookies in shapes of Yule trees (prosperity), ginger bread men or animals (if animals to maybe acquire some kind of quality that animal has to help you in your journey), or stars for joy!
  • Offerings to Nature In this dark part of the year when you give back it can make an impact. Make pinecone bird feeders (of pine cones you've collected in nature please don't use the craft store scented ones), Orange bird feeder, or treats for the fae. You can make beautiful sun catcher ice sculptures to decorate your balcony or garden with (1 , 2 ). Leave meringue mushrooms or holiday sweets for the spirits!
  • Spell Baubles Make some spell baubles! Like the way there are spell jars, you can fill these baubles with certain desires and decorate your altar with them.  Also as a tip, if you buy the large baubles, keep the ingredients dry so you can add an electric tea light inside and make them spell bauble lanterns! It will be a wonderful decoration in your space when the night is so long.
  • Smoke Bundles for Cleansing Many of the seasonal fir plants can help cleanse the air! I'd suggest cedar, cinnamon, rosemary, sage and pine. Yew is toxic though I have absolutely NO IDEA who would even decorate their home with yew?? Why? But I could see the confusion occuring only if someone was harvesting pine in the wild and confused it with Yew. It's good to be able to tell apart the difference between Yew and other pines and make sure to avoid it!
  • Make Scented Candles I made this post years ago and I believe some links are broken (but also my instructions are sketchy cause this was when I was just learning how to make candles so don’t pay attention to my instructions anyway haha the ingredients are what matters), but you can be creative with scented candles! Winter solstice is a great time to make the home smell jolly and be creative plus you can add spells in it! Here are some of my favorite candles that you can find inspiration from! 1- spell pillar with things ontop  2- frosty pillars  3-Pillar with things around it  (also my own when they are lit).
  • Make blessed crafts for friends! If you have witchy friends or friends that respect your practice you can make them cute charms for gifts in the winter! This can be a combination of things above like a scented votive candle, a smoke bundle or a crystal tea light or:
  • Make a Magical Ugly Winter Witch Sweater: We all need sweaters this time of year but also simple stitching, beading and embroidery is much easier than I thought and I ended up having an idea to embroider some cute tacky witch things on sweaters and make some enchanted sweaters! Michaels and other bead shops in the city sell crystal beads and you can sow stitch magic into it! I am making some for some witchy friends with flourite, amethyst and rose quartz beads as a gift for the winter solstice. If you have some sweaters you'd like to magic-afy but not ruin with kitschy-ness, you can still sew some crystal beads on the inside or in a place that it will not scratch you.
  • Fill the home with Music! This is definitely the time of year we need cheer within the home! Some music I love for the winter solstice is the Nut Cracker. I also love ambient winter sound tracks like this one that’s very meditative or more mysterious like this one. There’s a lot of winter fairy music on youtube. Look up any Gothic Winter instrumental music and you will find a lot of tracks. There is also Katrina Skye who is super cheesy but she is so cheesy it's charming. Her music tends to be very wiccan though.

Midnight Spell: Winter Solstice is wonderful to do a spell focusing on reviving something for the new year. If there is something you want to bring to life again, an old hobby, an old connection, an old project or goal or dream, you can focus your spell on that!

  • An activity could be lighting a sparkler envisioning it to ignite the spirit of life and revive you. Pass it around your head, around your body and between each leg (like how you would cleanse yourself with sage or palo santo). Pass it over your magical items and crystals to charge (make sure it's not near anything that's very flammable though). Sparklers can give off a lot of smoke so I would not recommend this if you live in a smoke free environment. 
  • Put to rest As we descend into the slower restful part of the year it would be wise to use this time to focus on goals we want to accomplish for the next year and slow down or halt other issues we want to put to rest in order to focus on ourselves, whether it be bad habits, people that won’t allow us to grow, or locations we keep finding ourselves that are unhealthy. Write down these obstacles on a piece of paper or cardboard, put it in a container full of water and place it in the freezer in order to 'freeze' these things.

