Dear Future Girlfriend,
I love you, that’s all.
Love,
Me
Dear Future Girlfriend,
It never fails that the second I sit down to get my research and course work done, you pop up demanding my attention. Dear one, you're going to have to learn to let me be productive sometimes. I try my hardest not to break out into a grin when I see you slowly peer your gorgeous eyes over the top of my laptop. You're the single most adorable person in the world and I know the second I glance up to catch you staring at me, I've lost. You're so ridiculous and I love you so much for that. You constantly remind me that I don't need to be so serious all the time and that I am worth more than just my intellect. You're my safe space to let me goofy side out.
I can't wait until the day what I am writing becomes a reality. It's rather heartbreaking to look up and see either bookshelves of the library, the walls of my lab or the walls of my apartment. I have dreams of you, but nothing I can touch. Until then, I will just keep burying myself in work hoping that maybe the random chance I look up, you'll be there.
Forever yours,
Love,
Me
Submitted by anonymous
Dear Future Girlfriend,
I find myself doing nothing productive these days. I spend my days and nights in my room, with my computer and my single bed. I either surf the internet for hours, trying to find out if you exist at all or not, or I simply lay down and cry out of loneliness and depression. At other times, when I run out of tears, I cook myself something to eat, play some music, or play some computer games. I know I'm not exactly the handsome alpha hunk from the movies that chicks go crazy drooling over. But, I'm me. I'm a kiddo.
No matter what I do, I think what it would be like with you by my side. Cooking my food is okay, but eating it all alone without rubbing some on your face just doesn't feel right. Playing a computer game is okay, but playing single-player, all alone, doesn't give me the chance to compete with you and allow you to win just to see you smile. Sleeping in my single bed is okay, but waking up to an empty house makes me wish I could sleep all day. You're in my dreams, you're in my fantasies, and you're in me. I guess I'm just gonna have to be content with that.
Love,
Me.
Submitted by anonymous
Dear Future Girlfriend
I remember how depressing my birthday was this year. No friends, no family, no parties, no gifts, no wishes, just like every year. I turned 19 this year, which is 3 years past the year by which I was confident I would've found you.
I spent my entire birthday in my bed, replaced the whole day with my imagination.
"Hey boo, wake up", you said, as my eyes opened ever so slowly in the fresh morning that truly belonged to me. Your blonde hair touched my face, as my gaze fell upon your loving eyes. Little did I know that my eyes had to close again for a while, for your lips met mine and I knew that there couldn't possibly be a better way to start the special day dedicated to celebrating my existence. "I don't wanna get out of bed yet", I say with my sleepy voice, half closed eyes and untidy morning hair. "But it's past 10:00. I know someone likes cupcakes very much", you say, trying to tempt me out of bed. "Yes, and that someone loves you more than anything else in the world. Come here and lay down with me, just for a few minutes", I say. You ask me to scooch over as you lay down beside me with your left hand in my right hand, and your head against my chest. Our fingers lock, and we let our hearts do the talking. While the romantic feeling lasts for a few minutes, you get up and pull me out of the bed along with you all of a sudden. "Don't take too long in the shower, or I'll eat your cupcakes too", you say, before kissing my cheek and handing me a towel. I brush my teeth, floss, shave, take a shower, wash my hair, and make sure I look as amazing as I can, before I get out of the shower and dress up for the big day. I barely get out of the bedroom before you find me there and say, "There's my birthday boy. You handsome devil!" You grab my hand and lead me to the table, where my delicious breakfast is ready, along with the cupcakes. We eat together and talk about us, about whatever we have done together before. The conversation had way to many "Remember when"s and "Someday, we will"s. But it also consisted of a lot of "I love you"s, which made the cupcakes seem not nearly as sweet. We do the dishes together, and I spend most of the time just looking at you, cleaning them up so sincerely. I find that cute in a lot of ways, but you figure that out when you find me looking at you and say, "The dishes won't do themselves mister" in a playful manner. We spend a while after that playing video games together. You