Since I’ve seen this discourse going around: - if you are bi/tri/polygender and one of your genders is male, you can be mlm. If one of your genders is female, you can be wlw - if you are genderfluid and only sometimes male, you can be mlm. If you are only sometimes female, you can be wlw - yes, you can be mlm/wlw even if you experience both binary genders - yes, you can be both mlm and wlw - saying otherwise is exorsexist
To all the people who get told their identity is weird or “““mogai hell”““ or whatever exorsexists are using these days: I hope you know that you are valid, you are worthy of being respected, of having your pronouns and experiences respected. You know better than anyone else who you are and surely better than some jackasses just looking to bully someone. Have a wonderful day
Being multigender doesn’t have to mean that you go between completely different genders
You can be female and demigirl. Agender and gendervoid. Male and proxvir. Even if the genders you experience are close to one another, you can still consider yourself multigender
Don’t worry if you’ve only felt one gender in a while. The way you felt in the past is not erased by how you feel now. You are still a valid trigender.
The same goes for other identities with multiple genders.
Trigender/midgard serpent moodboard
I've been questioning my gender, and mostly I'm just looking for experiences of other people to see what I relate to most. Would you (or your followers) mind sharing yours? There are so few posts on trigender and genderfluid other than saying "you're valid" , it's hard to know if I really relate to that. Thank you!
Hello! For me, being genderfluid doesn’t mean that I always know what gender I am, some days it’s clear what my gender is in that moment, other days I have to think about it for a while. Usually my gender changes every few days or after a week or so, although I’m not always sure since sometimes as I said I have to figure things out. Some days I am one binary gender, and other times nonbinary ones (usually demigender, nonbinary, and on a few occasions bigender or agender, but that’s more rare). I hope this was helpful
Does anyone of my followers want to share?
People always act terrible when it comes to how nonbinary people present, but there is this special brand of exorsexism that gets thrown at genderfluid people
One changes their presentation according to their gender? They get accused of upholding gender roles, of seeing gender as just the collection of stereotypes pushed on it, of “playing” trans when they feel like it
One always presents in the same way? They are accused of faking, that if they were really genderfluid then they wouldn’t be comfortable with always looking the same way, that you can’t really feel like x gender if on those days you aren’t bothered by some characteristic that is usually tied to another gender
There is honestly no winning in this. And the same happens with names and pronouns, one can’t use the same pronouns always because then they wouldn’t like them used all the time, one can’t change pronouns because then they are just being pushy and ridiculous. It’s exhausting
Genderfluid people get shit for everything they do, and that is incredibly unfair. Genderfluid people can present as they want and are most comfortable with, and no one has the right to make comments on how a genderfluid acts in order to feel better about themselves
Multigender people who experience no binary genders are valid
Nonbinary genders are as diversified and important as binary ones are, and you don’t need those to be multigender
Trigender plants
Gender pride symbols for the queer Muslim, set two!
This is set two, containing [insert name of symbol here?] for greygender, intergender, neutrois, nonbinary, pangender, polygender, transgender, and trigender.
Set one, with agender, androgyne, aporagender, bigender, demiboy, demigender, demigirl, genderfluid, genderflux, and genderqueer, is [here]
Gender pride hearts, set two!
Set two: Polygender, trigender, neutrois, greygender, genderqueer, transgender, nonbinary, androgyne.
Set one [link]: Agender, intergender, pangender, aporagender, bigender, genderflux, demigender, demiboy, demigirl, genderfluid.
Did I miss any? Drop a gender and its flag in my inbox and I’ll make it into an icon!
One doesn't need to experience extremely different genders to be considered multigender. One can just have masculine genders or feminine genders or closely related nonbinary genders and still be multigender
(Some) gender pride icons for those with physical disabilities!
I forgot there was a ten-graphic limit on Tumblr. I assumed they all uploaded until someone pointed out some missing genders. Sorry! I’ll upload the rest soon.
Trigender Pride Wings!!
Have pride in who you are! Have pride and love yourself! You are an angel!
More to come!
Trigender / With Beach Themes - moodboard for anon! (Mod Luna)
Survey
Hello! I wanted to do a survey on the multigender community, so if you are under the multigender umbrella would you please consider taking it or spreading this post?
Thank you in advance!