Yule Day

Thursday, December 21st 2017

  • Ice skating Even if you are alone, ice skating on the first day of winter is pretty magical! Set up your favorite magical winter playlist on your ipod or invite a friend and glide away on the ice! The best is if it's an outdoor rink!
  • Setting up lights It is the shortest day of the year therefore being the darkest. To elevate your space, set up many colorful lights for a magical experience! If you have a space you can have open flame then:
  • Burn Scented Candles Either the magical ones you've made on the eve or some that you've bought! Winter scented candles really add charm to the space!
  • Sing! Song worship is a wonderful form of magic. You can sing spells or devote a song to your guides. Even if you don't have a song to sing then intoning is a great way to elevate the space. Intoning would be wonderful to warm up your vocal chords and energy with then you could pick a devotional song or even a carol to sing!
  • Offerings Your guides have been with you all year and the year (or sun) is going through it's period of rebirth. You can set aside offerings in gratitude for them. If you want to make it in theme with the holidays you can set aside something like milk and cookies! If your guides like something specific then of course offer that to them.
  • Winter Grounding Do some energy work on the first day of winter to center yourself and go within. Stand in the snow or on the cold hard ground and feel the cold electrify your senses as you ground with the earth. If cold is very much not your thing you can do energy work in your room with a sound bath using white noise tracks or meditative winter music. Put tumbled crystals like quartz, blue lace agate or angel aura quartz in the freezer until they're cold and make a grid on your body by placing one on your third eye, throat, chest, navel etc and meditate. Focus on taking in as much energy to reserve for the season.
  • Make a Merry Potion! As it's the darkest time of the year the mood can plummet. A personal potion of mine is a wonderful potpourri-like tea that can help boost your mood. It has dried rose hips , hibiscus petals and anise and Rhodiola rosea or rhodiola tincture. I would suggest getting a rhodiola tincture (you can purchase from wholefoods or online) and putting it in there. I swear by this plant and tincture, rhodiola has been a great plant ally to me especially to help cope with depression (it helps increase serotonin) but since I don’t know all the medical specifics you should consult it with your doctor if you are on something like antidepressants. It’s a semi known thing so your doctor would probably have good advice whether its safe for you to take it or not. Otherwise I have literally been spreading this tincture at work and have been seeing changes with my coworkers and my own mental health like it has helped me survive this far so I will be using it to survive winter. 
  • TREAT YOSELF Winter is the season of resting.  Make a potpourri-like hot bath with clementine slices, rose petals, epsom salt and anise stars. Be careful to not add something like cinnamon cause the oil can burn the nether regions. Also be careful with peppermint oil cause that can leave icy burns in the nether regions. If diluted properly the two could work but if you are not familiar with working with those oils I'd suggest leaving them out!

Evening

  • Celebratory Feast If you are alone you can make yourself a delicious winter stew! It will be fun to slow cook something meaty or rich and make the whole home smell great and bring anticipation for dinner! If you are looking for more elaborate dishes I love to use seasonal ingredients for every sabbat. Pine is an excellent flavor that pairs well with fish like salmon. Chestnut is divine either sweet or savory. Roots like potatoes, turnips and ginger are a must!
  • Blessings Since Yule to me is about generosity and unity I like to use the day to do helpful spells and send blessings to loved ones. Tip when you do a spell for someone: make sure it's something they ask for and truly need. For example if you know your friend has been struggling to find a job or money you can do a money spell for them. If your friend has wished in front of you to be able to move out into a safer place, you can put energy out towards that. However a bad example would be if you think your friend is miserable cause they are single and you do a love spell. That can end up in a disaster! Only do a spell on something you know they need. Otherwise just send a blessing of good energy towards your loved ones!
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✧ *.🎃Samhain Solitary Rituals🎃*✧

As the air grows cooler and the winds begin to howl and rip the dead leaves from trees, we know the veil is thin and Samhain is near! After the equinox, which was equal parts night and day, Samhain marks the time of the wheel that we descend into the darker half of the year. It's this time of the year that communication and connection to the spirit world is a lot easier and we've grown accustomed to making wards to protect the home from malevolent energy in the form of jack o lanterns and lights. On a positive note it is a time to leave out treats and foods for passed away loved ones and to remember them. It's the final harvest full of well spiced comfort autumn foods as well as a 'New Year' since it's a sabbat that honors the natural cycle of death and sees it as a form of transformation.

A lot of us witches practice alone and have our own solitary rituals for each sabbat that we observe (or the ones we’ve created just for ourselves that we observe alone!) Like any solitary eclectic witch I do things my own different way but some of these things might line up with others practices. I do refer to some of the equinoxes/solstices/crossquarters by their celtic sabbat names but I celebrate them in a secular animist way and treat the wheel of the year I celebrate as more of an argrarian cycle and celebrating nature. I use sabbat names as a point of reference and also people that do celebrate these witches sabbats more traditionally might find value in my personal practice!  Here is my personal correspondences post and my personal samhain tag!

When I am alone and casting spells a lot of it is visualization/intent so my solitary rituals are more like activities I like to do then specifically casting a spell. If I am doing a spell with an activity based on it a lot would be listening to music to get in the mood and focusing on a candle while visualizing for a period of time! Eves are also important to my celebration as I like to stay up until midnight and cast a spell then!