wink at me just to distract me while we play that car racing game. Losing that game against you didn't matter one bit, for you were by my side. We spend a lot of time tickling each other and making out on the couch. Then you and I sit in front of the TV and eat our lunch together while watching "The Fault in Our Stars". I enjoy eating the chicken wings that you made for me, knowing how much I love devouring them. But that is nearly not as amazing as the feeling I get, knowing that I won't ever lose you, like Hazel lost Augustus. Once we're done eating, we cuddle on the couch and finish the rest of the movie. Then, we do the dishes, just like before. After finishing the chore, we engage in board games and card games, where you try to cheat your way into winning using my weaknesses, namely your winks, kisses, flirtation etc. Every moment of the day feels warm and magical. And just when I thought things couldn't get any better, you grab me by the hand, take me to the living room and say, "Now close your eyes, no peeking." I ask questions again and again, till you shut me up with a kiss and make me close my eyes. After a few seconds, you tell me open them. I open them to find an acoustic guitar right in front of me, on a guitar stand, looking as new as a new born baby. "What, you didn't think I was gonna celebrate your birthday without giving you a present, did you?" You knew how much I love music, and how happy it made me to see that guitar. "Happy birthday lover boy", you say as you hug me and wipe away my tears of happiness. We draw a heart with our names in it, right above the sound hole. Once we're done, you kiss me on the forehead and say, "Come on, play something for me. Anything." I pick up the guitar, tune it and sing some of our favorites, as you harmonize along with me. Time flies by during that jam session, and we don't even realize when it's dinner time. "Oh my, it's already time for dinner. Go to our room and change into a suit. I'll change in the other room and we'll leave." I get excited and wear my finest suit. I come out and my jaw drops when I find you wearing a beautiful red dress. "Hey there. Have you seen my girlfriend anywhere? She was supposed to take me out for dinner" I say playfully, before ruining the only piece of makeup you wear, your red lipstick. You wrap your hands around my arms, as we walk towards the dining table. "Welcome to the best restaurant in town. I've reserved our table already", you say smiling. I pull your chair out for you to sit, cause "that's what gentlemen do". Lol. We then enjoy the amazing candle lit dinner that you prepared for me. The pasta really tasted so much better when you fed me with your fork. We spend our time eating, talking and laughing. As our romantic dinner ends, you head towards the kitchen, before I say, "We've already done that twice today. Let's save the dishes for tomorrow." "As my baby wants", you say, as we go to our room and change out of our dinner clothes. We turn on the air conditioner and lay down in our bed together. We spend time talking, kissing, cuddling and snuggling together. After a while, you yawn and say, "I'm tired. It was a great day. Goodnight baby", before turning off the lights. "Goodnight baby", I say, as I kiss my world on her forehead and watch her go to sleep.
But none of this actually happened. This is just what I played and replayed in my head over and over again for the entire day. Yes, you do not really exist. But no, there's no one else I'd rather spend my birthday with, not even myself. Even though it was just in my head, I had fun. I can't wait for my next birthday. Take care of yourself boo. I love you.
Love,
Me.
Submitted by anonymous
Dear Future Girlfriend,
I thought I had found you, two years of a relationship and we were moving in together. But then this girl left me over a text. I'm not angry or sad anymore. There's too much hate, anger and sadness in this world. I don't want to contribute to that. She told me she never loved me as much as I loved her so I'm hoping you will love me as much. I will give you my heart and soul so please be kind and careful. I will love you wholly. Please find me soon. Love, Me
Dear Future Girlfriend,
It has been a long time since I've written to you and every day without you has been boring and lonesome. Even the many friend I have managed to earn throughout this year do not fill the hole that your absence creates in my life.
I want you to know that whenever I'm alone all I picture is kissing, making out during sunset, but you never have a certain form, you never are the same looking woman you were the last time and yet the feeling you give me is always the same, the feeling that I am with the most beautiful ever to exist.
