Shit, are people really taking “men get pegged” as a serious measure of whether a guy is a Good Boyfriend or not?
I assure you earnestly. If your girlfriend tries to pressure you into doing that or insist that you must be afraid of being ~emasculated~ if you don’t want to, it is best to Throw The Whole Woman Away.
In general, like, what sexual acts you are or are not personally comfortable with has exactly fuck all to do with how feminist or progressive you are or whatever. Ffs.
It is a delightful meme but absolutely not an excuse to forget that men, also, get to make the rules about their bodies! and that is final!
pressuring your partner into doing sexual acts they don't want to is driving off a cliff straight into rape territory, so don't do it for the meme, don't do it at all
It is never, ever okay to pressure someone to do something sexual that they don’t want to. For any reason. At any time. (On a related note, it’s also never okay to use someone not wanting to participate in a given sex act to invalidate someone’s sexuality. e.g. “Well if you were REALLY X, then you would do Y.”) Your desires are not more important than another person’s bodily autonomy. Ever.