Hallow's Eve

Tuesday October 31st 2017

  • Dressing up in your most witchiest Ok every year I'm a witch, whether it's just a lazy witch in my black clothing or an over the top kitschy witch with colorful hair and electric colored make up, but I just like to have these looks casually on Halloween day cause its amazing and a chance for me to be myself!
  • Pumpkin Carving! If you haven't already tonight is definitely the night for pumpkin carving! Write sigils inside your pumpkin for protective magic. I love this DIY for a pumpkin indoor lantern cause it shows how to rub spices like cinnamon and nutmeg inside to achieve that sent of pumpkin pie in the home. Use electric candles instead of flame if you want it to last the night since the flame's heat will cook the pumpkin.
  • Mini Pumpkin Tea lights Also an easier alternative to carving if you don't have much time. Even gutting the mini pumpkins takes a lot of time for me but doing so and filling them with a black tea light will make an excellent centerpiece either for your altar or feast table!
  • Making Candy Apples I associate candy coated sweet red apples with halloween (and caramel/maple sugar on granny smith for mabon) and I love how you can make the candy various colors like a poisonous black or vibrant blood red!
  • Setting sweets aside for spirits So everyone has spirits that chill with them and it would be great to show appreciation for the positive spirits that surround you. Set some sweets on a dish and make a tiny altar for them in your space.
  • Enjoying sweets while doing crafts! Enjoy some of that halloween candy for yourself! My favorite treats on this night are chocolate coated donuts, reeses cups, cider sugar donuts, red licorice and apple cider.
  • Watching a spooky or Halloween themed movie Or halloween themed film. My favorite will always be the 80s halloween special The Worst Witch with Tim curry. I watch it religiously.
  • Spirit Contact I wouldn't suggest using an Ouija board or doing any communication with spirits if you have never had experience. They can be rude and harass you, YET if you are experienced and know how to guard yourself, then this is a great night to play with an ouija board! (PS I think Ouija Girl has a great informative blog about working with ouija boards. Here is her FAQ page. But still, it's always better to do work with a medium or someone with experience than trying to figure it out alone). A safer experience for someone with no spirit communication experience is attending a seance! In NYC there are a few mediums that hold seances monthly. I love the one at Catland in Brooklyn, the mediums that host the event there are fantastic. It might be hard to attend an authentic one on Halloween night since a lot of people will want to just try to cash in on creating a 'spooky' experience, but if you really want, try to get in contact with mediums and ask if they host any seance events. Important to know: usually the spirits that chill around you are guides and family and they might have more info to give you then you might be ready for. My first seance I really don't know what to do with the info given to me but I really hope I make the best of it and don't mess anything up.
  • Witches Flight This is like an extension of the previous point where if you have never done this before just completely disregard this suggestion cause flying is dangerous. For many years witches have flown on Halloween night to other realms using flying ointments.
  • Protective Magic: Finally, protect yourself from the high spirit activity with crystals like black tourmaline, obsidian and spirit quartz. Do protective spells for any cats you see or live with especially black cats since they tend to be targets.   

Midnight Spell:

  • This sabbat honors the natural cycle of death and transformation. Focus on what you want to transform in your life. Magic on this night is very powerful so think about it before hand and make sure it is what you want for if you ask to transform something, you might find a lot of endings that suddenly occur in your life to lead to the transformations that you want. (There was a conversation on here I can no longer find but it was put  really nicely that death is not just some simple 'transformative' process it can be very drastic, often very uncomfortable and if you are not ready though you ask for something to change, you might not be ready for the new obstacles that will be thrown at you. Just know that you will be ready for what you ask for.)
  • Some spell activities can be shuffling the deck visualizing what you want to change and then finding the death card and seeing the card that follows will be your answer to seek how you can further bring that transformation closer.
  • I'm a mixologist and enjoy working with liquor for rituals. I find fire to be a great transformer yet instead of burning something I prefer blessing a shot of whiskey or absinthe with my intent then taking it like liquid fire to transform me within. If you do not like alcohol or can not drink it for whatever reason you can perform this with hot apple cider instead!

Samhain Day

Wednesday, November 1st 2017

  • Upon the day I like to dress in complete black. My makeup is very dark and I wear long black dresses and veils. Depending on how you want to honor the dead, dress how you wish.
  • Gravesweeping Visit your loved ones on this day and leave flowers and gifts on their grave! If you want you can also visit any cemetery, yet make sure to practice good graveyard etiquette. Leave a penny by the gate, do not sit or lean on any tomb stones, of course don't take anything from a grave. Be respectful of those whom are resting.
  • Close Your Garden This is a time to close the garden for the winter to come. Harvest the last fruits and herbs and bring in any delicate potted plants within the home.
  • Shadow Work Especially if you are looking to transform some aspect of your life this is a great time to do shadow work and look within if you are creating any obstacles for yourself. Get to know your shadow self, get to solve problems together. This is also an excellent day for divination and scrying.
  • Meditation and Energy Work by the base of a tree I love to do energy work on the days of the sabbats yet as the earth grows colder, the roots dig deeper and the world goes into hibernation. Sit at the base of a tree preferably with thick roots and feel it's connection to the cold earth beneath you. Dig into yourself and see what needs to rest and what needs to be healed.

Evening Celebratory Feast

  • So in many practices people like to host a dumb supper but instead I like to have a lively feast where everyone will share a story about someone they loved that passed away or a story of an ancestor in their family. At the end of each tale we toast our glasses to them! (And pour a little bit of drink to them or set aside a snack if they are not into alcohol.)
  • Hold a feast of rich comfort foods that are spiced and sweet like sweet potato mash, candied brown beans, pumpkin bread, smokey bourbon pulled pork or maple glazed beef brisket, roasted carrots and beets and (I personally love to make baked mac and cheese but its a fall comfort soul food for me). My Samhain feast is abundant with fall soul foods and sweet roots and spices. (here is a fantasy feast post and my personal feast post from last year)
  • If you are alone (as this is a solitary post), make a few fall dishes you deeply enjoy or cook the favorites of loved relatives that have passed away, eat some sweets and set out some offerings to passed away loved ones.
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Samhain/Autumn Cross Quarter Personal Correspondences

The days are darkening! The chill laces the air and rattles the dead leaves. The veil is thinning and the days are getting spookier! For the Celtic year the final night is approaching! This holiday is the celebration of the end, the other side, and loved ones whom have passed. Many cultures across the globe have festivities honoring their dead and those that they love that continue to guide them or watch over them. Though Halloween in the U.S. has more to do with the spookier aspects of the festivities (the veil thinning and the wild spirits being unleashed!) I see it as well as a family orientated celebration where you take the time to honor passed away friends and family, share wonderful stories of them, give offerings and spend a night in their presence, almost unified until the night ends.

