i love people whose gender presentation is confusing or contradictory.
lesbians who are on testosterone or get top surgery? you rock, and it doesn’t invalidate your identity!
gay men who go on estrogen or do vocal training? that’s so cool of you, and you deserve to feel secure in your identity, too!
being queer is about finding yourself and making yourself feel comfortable in the body and identity you choose. the steps you take towards that comfort are your own choice, and no one else has the right to judge you for it.