If you have that much of a problem with the show and it's actors quit watching. My honest opinion is just give it time to blow over. I don't think jared meant destiel would ruin spn because it's a gay couple, I think he meant adding romance on that scale in would change the show I to something it's not. The actors all say that the show is about love between brothers not lovers and that's all I believe he meant. I don't think he was trying to insult lgbtq people.
*sigh* Are we gonna do this? Okay we're gonna do this.
I don't think he meant adding romance of that scale would change the show into something it's not. I think he meant specifically adding destiel to the show would change it into something it's not. There have been romantic story lines before and they haven't taken over. And some of them have been great arcs. None of those relationships have "ruined" the show. So why would Destiel? People always assume that I want Destiel to overthrow everything else. I have said it many times before and I will say it again, I don't even need it to be a requited thing. Where it appeared they were going with Cas? That Cas had a thing for Dean? Would be literally all I need. Acknowledgment. I don't need a romance. I don't need Dean feeling the same way. Just the writers for once acknowledging what they've set up all on their fucking own. And not shoving it under the rug when the queer fans aren't in their vicinity.
And yeah yeah. I get it. The show is about "da brothers," about their abusive, unhealthily codependent relationship, and somehow this is "love." But more and more I hate how the boys treat each other. And their small moments of decency don't makeup for the shit of the past. The first seasons of the show actually involve a decent brother relationship. But shit has gotten twisted. So when people throw that excuse at me "it's just about the love between the brothers that's it," I roll my eyes. Because first of all, the show was really originally about American horror stories and the (shocker) SUPERNATURAL. And then they realized the potential they had with the brother's arc and MADE A SHIFT. They shifted the direction of the show. The have often shifted the directions of characters and story lines so that excuse is pretty dull and ineffective if we're honest here.
Also, you're right. I can just stop watching. I am toying with the idea of doing just that. But I'm caught up wishing the show could be what it was in the past or what I imagined it could be. I get attached to characters. I get attached to stories. And I love Supernatural. I truly do. I stick with stuff. Most of the time I stick with stuff til the very end. Hell I let Dexter drag me along for SEASONS just hoping it would get better again. (Hint: it didn't) The series finale of that show made me scream with anger. Because it was shit. But I loved Dexter. I loved the characters and the concept. I couldn't abandon it.
So it's a personality thing for me. I'm not the kind of person to let stuff go. I'm not. And I'm sorry if that bothers you, but -- actually no I'm not. I'm not sorry. Deal with it. If you don't like it, how about you don't go seeking posts in the Destiel tag or browsing through MY blog.
Also, considering I track the activity on my blog, you're not fooling me bucko. I know only one computer has logged onto my "ask" page in the past 24 hours. Only one. So I know you're the same person who sent me that, probably bogus, ask about crying yourself to sleep over Destiel. Go ahead and keep trying to fuck with me, but I'm not an idiot. You're a troll. You're trying to stir up trouble, and you have failed. Now move along. Better luck next time ya dip.