#but because i wanted to know what it was like – @not-the-very-button on Tumblr

fuck the idea that fat girls are only seen as hot when they have lingerie, a face full of makeup on and a sultry expression on their face like the level of femininity fat girls have to perform to not be seen as ugly is phenomenal

#lol #yep #which is one of the reason I kind of 'rebeled' when I first came out #and chopped all my hair off #and started wearing men's clothes and sports bras #not because it's who I was #but because I wanted to know what it was like #to NOT be feminine all the time #and to not feel obligated to femininity #in the end I learned a lot about myself #and I find that I fit somewhere in between #I'm not a lipstick lesbian #but I'm not super butch either #and that's okay #I don't have to femme it up just because I'm fat #I'll wear no makeup and men's t-shirts if I want