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@nekobakaz / nekobakaz.tumblr.com

Hi!! I'm Corina! Check out my About Page! Autistic, disabled, artist, writer, geek. Asexual. nekomics.ca .banner by vastderp, icon by lilac-vode
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Hi. Uh I just saw the 'you might be autistic' post and well...how do u distinguish ADHD and Austism? It feels like it should be easy but for me its not. Bc ive had a suspicious about me being somewhere on the autistic scale, but at the same time, I did an evaluation at age 11.I got an ADHD diagnosis. And a lot of what would say im autistic could be excused by my adhd. So i just feel split...I kind of want to try and look into it, but at the same time im probably just silly and its my ADHD. Tips?

Hi! 

As a neurodivergent peer, I found that post relevant to destigmatize autism as well as the misconceptions around its diagnosis, but I’m not autistic myself nor I have ADHD or authority on the matter so I couldn’t say.

I’ll recommend saying hi to @iamatinyowl as I know she is both autistic and well versed in mental health subjects. She is also a very cool person, you’ll adore her. She could give you a better orientation on your concerns. 

Finally, I must say that no concern about your health or identity overall is silly. 

Thank you so much for writing!

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nekobakaz

Hi! I wanted to pop in; it is possible to be both ADHD and autistic. At the same time, it is possible to be one or the other and have similar features. It’s why ADHD is a cousin.

Also, when I was first diagnosed as autistic, back in 2002, I had some people try to convince me that the diagnosis was wrong. That somehow my ADHD made me "only look like [I'm] autistic". I have heard countless stories of people, at various ages, being denied/mis- and partially diagnosed by professionals, for any number of stereotypes. I know that a chunk of the autistic community doesn't put much stock in a paper diagnosis; it's sometimes too inaccessible to get. So we're very accepting of self-diagnosis. If it turns out you're wrong about being autistic, that's fine! You're a cousin, so you're welcome to know what neurodiversity is all about.

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Anonymous asked:

Hi. Uh I just saw the 'you might be autistic' post and well...how do u distinguish ADHD and Austism? It feels like it should be easy but for me its not. Bc ive had a suspicious about me being somewhere on the autistic scale, but at the same time, I did an evaluation at age 11.I got an ADHD diagnosis. And a lot of what would say im autistic could be excused by my adhd. So i just feel split...I kind of want to try and look into it, but at the same time im probably just silly and its my ADHD. Tips?

Hi! 

As a neurodivergent peer, I found that post relevant to destigmatize autism as well as the misconceptions around its diagnosis, but I’m not autistic myself nor I have ADHD or authority on the matter so I couldn’t say.

I’ll recommend saying hi to @iamatinyowl as I know she is both autistic and well versed in mental health subjects. She is also a very cool person, you’ll adore her. She could give you a better orientation on your concerns. 

Finally, I must say that no concern about your health or identity overall is silly. 

Thank you so much for writing!

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nekobakaz

Hi! I wanted to pop in; it is possible to be both ADHD and autistic. At the same time, it is possible to be one or the other and have similar features. It's why ADHD is a cousin.

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Do you support minor self diagnosis?

I started cracking my knuckles in fifth grade. My parents asked me why, and I told them it made the pain go away. My parents told me that I was too young for my joints to hurt, and that I would ruin them if I kept cracking them.

By the time was fourteen or fifteen and entering high school, I hadn’t stopped cracking my knuckles. The hurt more, and the relief was more. I was convinced that I had arthritis.

My parents told me that I was too young to have arthritis.

Fast forward thirty seven years when my joints take a dive and I cannot even get out of bed on some days. I take chemo therapy pills twice a week, and I have two injections of chemotherapy ever four months. I have to take two medications every day just to manage the pain the chemotherapy doesn’t cover.

This at least allows me to get out of bed and on most days it allows me to go to school. It doesn’t make the pain go away, and on bad days I want to cry it gets so bad.

The diagnosis? Early Onset Rheumatoid Arthritis.

It went unchecked for twenty five years, my immune system eating away at my joints like a buffet even though I wanted to go to the doctor from day one.