In my dreams you make me feel desired and loved as much as I want to make you, and more than it saddens me to think of myself without you, it saddens of me to think of you with someone who won't treat you with the love and passion you deserve.
I know that it might take a very long time for us to get together, but know that when we will I am going to make you feel like you were the only girl on this planet by loving you just as much as I want you to love me.
Hope to find you soon.
Love,
Me
Submitted by anonymous
Dear Future Girlfriend,
I hope some day I can be truly happy. My heart is broken and I need you to swoop in and make me see that my last relationship was just a stepping stone to get to you. Is it so hard to find someone who wants to drink beer and rum and watch scary movies while cuddling and kissing. 🤦🏼♀️ So if your out there. Il be waiting. 😊
Love, Me
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Dear Future Girlfriend,
Come on dude, it’s been 4 years and I haven’t met you yet
I submitted two notes here 4 years ago being all corny and cheesy and god. I was looking through my old posts and I found those notes in this website. Fuck, I don’t know what’s taking so long, I’ve been dreaming about you all this time, I’ve been daydreaming about us finally being together. I’ve changed, I’m not the same girl I was 4 years ago submitting that dumb post, I’m different now, and I know it’s not easy to find you and you might not even exist but honey, I listen to these songs everyday and somehow they make think about you, it’s just weird that I haven’t seen your face but when I listen to these precious songs, I feel so in love with you, with the idea of finally meeting you and spend the night listening to these songs while cuddling or making love. I’m so in love with you even though I haven’t met you. I’m sure you’re this beautiful girl who’s gonna make me happy after all the pain I’ve been through. Please just hurry up, I do not want to feel lonely anymore. I was made to be a loving wife and I’m waiting for you. The song I’m talking about is: My Kind Of Woman. - Mac DeMarco.
Love, Me
Dear Future Girlfriend
God, I love thinking about you.
Whenever I’m alone I imagine meeting you, over and over again.
The situation and context change but you stay the same, the same charming, sweet, beautiful and a a little shy girl I always dreamed of.
And every time after I imagine meeting you there are only few thing I remember: the way you smiled at me, the way I made you laugh and the way you kissed me goodbye.
Dear future girlfriend. I want to stop imagining you, but bot because I don’t enjoy it, I do quite much, but because I would enjoy much better meeting you in real life.
I really hope that when I finally meet you everything will be just like I imagined it, that includes the way you smile, the way I make you laugh and the way you kiss me goodbye.
Love,
Me.
Submitted by anonymous
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@anon1 - Nope, it is for anyone who wants to write a letter to their future gf :) It just so happens that the original admins are LGBTIQA+
@thatotherwinchester - Thank you :)
@anon2 - Thank you for your lovely message!
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@zsmmm - https://notestomyfutureboyfriend.tumblr.com ;)
@anon1 - Thanks anon :)
@anon2 - Hopefully it’s been posted! If you haven’t seen it, please feel free to resubmit.
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@anon1 - Thanks for your message anon. I also get mixed feelings when I read all the submissions! All the feeeeeels!!!!
@anon2 - Good idea ;)
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@floatinginthiscosmicjacuzzi - Awww! Thank you for sharing your story!! :)
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@anon1 - Heheh I am sure L will find this message very flattering :)
@anon2 - Naww whoever’s post you read would probably be blushing to this message!
@anon3 - Another L admirer! Naww hopefully you have found your other-half!
Dear Future Girlfriend,
I wish you knew how long I've waited to meet someone like you. I hope you won't mind that I'm touch-starved, or that I have autism and cp. I also hope you won't mind that I'm demisexual and polyam in addition to being a wlw. Please don't mind when I'm clingy or take it too personally when I pay more attention to Alan Cumming. I may seem fickle on the surface, but I'm really not. Regardless of my being polyam, I'm loyal to a fault. In return, I promise to love and support you as best u can. Love, Me