napping-sapphic reblogged
Trans women are ALWAYS included when I’m referring to women
Popping in because i want all of you to know that my most effective coping method recently has been that whenever i start spiraling i send a meme to my best friend about how much i love them and both the 1) reminder of how great they are and how lucky i am to have them in my life and 2) the time it takes to find a sufficient meme almost always manages to pull me out of it so highly recommend
#have i mentioned that i love my best friend because i DOOOOO#also sometimes they send me one back :)#it’s currently the most effective thing at making me feel okay again :)#idk maybe it’s kind of simple or obvious#but i just never thought to or had the will to replace the panic and depression with love🤷♀️#but like my best friend is GREAT and i’d so much rather think about that and appreciate that over all of the other noise#just like i finally feel like my brain has a safe spot again and i am so very thankful for it because i was going crazy#life’s just been so difficult recently and im appreciating the little bright spots more than ever i guess#and also my best friend is great and i love them and they are so so SO important to me :) <3!!!!#and i HAD to share that#very important to be crazy about your friends i think😤😤
Whereeeee is a partner to compliment the new comfy outfit i threw together when i need them
#im sufferingggggg#offensive the way im not dating anyone like wtf#i look comfy af AND cute rn and yet???? no compliments😔#insane#like no one is obsessed with me???? I’M not obsessed with anybody else??????????#no one’s calling me to talk about random stuff every night??? doing hobbies with me????????#letting me stare at them for 12 hours straight????????#awful horrible i want a refund😒
Anonymous asked:
as a butch I ASSURE you, we are also blushing intensely whenever a beautiful woman talks to us.
AGSJFKGLH absolutely NEED to up my ability to make eye contact with butches because apparently yall DO blush and i have GOT to see that IMMEDIATELY pls and thank you
#asks#down on my knees begging the earth to let this happen to me#you guys can’t just tell me stuff like this#like now my entire bucket list is trying to get a butch woman to blush in front of me#fitting to put on a bucket list though because i think i would ascend straight to heaven😮💨#i love women so much oh my god#im going to be thinking. about this information for the rest of my life like oh my goddddd
napping-sapphic reblogged
anyway i ran out of my medicine and went about four (4) hours without it and now i am exhausted to shambles like damn yall crazy how you really do have to take care of yourself and take your meds
Prescription obtained!!!!!!!! The world is so beautiful again!!!!!!!!
#oh thank god i was sufferingggggg#it’s the kind of medicine that you really can’t skip or cold turkey stop#so we were struggling lol#but!! all good now!!#and HOPEFULLY the residual yucky feeling from this whole mess fades soon😪#going to be SO careful about taking it on time this week to hopefully readjust back faster smh#either way though at least the stress of not having it is gone so i’m happy :)!!!#your meds love you sm and want to take care of you guys pls love them back and take them properly😤❤️
Anonymous asked:
i'm the one giving the slow reply this time... LMAO my depression has been hitting a little harder lately, so i haven't been answering anybody. i'm fine tho !! just don't be surprised if this happens again 😭
THE ANONYMITY THING IS SO REAL like at least if i make a horrible impression we can just never talk again, irl it's much harder to avoid people :')
i'm glad you've been sleeping more !! i'm sorry that your meds got messed up though :( and yeah omg i've been relaxing and doing fun things so!! i hope you have too ^^
hidey hole spots 😭 that's honestly valid, i literally run away to bathrooms to calm down for a second if somewhere is too busy or too loud... i tell myself i wanna live in the city but i hate people and loud noises so idk what my plan is gonna be T^T
i hope we get a lot of snow too omfg in the area i'm in, the last time we got snow that stuck was like... two years ago? maybe three? every time since then it's been like slushy ice kinda stuff, it's sad bc i love the snow 😭
a little snow day for you too !! -> ❄️☃️🌨️
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Ooh that’s alright! I am notoriously bad at replying because of stuff like that too😅 hope you get feeling better soon though! And make sure not to beat yourself up over not having energy for stuff like messaging! Sometimes you just don’t have the spoons or the mood for it and that’s okay :)
Pretty much! Though most of my first impressions tend to be a little stilted or awkward so I’m more used to pushing past them anyway lol
Yes! Sleep is good! And I finally managed to get my full prescription again today so I’m much less stressed over it now! Glad to hear you’ve been well :)
Haha yes! A good hidey hole spot is always important😤😤 i found the noise kind of nice sometimes but i get you it definitely gets stressful too especially with how busy the streets can be😓
NOOOO no snowww that’s so sad! I love the snow so much! The slushy kind is so rude too like why taunt like that😭 I hope we can all get some proper snow this year!