Samhain - Autumn Cross Quarter

November 1st

(Samhain Eve / Halloween night of course is October 31st)

Colors:

  • Black for the other side, the unknown, the darkness
  • Orange for the height of fall, pumpkins, leaves, nature
  • Red for apples, candied apples, fiesty entities,

Crystals: obsidian, onyx, black tourmaline, charcoal (not really a crystal but very protective!), Infinite, Staurolite and spirit quartz

Herbs and Plants:

  • Pumpkins
  • obnoxiously large and lumpy squashes like red hubbard or red fairytale/ french Cinderella pumpkin
  • Kabocha Squash
  • sweet potatoes
  • anise
  • cinnamon
  • cloves
  • crunchy dead leaves
  • Dragonsblood (for protection)

Animals:

  • black cats
  • bats
  • spiders because they represent the weaver of worlds, a spirit that connects one to the other side and reveals what is hidden. Plus people associate them with spookiness though I do see them as very wise maternal beings. 
  • crows and Ravens also since they represent the hedge and in some cultures birds or creatures that fly symbolized their ability to travel in between worlds

Decorations:

  • black drapes
  • jack o lanterns
  • browning autumn leaves garland
  • black candles, especially to light in honor of loved ones

Food:

  • My autumn foods tend to be flavorfully and heavily spiced and sometimes sweet and the Halloween feast is a combo of that!
  • I like to make jacket potatoes probably because of me being influenced by Harry Potter, it’s a dish they liked to eat I noticed during the Halloween feast but in general in the UK it’s popular when the weather gets cold. To make it more accustomed to American culture and even more autumny I like to make sweet jacket potatoes with tons of melted cheese, herbs and spices. Other vegetables are of course the mid autumn variety. It’s still the season of the squash but I like to get more lumpier and redder squashes like the red kabocha or red hubbard squash. Corn salads make a great side dish as well.
  • It’s funny because the meat of choice I always associated with this holiday is pork, but it turns out with the more wiccan social circles I’m apart of they associate pork with this holiday too and I never asked why but I find it interesting. I chose pork because its something that can be served glazed and sweetened and there is something charming about calling your main dish ‘Halloween Ham’. Having a wonderful honey glazed or maple barbeque spiced ham or pulled pork to layer ontop of the cheesy sweet jacket potatoe will help complete the dinner.
  • I like to reserve the sugar pumpkins for all dessert baking. I like to make pumpkin hand pies and stuff them with sweetened and spiced pumpkin pie filling mixed with a tiny bit of white chocolate to make it like a pumpkin chocolate truffle paste. A pumpkin pie or cake would be a perfect main dessert. Other sweet flavors I associate with this holiday are chocolate, especially dark chocolate, sour apple and anise. I also associate peanut butter and cinnamon but those two flavors kind of cover all of autumn for me, but especially for Halloween I think of the flavor combo of peanut and chocolate because reeses pieces is such a Halloween candy for me. Also donuts is a big fall treat because growing up I always ate apple cider donuts during fall but on Halloween I always ate chocolate coated donuts. I like to save caramel coated apples for Mabon and candy coated apples for Samhain but candy coated can be really hard on the teeth. Therefore I make up for this by making drinks or sweets flavored after candy sour apple. 
  • For sweets, though these are very controversial with some I like candy corn and licorice, at least for decoration. I like to sprinkle candy corn on a black table cloth around the dishes of choice to at least create a festive presentation. I also love (as I mentioned before) peanut butter chocolates, dark chocolate, sour apple candies and anything pumpkin related. This year I might try to make pumpkin fudge or pumpkin cake truffles since my birthday cake truffles came out so well!
  • I feel as a witch this is the time to really let your creativity shine with cocktails. Invest in some dry ice (but be careful since it can burn you), make layered drinks that foam and curdle, be spectacular with your alcoholic potions! For those that do not care for cocktails or don’t feel like being that over the top, there is always the classic pumpkin brew served in a hollowed pumpkin that makes a great drink. Pumpkin beer and mulled spiced anise wine can really set the mood. For non-alcoholic options there can be apple cider and spiced teas.
  • Also to add to the food section, there’s this amazing article here that speaks to my soul!

Instruments/Music: The fiddle! In folklore the fiddle has always been associated with death or the devil, a lot of great Halloween songs have a violin or fiddle in it like here and here.

Fragrances/Incense:

  • pumpkin
  • dragonsblood
  • cinnamon
  • cloves 
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✧ .☀️Litha Solitary Rituals☀️*✧

Litha is only next week! It's the longest day of the year in the northern hemisphere and the time when the sun is at it's highest height. Kind of like how full moons occur once a month and the moon is at its most influential power, Litha happens once a year when the sun is at it's most influential power. It's time to soak in the sun's powerful rays and dance to the beat of drums! I have a personal correspondences post that might help explain why I chose certain things! (Also here is my personal tag!)

A lot of us witches practice alone and have our own solitary rituals for each sabbat that we observe (or the ones we've created just for ourselves that we observe alone!) Like any solitary eclectic witch I do things my own different way but some of these things might line up with others practices. 