If I had gone to the doctor and I had been wrong - they found nothing - well, we would have been out a few bucks for the doctor’s visit.If I was right - and I was right - I would have been treated for 20 years.

If I had gone to the doctor on my insistence that I had arthritis at fifteen, I would not be in pain today. This would have been treated twenty years go.

Do I support minor self diagnosis?

Yes. Absolutely.

I would rather a minor self diagnose and be wrong than a minor ignore their body and suffer for 20 years like me. No one is harmed by listening to a minor and taking their concerns seriously. But that minor might be harmed for the rest of their life you ignore them.

My choice is always to listen to the minors about their bodies.

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Installation by Jordyn Taylor

“Bound”

“Often the language used to describe a person and their wheelchair is a reflection of ableist views that comes with negative connotations, like the term “wheelchair bound”. This suggests the person is being tied down in some way. As if using a wheelchair is limiting a person and their experiences. The idea that a person is confined to a wheelchair is seeded in this idea that it is something that holds us back. It’s not the stairs to get into the school that prevents us from accessing an education, it’s the wheelchair. It’s not the stairs to get into the subway station that prevents us from reaching our destination of choice, it’s the wheelchair. The wheelchair is always what’s viewed as being at fault for our limitations when the fact of the matter is, our environment and the lack of thought that goes into creating space for a person using a wheelchair, is what limits our freedom. The wheelchair itself is the opposite of a limitation because when you take it away what then? Using a wheelchair is nothing short of liberating. It gives a person the power to move yet it does not overpower the person using it. By no means does it hold them down, it does not bind them. The power lies in the hands of its user. It’s the wheelchair user that ultimately dominates and takes control of the wheelchair”

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If anyone ever tells you that you’re an inspiration for being disabled…you are. You are an inspiration. You’re the most inspirational person in the world. And if I was you, I’d put that endless inspiration to good use. Form a small cult. Turn it into a religion with you at the center. Have people worship the ground that you walk/wheel on. Have them build statues in your honor. Run for presidency. Work your way up. Become the supreme dictator of the world. Because you are so inspirational.

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Anonymous asked:

Whoa gross! U dresed up as tank girl? What on Earth for? I thought disabled folks were supposed to be innocnet and sweete all the time. Why are u tryin to be sexy? Made me feel so uncomfortable

Well anon buckle your panties you are in for a huge surprise! Disabled people? Are human too! *gasp* I know shocking shocking but sometimes? I like to be sexy and I like to dress as sexy characters.

I also regularly have sex with my husband because I am disabled yes but I am still a human being and sex is fun.

I don’t have to be sweet and innocent because I’m disabled! That is absurd!

I’m not sorry you were offended, you need to realize that disabled people are not here to be your sweet little inspiration. We are human and we have sex, look sexy, get drunk, go to bars and everything abled people do also. We can also be assholes and run the fuck over ignorant assed people like you.

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#Disabled Women belong in Women’s History Month

March is Women’s History Month and I see support for women everywhere but yet very few posts adressing DISABLED WOMEN. 

Let’s fix this. Let’s flood the internet with selfies, if they somehow portray your physical or mental illness/disability, better. 

P.S. I don’t know if there´s a preexistent hashtag for this, if there is please lmk and let’s join.

Note: I just changed the gif for Frida Kahlo’s. There are no gifs featuring disabled women. And OF COURSE TRANS WOMEN ARE WOMEN. 

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annieelainey

The Future is Accessible!!

End the segregation between non-disabled & disabled folx #EndAbleism #EndDisabilityErasure

Include disabled women, disabled PoC, disabled LGBT+, disabled people of diverse faiths, disabled immigrants, and disabled chronically & terminally ill!

The revolution must be accessible and it must protect those whose lives are at stake! For some their survival is their activism! Accessibility now!

[Photo: black and white full body portrait of Annie in her wheelchair wearing an all black ensemble and reflective sunglasses, wearing fingerless black pleather gloves as she adjusts them. Text reads, “The Future is Accessible”]

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