Anonymous asked:
me, a butch, blushing furiously and averting my eyes to avoid looking too eager as I stare at my shoes bashfully, feeling your enthralling gaze in the distance. I'll be thinking about that post smiling like an idiot for the next week. thank you. sending you the forehead kisses and snuggles I'd give if I had the courage
AHHHH💗💗💗💗💗💗 SWEET SMILEY BUTCH PEACE AND LOVE ON PLANET EARTH!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
oh my god i just realized that with all the Life Drama™️ i never gave my final titty update that yes!!! going up a size in the bralettes i was trying worked! like i don’t think i like them as much as my old ones but they’re comfortable and look nice and i’m happy!! So good ending for my titty drama ty for tuning in and i’m sure i will be back here updating next time i have to buy any sort of bra again
#my biggest beef with them is that they don’t have adjustable straps like ???? bruh#and also the straps are thin so i do feel like they won’t last TOO long#but also i love them because i finally don’t have to spend all my free time trying to find bralettes😮💨#one of them is purple and i’m kind of in love with it :)#idk what boob haver out there needs to hear it but bralettes GOOD#me and my personal boobs don’t find them supportive enough to wear out and about but they are GREAT for being comfy at home#lol#if you’re not a fan of the braless feel but still wanna be more relaxed and comfy they are a life saver i swear🙏🙏#and i do hear from some friends with smaller cup sizes that they ARE good for going out or even working out for them :)#really depends on personal comfort i think but i do HIGHLY recommend trying them out😤#especially if you feel like both regular bras and sports bras are a bit too constrictive or uncomfortable
*dreamy sigh* i am once again thinking about butch women
#i will continue to maintain that i don’t have a type#but i will also admit that no one makes me blush more than butch women😔#insane feat btw because i blush like it’s my job around women😔😔#one of the hottest experiences of my life that i think of FREQUENTLY#was a butch pet store employee passionately talking to me about fish tanks (i do not and did not have or plan to have fish)#that happened like four years ago and i still think about it SO often#i would die for her#butch women you are all so hot and out of my league and i am actually obsessed with you#god i hope every butch out there has a good day#i’d blow you all forehead kisses but you make me too shy sorry#for the full butch meeting me irl experience i am instead sending you mental enthralled glances when you aren’t looking#and running full speed away if we make eye contact <3
Anonymous asked:
yes plz trap me in bed forever. This is an acceptable imprisonment. We dont need society, we dont need bullshit, we just need gayness and naps forever
Trapping people in bed to nap is hard work but SOMEONE’S gotta do it and i’m here to do my best🫡🫡
i’m a horrible influence btw because i would drag you into bed and do absolutely everything in my power to keep you there for as long as possible
#wlw#wlw mood#sapphic#sapphism#lesbian#i am not above pouting OR puppy eyes sorry#making this post because im so tiredddddd#and i plan to sleep for as long as possible#and it’s honestly SO rude that there’s no one here to hide away under all my blankets with me#like come lay down and sleep here until an absolutely absurd hourwith me pleasseee#i am#Exhausted#😴😴#so nightttt everyone hope you all get good sleep and have good dreams#im blowing you all kisses goodnight btw#<3!!!#i love you So much good things and good sleep for you all im manifesting#🌙✨✨💫☁️#im gay and i like sleeping
Need someone to learn to dance with me asap like let’s spin each other around and fumble all the moves and watch silly tutorials and cheer over little victories
Anonymous asked:
don't ever worry about slow replies!! i get it <3
ooh okay, i'm glad that it gets more comfortable :D that makes me feel better about maybe messaging someday sfksjfkw
IT IS THE WORST 😔 but it's okay!! it went away, and yesss the sleep being good is all that matters :D
you're so me fr, interacting with people face to face is so scary like... it's got NO business being that hard when anons are so easy??
i'm glad that you had fun!! i'm happy that it went the way that you wanted and you were able to handle it!
again, don't worry about the slowness, i hope you've been taking care of yourself too <33 heres music for you too :> 🎵🎼🎶🎸
this part is a reply to the other anon i sent, eating outside in the snow in the dark sounds so lovely? literally that is a god tier date idea... the people giving comments just didn't get it fr 😭 the city scenery/noises does sound very appealing for that specific situation omg :0 maybe it's because i've always grown up in more quiet/country areas, but i feel like a city would be fun to live in??? i'm glad there were at least a few things you liked!
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Aha good to hear as i give yet another slow reply lol😅
Definitely tough talking to new people😪 I’m very awkward about it and I am definitely thankful for the anonymity online interaction offers like I’m still awkward but at least they don’t know who I am lol😭
I’ve been doing good! Had an issue with my meds that’s made me get a lot of extra sleep that I honestly really needed so I can’t even complain about it lol and i hope you’ve been well too! It’s easy to forget to do fun stuff sometimes so I hope you’ve had a chance to!