When I am alone and casting spells a lot of it is visualization/intent so my solitary rituals are more like activities I like to do then specifically casting a spell. If I am doing a spell with an activity based on it a lot would be listening to music to get in the mood and focusing on a candle while visualizing for a period of time! Eves are also important to my celebration as I like to stay up until midnight and cast a spell then!

Litha Eve

Tuesday June 20th 2017

  • make carved citrus tealights (Orange, Lemon, 3, 4) or light a bunch of citrus fragrance candles. Litha is a fiery and sunny celebration so light up things that remind you of the sun and help evoke solar energy! (Candle orders 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6)
  • make sunscreen potion I make my own body creams and lotion mixtures for each season. Some oils like jojoba and argan naturally help block off UVs but I'm unsure if it can help as much as a good sunscreen (I'm not a dermatologist lol). Sunscreen is really important to help protect your skin from the sun and I learned that its good practice to use it in almost any sunny season. I just forget so I have to sneak it into a lotion. My sun cream concoction usually consists of: -Argan or jojoba oil -Sunscreen SPF 50 -orange, lemon, ginger fragrance oil (Very little drops each). -Gold mica powder -Bronze or orange mica powder For something more cooling: -melon fragrance oil instead of the citrus and ginger. Peppermint essential oil. -white pearl mica powder. For something more energetic yet also warding of insects: -citronella and lemongrass essential oil with a few drops of grass or rain fragrance. -green pearl mica powder
  • Make snacks while doing crafts! Sunflower seeds! Salt Water Taffy! Shark Gummies! Spicy Chips! Mango Sriracha Hummus! Jalapeno Poppers! 
  • Decorate your altar! Coat it in flowers like Day Lillies, Sunflowers and Roses. Burn incense like amber, strawberry, citrus. Use fiery or summery colors
  • Have a bonfire if possible If you don't have the garden space have a tabletop bonfire. (If you don't have a safe space to do this then you can make electric paper lanterns!)
  • Make magical smores
  • Midnight Spell: Focus on what you would like to prosper or thrive in. Litha is great for prosperity spells. If you do this in an activity instead of just visualizing, make a tabletop bonfire or a fire pit and build your pit with the energy likeness of the thing you would like to thrive in. The fire is you thriving. Feed the fire and dance around it. Being a bartender I like to make my own drinks. One way I like to do a spell is magically charge/bless a shot of a mix I make then take it! This can be an alternative if you can't have fire around at all: Litha Shot
  • Infuse tequila in a jar of sliced orange bell peppers, half an orange habanero pepper sliced and crushed tangerines. Take it as a shot with a lemon. Charge with carnelian on the lid overlnight.
  • If you like drinks that are sweeter make a simple syrup with 1/3 cup sugar and 1/4 cup orange or mango juice. Let simmer until dissolved. Take the syrup and fill a jar with it 1/3 of the way. Put sliced mangoes, oranges, candied lemon peels and a tiny bit of cinnamon in the jar. Fill the rest with white rum or any liquor of your choice. Shake and let it sit over night. Charge with a citrine, sunstone or yellow calcite by placing a crystal on it's lid. Chase with lemonade or orange juice if you don't like the bitterness of alcohol (though the syrup will help to make it smooth).
  • If you don't like drinking at all then this can work with orange juice, sun tea or lemonade charged with intention. 

Litha Day

(Wednesday June 21st 2017)

  • Go on a journey! If possible take a trip to the beach! Hiking and just spending time outside where it's sunny is nice too. 
  • Grill! Eat at a grill or use your own grill for an outdoor meal!
  • Charge any magical tools in the sun! Some crystals fade in sunlight but leaving them out for a few minutes (less than 5) shouldn't do too much harm. Make sure to research your stone if you want to leave it out in the sun for a bit!
  • Make sun tea Tip: Don't abandon this for days or else you can make a bad concoction. (of bacteria lol). Let the sun steep your tea! Make wonderful summery blends like hibiscus berry or peach roobois or lemon black tea. Serve it iced or with fruits!
  • Eat seasonal fruits and vegetables! Eat watermelon to help keep cool (plus its pretty and bright red) offer some watermelon and summery or tropical fruits to the fae if you work with them.
  • make a bee fountain
  • Charge yourself in the sun Soak up the sun's rays. Do sun channeling! Wear sunscreen pls
  • Sun ritual:  To Prepare:  apply sunscreen to your whole body that will be exposed. Get a blanket and a citrine or yellow calcite stone. Also get some water to help keep hydrated.  Take a blanket or just lie down in the earth if you feel comfortable enough doing that and soak in the sun to channel it's energy. Take a citrine stone and place it on your navel. Charge your solar plexus energy and let the sun enter you through there. Visualize the aspects of yourself thriving while under the sun. Release powerful intentions afterwards through visualization or a candle focus spell using an orange, red or yellow candle. (white is always an ok subsitute)
  • if thunderstorming: collect summer solstice rain
  • soak up the rain instead. The rain on summer solstice is a powerful force

Evening

  • Celebratory Dinner Cook a dinner with lots of grilled and spicy foods. Here is a link to my recipes posts.  If you drink enjoy your dinner with rose wine, or summery sangria.
  • Make a plate for any entities you like to work with.
  • Bless some fireflies. Catch them tell them you love them then release them. (I always did this since I was a kid lol). Bless each one of them that you see.
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🎃🍁🍂✨AUTUMN WITCHY THINGS TO DO!✨🍂🍁🌰

 This is my most favorite season. I am feeling giddy as I type this. There's so much to enjoy during this time of year! 

