Be a mentor.

Take an Internet slut and make her a rl slut.

Convince her she’s missing out on so much, give her the confidence and support to put everything into motion in actuality, until she does: her first time out without panties, her first flash, her first public bj. Eventually, her worlds will bleed together and there’s no separation anymore, just one girl with one life online and offline combined, one insanely happy, free-spirited girl that owes her new life to you.

She’s such a good girl now, and you helped her.

Be a mentor.

liking someone platonically is so embarrassing like. yeah i admire you. yeah i think about you all the time. yeah i look forward to every time i see you even if it's only for a minute. yeah it's all platonic and yeah i couldn't explain this because it'd sound romantic. fucking hell

Feeling something similar right now

I overthink each message I send you. I look forward to our conversations and make space to be where you are. I've found you immensely attractive for years and think we'd both enjoy playing together, but saying that wouldn't change anything

We'd still attend the same events. Enjoy the same conversations. Make the same time together. And that's deeply satisfying

And it's safe here. I have love. I don't have the time to give enough, and I don't know if I bring what you'd want to share

I love you, friend, and you've said you love me. I don't know what more would look like. I'm in no rush to find out. And every time you laugh, I feel a little embarrassed that I'm not

If we look back - 10 years from now - and realize we stumbled on more together, I'll smile.

And I'll smile if we don't

Perhaps my softest cnc fantasy ever is being forced to being a housewife.

There’s a couple ways for it to happen: conditioning, hypnosis, or simply training. The method isn’t that particular to me. But cooking and cleaning for a man, doing all the laundry, maybe popping out a kid or two? Something about it just makes my body warm up.

And, of course, my husband could fuck me as hard as he wanted. Whenever he wanted. Even if I was in the middle of cleaning the counter after dinner; if he bent me over said counter to fill me with his thick cock, who am I to stop him?

Not to mention my husband providing me with an unparalleled amount of safety and security. Always safe in his arms, yes we have rough sex, but otherwise he’s soft and doting on me 🥰

There doesn't even have to be a specific "method" to it It starts after the stress immediately following her first kid or perhaps after a major life event puts her behind, and you support her through it. No obligations, just taking care of her needs, holding space, understanding, buying her as much time to relax as possible As she starts to feel better and develop free time of her own, ask her to help with small tasks. Laundry. Dishes. Show her exactly how you like it done. Care that she does it right—check like it matters—and reward her with affection and gratitude each time - a "thank you," a touch, a grope, a kiss. And rarely, but often enough that she senses it could happen at any time, pull her arms behind her, bend her over the counter, and use her cunt, her mouth, or put a Hitachi up to her clit and tell her what a good girl she is Buy her dresses that flatter. Praise her appearance for specific things that attract you that she has control over - her style, makeup, hair, shaving, how she wears accessible panties (or none at all).

Solving problems together, listening closely to her needs, desires, and frustrations, providing security and safety in a real, challenging world... and when the kids are out at school, and her belly is swelling with the next one, tying her up and using her like your personal fucksleeve

And five years later, or ten, or a lifetime, when she realizes that in her thoughts, she calls you "Sir," when she catches herself moaning "thank you" while you play with her, she'll stop and wonder for a moment when it happened. When she became your good little housewife. And then your cock slips into her mouth and the question fades away as she loses her train of thought...

All she knows is she said "yes" every step along the way.

It's 2024 can people pls reflect about how they engage with porn online?

This shouldn't be something I have to type out first thing in the morning but:

I rly fucking wish people would stop just stealing and sharing porn without any attempt at sourcing. Being tagged in a video (that I wasn't even in) on discord that was taken of people I care about by our abusive tist at the time when the consent of people agreeing to being filmed was questionable is not the best way to start out the day!

Creators should get a say in how their work is distributed and where.

Just saving random shit and adding your own captions/filters is really fucked up because you can't verify if the people in the video consent to it being shared on the platforms you are sharing it/still want the video distributed, you can't verify that peeps want to be sexualized in the way you are sexualizing them, and you can't even verify if everyone is of age or if what's in the video was taken with consent of all parties/without coersion. Some creators location block certain states so they aren't outted to family/to protect their job and when you share someone's porn without their consent you literally put their safety, housing and support systems at risk.

This is a huge problem in general but esp in the hypno kinky community and it would not fly at all in a lot of other spaces.

Also if you see a creator adding captions to other people's porn and using it for their own adverts/file visuals/compilations, pls say something.

Creators that do what I mentioned above are contributing to a problem of unverified, unsourced, unethical, exploitative porn...and I use the term porn loosely here. If you give a fuck about esp small queer/trans/femme creators who often have their work stolen/if you want your fave small creators to keep making porn this should be an issue that matters to you! Banning people sharing unsourced gifs any one place won't solve the issue but if enough people call this stuff out, it might actually help change the culture/attitudes around porn/how it's shared in the community.

It's wonderful this community puts such an emphasis on the importance of consent but I really wish that attitude was reflected in how people engage with their porn.

I'm not gonna tell you how to vote, BUT...

Here are some truths about the upcoming United States election.

I really hope you make your peace with this now. Please, vote how you want, but with one candidate saying he will essentially outlaw transgender people, I can't imagine NOT voting for the only other candidate who can possibly win. Right now the polls are 50/50, which is absolutely insane to me.

In my experience, it's usually younger people who talk about either voting their conscience, or not voting at all to "send a message." I assure you, not voting doesn't send a message to the candidate who loses. Your message is only received by the millions of Americans who will suffer as a result.

I don't want to argue. I have no desire to fight with anyone over this anymore. And if you want to ask me "so I have to choose between two killers?" as a gotcha, then I'm sorry to say... The answer is yes. Those are the choices we've been given. And because the United States is no longer a true democratic republic, there's not a whole lot we can do to change that right now.

If you want to make a change in a 2-party system, don't start at the top. Start at the bottom. There are plenty of close races at the local, county, and state levels. Vote, donate, and volunteer for truly progressive candidates at those levels and make it clear that your support for them is contingent on their continued support for your values.

These players are the keys to getting progressives in Congress. You don't need many. The 2-part system means that national votes are usually close, and a dozen or so Congressmen can force concessions from their own side, but only when their side has a majority.

You don't build a third party. You pull your party left.

It doesn't take long. Trump managed it in 6 years, getting enough MAGAts into the House and Senate that they could block the 'mainstream' from getting anything done - even electing a speaker - unless they bent the knee, even after he lost.

We can do it, too. But for it to work well: a) the party that at least pretends to care about your interests has to hold the majority in Congress and the Executive b) we need to support local progressive candidates who care about things like abortion, anti-corporatism, LGBTQ+ rights, and separation of church and state.

Voting 3rd Party - or not voting at all just to spite the Democrats - doesn't accomplish either of those.

Flowers are so pretty, aren't they?