It WAS lovely ahhhh i miss it everyday😮💨❤️❤️ I also grew up in a queter area so the city was definitely a big shift even though I was in the university part of it! And while I did love it so much, I definitely don’t think I’m cut out for how busy it is😅 by the time I graduated I had hidey hole spots for nearly every area on campus in case i got too overwhelmed lol
Anonymous asked:
I'm a transfem and really scared.... I just wanna feel safe and secure and small but I'm scared of all of it. mostly my hormones, because without it things won't go well for me :(
Oh yall are breaking my heart, like actually really truly fully breaking it
Please don’t stess yourself too much right now, don’t over consume the news right now or get trapped in all of the negativity. Don’t get lost in panic. I know, I KNOW everyone’s on edge and scared of where the world is and how much bad is happening everywhere but I promise you - I PROMISE you that we can get through it. No matter what happens you are you and no one, no matter how loud they can be, can take that away. Like the world can be as loud as it wants and get as bad as it pleases and it may be hard sometimes but it will never be able to take away all of the people who are rooting for each other.
Take a deep breath, calm yourself down. You’re still here and you’re okay and you have people on your side. I’m here on your side too and that won’t ever change.
#oh i hate this#i hate seeing yall like this#i got on tumblr to check up on things and there’s just So Much of this in the wake of the us election results and i hate it#like i want to FIX it for you#but i’m just me so all i can do is remind you that we have time and not to panic#the world will never fall to a place so low that it won’t be able to improve again#don’t give anyone the satisfaction of taking that hope from you#and if you’re overly anxious or scared right now PLEASE take care of yourselves#i am BEGGING you to take care of yourselves#put the phone down PLEASE and just relax for a moment#asks
anyway i ran out of my medicine and went about four (4) hours without it and now i am exhausted to shambles like damn yall crazy how you really do have to take care of yourself and take your meds
#my mom works in healthcare and actually has a lot of experience with my particular issue#so i let her check up on me earlier#and it only took her like two seconds to full name me and go ‘what the fuck’#😭😭😭#safe to say the medicine was quickly acquired after that😪#though i can’t get my full prescription until thursday which is annoying smh#it was funny because im so used to my meds now and they work so well#that for a while i was like hmm maybe the issue isn’t actually that bad🤔 maybe i won’t even notice when they wear off🤔🤔🤔#i did in fact notice lol#and now i feel like i ran a marathon today or something im so tired#but i was READING😠#and now it’s DIFFICULT because im SLEEPY😠😠
Anonymous asked:
hope you know that i'd dance with you in the middle of the night in winter !! i like going outside at night (esp in winter) too, i take my dogs outside a lot when it gets in the ams TT it's really peaceful, honestly, and my street doesn't have a lot of street lights on (there's one like two houses down and then the others are like wayyyy far down the street) it so it's extra peaceful
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Aha!! You get it!!! I used to always eat dinner outside in the snow when it was dark out in college and got a lot of comments about it😅 but it was very peaceful and good for thinking :) i think i liked doing it a bit more in the city since there was still a bit of hustle and bustle but it was still so quiet and different from how it was during the day and it made it very appealing haha
Anonymous asked:
LMAO THE TRADEMARK?? nothing better than the Bad Memory Curse™️ fr
omg 😭 what happens after one of you points it out? does it like... get more comfortable? if that makes sense--
AWW IM GLAD IT WAS GOOD !! it sucks that it took so long, but i'm glad you had good sleep once you did ^^ hopefully you're less stressed <3 and my sleep was okay, i woke up with my neck hurting because i was in an odd position, but i slept really good!! thank you!!
ohh okay i understand !! i'm glad that it comes naturally whenever you're comfortable with someone, and YES you get it!! it's really comforting growing up sometimes i think
i'm glad that you get it as a fellow anon user 😭 i don't feel pressured or anything, so don't worry, social anxiety is just beating me up </3 i very much appreciate you !! AND YEAHH PARTY TODAY :0 please do let me know how it goes?? if you want to ofc ^^
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Ah! Sorry for the slow answer this time!
Haha no it actually does usually get more comfortable once it’s pointed out! Since we both sort of realize we were doing the same thing and laugh about it lol
I’m sorry about the neck pain!! It’s always the WORST when that happens😣 but at least the sleep was good :)!
And yeah! I’m always too nervous to message first or at all most of the time and the rare times i do start interacting with people it’s almost exclusively through anon so i feel ya😪
And everything went as well as it could i think! It wasn’t a party exactly but i managed to tolerate a little bit of celebration-ish vibes and the not great stuff that DID happen was all pretty much within my expectations so overall i’d say it averaged out to a success haha👍