Collecting

🌰 this is the season for acorns! As you might have noticed the ground around some oak trees are already sprinkled with them. You can collect acorns for runes or make acorn bell charms or make floating tea lights with the caps. I love collecting acorns for spells, especially wealth spells. I hold one and bless it, then visualize my spell as if it is already happening, then kiss or blow a kiss at it to seal it (it's been on the ground so sometimes it safer to blow a kiss to it lol) then tuck it in the earth.  

🍁 Collecting leaves! Fall leaves are great for banishing spells especially since they are something that was shed away. You can write on them what things you want to come to an end and burn or bury them. You can also use them to make leaf lanterns or decorate fairy lights with.  

🍎 It's also Apple season! You can go apple picking and use their deliciousness in cooking or dry them in an oven or fruit dehydrator for snacks or teas! Making apple tea is perfect for autumn and also makes a nice gift. Apples are also highly used in spells often for gratitude, offerings or fertility. You can leave out sliced apples as an offering to spirits if you work with them or bury them for spells. If you celebrate the equinox they can make great tea lights and decorations.  

🍂 This is also a great time to start preserving. Start to pickle things for winter when a lot less stuff grows. Make extracts from fresh herbs. Gather a clean jar, hard white liquor like vodka and cheese cloth for straining and top your harvested fruit or herbs with vodka and let it sit for a week or two. Shake it daily if you want. You can even keep the ingredients in there for all of winter if you wish. I know you can buy most extracts of anything but I always find it far more powerful when I craft my own. Also infused liquor with fruits and sugar can make fantastic Christmas gifts!  

Cooking 

🍳 This is definitely the season for kitchen witches! So much is in season and there are so many gatherings that will happen! Perfect your pie making skills and eat the gifts of the harvest. A lot of spices makes its way into my food in this season to combat colds and also for hotter spices to warm the body up. One spice I associate with warmth as it has actual warming qualities is cinnamon and we know this is cinnamon season. Use it in teas, cooking, baking; you can put the oil in lotions and body creams but be careful to not put it on any sensitive areas or it will BURN. For a more savory version you can cook with black pepper. Black pepper paired with allspice makes a good autumn savory combo. I also love adding maple syrup to some dishes but very discreet amounts. For autumn equinox gatherings I bake BBQ chicken with a BBQ sauce that tastes smokey from a bit of bourbon I sneak in that goes well with its spiciness and the maple syrup goes well with the sweetness of the sauce. Maple syrup in savory-sweet dishes might sound weird at first but if you pair it right with sauces like Japanese eel sauce (and make baked glazed eggplants with that) or BBQ sauce, it will come out great. The trick is to add very little by little and taste as you go.  

🍭 Also as Halloween is coming up its the time for candy! There's so many cool ways to make your own treats from Halloween bark, to fudge (2), to caramel, pretzels, gummies and it will be even more magical if you make it for your friends! (Better to make these for private parties cause it can get suspicious handing it out to trick or treaters). It's also the season for candy coated apples. For the fall equinox each year I make caramel coated apples. I feel like candy coated is better suited for Halloween cause it's glazed and more dramatic appearing. Making a chocolate covered apple can be a great substitute for candy since many people complain that candy covering is hard to bite through. Also chocolate is easy to color and flavor. I love to decorate with colorful fall sprinkles and crushed nuts (if no one is allergic of course) like peanuts and almonds if it's a caramel apple.  

🍺 Along with preserving, this is also brewing season!! Making cider might be a challenge for some but it's incredibly rewarding if you go through with it. Look at your local breweries for equipment and advice. If you're uninterested in doing all the work, supporting their fall brews is just as good! Plus breweries produce some DELICIOUS stuff during the fall. My friends and I have a favorite craft beer store we especially harass during fall. You can also make liquors and liqueurs from harvested fruits. You can either put chopped up fruits and berries with a stick of cinnamon or spices in a jar and top with dark rum, whiskey or vodka depending on how you want to influence the flavor and make an infusion. If you want something sweeter (and quicker to make), get a pan to make simple syrup (1/2cup water to 1cup sugar) and instead of water replace with something like apple cider and as it simmers add cinnamon. You can add the apple spiced syrup to a clean bottle and top with dark rum. The next morning shake it and you will have an apple spice liqueur! I like to make simple syrup with things in season this time of year such as juiced apples or crushed harvested berries and make a berry liqueur with it. It's delicious and can make wonderful hot toddy drinks that taste like pie!!

 ☕️ Its also spiced tea season! Brewing spiced teas to help cold, plus I was told my spiced teas taste like seasonal candles lol. I love making an orange spice tea and an apple tea with dried apple slices. The orange spice is simple. In a pot of simmering water combine orange slices or peeks, cinnamon sticks and star anise and let simmer for a while. You can add brown sugar to the pot of sweeten it in your cup after. For the apple tea I like to put roobois in a pot and let steep or simmer with apple slices and cinnamon. Another popular tea I drink especially the closer to winter we get is ginger spice. In a simmering pot add slices of ginger, cloves and honey. My dad spikes this with Haitian rum if we feel under the weather. It helps sweat out the cold.  

