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4 things people should know about leaving toxic relationships

This includes friendships, lovers, and so on.

Most toxic people will not let you leave the relationship without strife. They will use fear tactics, humiliation, threats…so on. So, when leaving the toxic relationship–always prepare yourself. I often say that a toxic relationship is like having a leech on you. It will hurt, but you must be prepared. They may expose any secrets or information you told them in confidence. Some can even become physically abusive or even threat to commit suicide.
As a result of leaving, a huge chunk of your self-confidence, respect, and self-love have been stolen from them or left behind with the relationship. After all, a leech will still have your blood even after you part with it. It will be natural to feel tired, sad, and hopeless if you find that you feel that way. Leaving these relationships takes a lot of energy.
It’s normal if you feel mistrustful of others, full of guilt/shame, and closed off from others. This is especially true if your toxic person belittled, shamed, or guilted you often. Most toxic people have a habit of trying to use fear to manipulate and keep you around them. And now, you must recover from that abuse.
Recovery will take time to rebuild all that you lost in the relationship. Leaving a toxic relationship requires much more mental energy and time, so does healing from the relationship. There is no time limit you have to recover from the toxic relationship–it is solely based on yourself and your needs, no one else’s. Use this time to rebuild yourself and grow closer to yourself.

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4 things people should know about leaving toxic relationships

This includes friendships, lovers, and so on.

Most toxic people will not let you leave the relationship without strife. They will use fear tactics, humiliation, threats…so on. So, when leaving the toxic relationship–always prepare yourself. I often say that a toxic relationship is like having a leech on you. It will hurt, but you must be prepared. They may expose any secrets or information you told them in confidence. Some can even become physically abusive or even threat to commit suicide.
As a result of leaving, a huge chunk of your self-confidence, respect, and self-love have been stolen from them or left behind with the relationship. After all, a leech will still have your blood even after you part with it. It will be natural to feel tired, sad, and hopeless if you find that you feel that way. Leaving these relationships takes a lot of energy.
It’s normal if you feel mistrustful of others, full of guilt/shame, and closed off from others. This is especially true if your toxic person belittled, shamed, or guilted you often. Most toxic people have a habit of trying to use fear to manipulate and keep you around them. And now, you must recover from that abuse.
Recovery will take time to rebuild all that you lost in the relationship. Leaving a toxic relationship requires much more mental energy and time, so does healing from the relationship. There is no time limit you have to recover from the toxic relationship–it is solely based on yourself and your needs, no one else’s. Use this time to rebuild yourself and grow closer to yourself.

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how coming out went for me.

also just so you know, i never threatened suicide, i don’t know where she got that from.

luckily i went in knowing that this would be the outcome, and really, i’m okay. my dad is the most supportive human being in the world and i’ve been staying with him since november. within the next week or two, i’ll be moving in with my partner and his family (who are also incredibly supportive and sweet).

finding health insurance and a car will be a pain, but it was worth it. the most toxic person in my life has been removed and i feel so much better now that i’m able to be myself after years of hiding and fearing for my security.

moral of the story: sometimes people who claim to love you will reject you because of who you are. but i promise you that life will go on and you will be much happier without them.

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90s info brochures are generally painfully corny but this one is perty on point

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This would be the only thing in recorded history that I would take seriously while printed in Comic Sans.

Wow! I think I posted this originally over a year ago?most successful post I’ve put up I believe! Also it is comic sans I believe because it is the text style easiest to read for people with certain disabilities.

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1. If you don’t like the way he kisses you, you won’t like the way he fucks you. Get up and leave. 2. If he won’t go down on you, but expects you to go down on him, laugh. Get up and leave. 3. If you don’t want to do something and he doesn’t respect that, slap him round the face. Get up and leave. 4. If he isn’t okay with the imperfections on your skin, if he says they turn him off, get up and leave. 5. If you don’t want to shave your legs and he thinks that’s disgusting and refuses to touch them, get up and leave. 6. If he doesn’t see your body as a masterpiece, as a complete work of art, get up and leave. 7. If he makes you feel uncomfortable about any part of your body, get up and leave.

Get up and leave // E.E - be-fearless-brave-and-kind (via perfect)

*also applies to females (i.e. if she is like this, get up and leave)* (via angryhijabi)

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