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(Good?) old days

I am such a huge fan of kindness. Everyone be kind. Be crazy kind. Be kind even when you don’t feel like it. Be kind in the morning, be kind late at night, be kind like it is the only thing you were put on earth to do. You will be amazed at how beautiful kindness makes you.

T H I S ❤

Fuck this bitch. She’s “upset” w the gay community??????? Umm wtf its not my fault or any other Gay man’s fault she’s ugly and looks like she has aids like????????

#IM SCREAMING THAT COMMENT LITERALLY PROVES HER POINT

I’m sorry, but I’ve had more verbal shit flung at me by cis-gay men than I can count. I don’t even go to pride anymore because I get panic-attacks over what could be said to me. I’ve had cis-gay men tell me (while walking down the damn street/getting groceries/whatever) to lose weight, insult my clothing, tell me my hair looks like shit, and call me a “breeder” because I was holding hands with my partner. Not to mention the insults hurled at me about my bisexuality (“Bitch, you’re faking it!”). So, yeah, some cis-gay men are misogynists because they are MISOGYNISTIC FUCKING MEN. All men can choose to be a misogynistic asshole or not, it doesn’t matter what your sexuality is.  I’m actually taking a human sexuality course right now, and I was shocked at the assumptions one cis-gay man was making about women. He thought that women who are on their periods are “disgusting,” and “smelled.” Whenever a slide of a vagina was shown for anatomy purposes he had to moan, and groan about how gross vaginas are. I’m sorry, but that misogynistic attitude is damaging to women.  The abuse that we hurl at each other needs to stop.  TLDR: It doesn’t matter what your sexuality is, you can still be a misogynistic asshole. 

I hate to say it, but she’s 100% right. We need to clean up our community. We need to be standing with women and not against them.

i’ve had cis gay dudes touch me inappropriately because they think they are allowed to due to being “non threatening” because they’re gay so like yeah. cis gays need to fucking step up on their not being misogynistic trash policies.

Pink news is the white gay site and I can tell you so many gay men act all ooh i would never fuck a vagina and all sorts of cissexism and sassy black woman and you almost wonder if white cis gay dudes get the white cis part

When my [trans] boyfriend was in his college’s lgbt+ community stuff, a daily occurrence would be a bunch of cis gay guys (who know my boyfriend’s trans) do nothing but loudly talk about how vaginas are “disgusting” and do nothing but be completely obnoxious. Albeit, this moment is an example of cissexism and transphobia, the point to make is that cis gay guys are some of the worst people when it comes to treating women and trans people (men, women, nb, etc.) like absolute shit.

"she’s ugly and looks like she has aids" stay classy

I totally agree with venomousswan. The way you talk to other people is not defined by sexuality. And at the same time your sexuality and the prejudice you have to endure because of it does NOT give you the right to judge and hurt others.