🍂  Crockpot recipes!! Get familiar with the modern cauldron lol!! There's this wonderful post for crockpot recipes for the colder seasons. Stew season is upon us and there's nothing better than coming home on a cold autumn evening to a rich stew of squash and pumpkins and oxtail.  

Spirit Activity 

👻 if you want you could contact spirits easily since spirit activity will heighten. Maybe talk to ancestors since they could be less scary if you want a place to start. If you do NOT want or like spirit activity this would be a great time to set up wards!  

🍁 Fall is also a time of gratitude and reflection. As you go harvesting make sure to leave offerings or give thanks to the trees and plants you harvest from! Even a moment of sending a boost of positive thoughts their way can work. Apparently plants can read and communicate through vibrations and are very sensitive so you saying thanks or sending love and gratefulness can make some plants happy lol.  

Enchanting

🍂 While you change your wardrobe from warm weather to cold weather bless your sweaters and socks to keep you warm. If you have more time and need a boost put your stored away sweaters in the dryer for a few minutes with a very sealed cloth sack of herbs like cinnamon sticks (not powder) or anything you associate with warmth and comfort before exchanging them with your summer clothes in the drawers. 

💄 Also the witchiest season is upon us and if you are into make up and glamours you know this means darker richer lipsticks and richer colors. Enchant your dark lipsticks and make up to make you feel witchier and more powerful! It's the one time of the year you can wear dark burgundy, chocolate Browns and blacks and no one will ask you about it. (Unless if you're an all year round goth 👍🏽) 

🎃 Pumpkin season is here! A wonderful charm for your home is this pumpkin incense lantern. It's beautifully festive and will make your space smell like pie!

 🎃 Also for pumpkin carving you can use magic to make them into wards. Jack-o-lanterns were created to ward away bad spirits. You can take the ancient tradition and make your Jack-o-lanterns ward away negativity, unwanted visitors and unwanted spirits. Some people like black candles for protection so filling them with black tea lights might look extra halloweeny and help with your ward!  

🌑 Also charcoal is good for absorbing negative energy. If these holiday family seasons make you uncomfortable you can make sigils of protection inside of your Jack o lantern or carved incense pumpkin to help with negative tension in the household once family is over or use charcoal and sea salt to make black salt and hide it somewhere in the living room where people congregate or make it into a pretty centerpiece like a candle votive. You can add black glitter or stick in fake plants to make it look like some interesting modern art furniture piece when really it's black salt to help your uncles, aunts and extended cousins to simmer the fuck down. 

 Reflection

🍂  Along with gratitude fall is a time of reflection. Reflect on past issues you faced in the year and how to improve them. Reflect on your craft and how you can improve it and what's not working. Whatever is not good not working in your life right now it's a good time for banishing magic. Once again you can use fall leaves because those leaves are something that's been shed and you can imagine yourself shedding away those things too. Remember to be grateful of those things that are working. You can show gratitude to yourself by blessing acorns and planting them in the earth to grow as a gift back to the earth but also symbolic of those good things to grow. 

Longer post than usual but this is my favorite season and I do a lot during it! Of course feel free to add if you have any other ideas or recipes!

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Magical Days - Times of the Year that I observe

Sabbats Honoring the new season or Midseason by a feast and outdoor activity. Usually followed by a ritual. (I, O, B, L, L, M, S,Y) Midpoints Transitions (active) Time where I focus on the seasonal transition by certain chores and activities to prepare me for the shift. 

Zeniths (passive) Point of where the season feels at it’s height. Time to do activities to enjoy the moment like a week-long festivity.  More casual Esbats Each full moon has it’s themes or points of reflection. I observe them usually through shadow work, or spell work. Mostly just self reflect, do a tarot spread or take a magical bath. It depends on the moon and the current sign it’s in. 

Double Days Observing the power of numerology and the effect it has on these days. Usually do a spell to attract or banish something towards my life in the power of that number. 

Birthdays Birthdays in our culture are already magical. We pick a dessert of our choosing and blow out candles to make a wish. Do spells to attract things of your desire and bring good fortune to your new year. For friends I like to pick a candle of their favorite color (I have all of my close friends favorite colors memorized lol) and do a blessing for them. 

Other Holidays Christmas Bless gifts or artwork on cards that you wish to give to friends and loved ones. This is generally just a magical day of love and togetherness, even if you don’t have your own loving support group if you have one person you care about its nice to send good energy as gifts. 

New Years Cast spells to attract what you desire or put the odds in your favor to achieve what you want for the new year. This also falls on the 1st double day which represents inspiration and bringing new things to life. Reflect on the new year’s world number and what that might entail for what’s to come.  Midsummer Point where the days begin to get slightly darker as we enter the increasingly colder part of the year. Witches are said to be on their way to meetings and fairies are causing mischief. I like to make a magical fire (either with sparklers or chemicals that make different colored flames) and cast wishes into it and drink colorful sparkling cocktails and just generally be outside to honor the first early sunset of the year.  Valentines Day A crafty day for self-love bubble baths, home made sweets packed with blessings and spells for friends and casting love spells. 

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Imbolc/Winter CrossQuarter Personal Correspondences

I celebrate the sabbats from a perspective that honors nature and personal transitions in relation to where you live. My winter crossquarter is more of a midwinter celebration. I’m from NJ and end of January, February 1st is the middle of winter. Imbolc represents the marking point of the middle of winter, the days getting longer and on that note the transition into spring. It's the beginning of the cleansing cycle which I explain here (my transition focuses in between the sabbats). It's also one of the last chances of me eating good fatty wintery foods before I start my personal cleansing cycle for Spring (The body cleanse begins in early rainy March).

One the eve of this Sabbat I light white candles and clean the hell out of my space. I dedust everything and let like fifteen minutes of wintery air in to cycle through the stale house air. On the day a personal tradition is to take care of my body through a scrub and a milky bath, eating a hearty meal (usually since its just me and my parents I make something small like shepards pie) and burning bay leaves for wishes to come true in the spring and habits to break.

Imbolc

January 31st - February 1st

Colors: Primary:

  • White For cleansing, also midwinter
  • Pale Green for potential and freshness. Also the color of lambs ear.
  • secondary:
  • Cream, silver

Crystals:

  • Smokey Quartz
  • Clear Quartz
  • White Opal
  • Any others that aid in cleansing or new beginnings

Herbs and Plants:

  • Snowdrops For goodluck and guidance. The first flower to sprout for spring.
  • Bay Leaves To make wishes. They are also cleansing for the body.
  • Eucalyptus Cleansing. Very wintery looking too.
  • Sage Cleansing too but avoid white sage.
  • Lamb’s Ear Soft and healing
  • Silvery Wormwood (Satin Mound) Its very wintery looking and is beautiful in garlands
  • Mugwort  cleanses the air and the womb
  • Juniper Cleansing and healing. Used to be used in healing medicine (how Gin was founded)

Animals:

  • Lamb, Ewe, Ram, Sheep The etymology of Imbolc is said to mean ‘in the belly’ from old Irish and refers to the pregnancy of Ewes. It's a time they are lactating because they will give birth in the spring. 
  • Groundhogs (and other burrowing animals) They symbolize the thawing of winter to come and the burrowing animals emerging from their slumber. Groundhogs are essential to some habitats because they make burrows that other animals find shelter in for the winter.
  • Moths: In an endearing yet pesky way. Imbolc is a time for to clean the home and chase out the critters like moths that try to hide from winter's deathly chill in the house. Also because moths love light and are attracted to all of the illuminated candle decorations. (Like how with halloween there are decorations with creepy crawler bugs because they are spooky, not necessarily because they are positive. Moths remind me that I need to clean).

Decorations:

  • Candles and white lanterns to honor the lengthening of the days and the return of the sun.
  • Ice lanterns The same reason as above and also it is midwinter and cold enough to make cool icy decorations.
  • wool In the form of doilies, throw rugs, blankets, sweaters, for warmth and for sheep. For alternatives there is cotton.
  • besoms to symbolize cleaning the home and sweeping away negativity and bad habits. You can make smaller herbal besoms of mugwort, eucalyptus, lambs ear and wormwood to help with banishing. 
  • Felt Sheep something cute for the altar. 
  • Chimes they cleanse the air 

Instruments/Music: Chimes, like metal wind chimes, glockenspiels, things that sound like cleansing the air and sparkling icicles dripping to a melt.

Fragrances/Incense:

  • Juniper
  • Mugwort
  • Rosemary
  • Sage
  • Eucalyptus
  • Tea Tree
  • Spearmint
  • Bay Leaves
  • Milk and Honey
  • Vanilla
  • Earl Grey
  • Dairy Before modern inventions and supermarkets it was difficult to store food in the winter, so when livestock began to lactate it provided a source. Not everyone is fond of dairy for multiple reasons so this can easily be substituted with oat dairy products which I find suitable to celebrate winter and native to the land, and of which you can make a lot of delicious dishes with! Dishes I make every year usually involve cream and cheese of some kind. (Usually a cheese cake).
  • Cayenne Pepper Since life is stirring in this midpoint, the saying for Imbolc often goes that there is 'fire in the womb' of nature. I appreciate the kind of spiciness that is cayenne because its a warming spiciness instead of pins and needles and makes your body feel warm which is perfect for cold weather.
  • Winter Vegetables like parsnips and winter cabbage because they are in season. Potatoes of course because potatoes are always in season. 
  • Cleansing Herbs like: Rosemary, sage, juniper and cloves. Earl Grey is not necessarily cleansing but it reminds me of winter and is a wake-up kind of flowery tea. It also tastes lovely with milk and honey which is within theme. 
  • creamy mashed potatoes or shepards pie to represent the snow and thawing snow over the stirring earth. I tend to make the meat portion in shepards pie kind of spicy to symbolize the fire in the womb again.
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I don't want to post another emo pagan post but I get pretty depressed when a sabbath is coming around and I have NO ONE to celebrate with. Fuck even if I had 1 other pagan friend I'd make it poppin as hell. We would go to the local park and sit under the magnolia tree and I would bring fairy food and we could make flower crowns and read cards and blow scented bubbles and burn colorful candles. But unfortunately I'm surrounded by mundane muggles. I'm so sad.

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