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enemywasp

Just saw someone say something like "proshippers stop inserting yourself into minor filled spaces" (referring to fandom), so daily reminder fandom was never made for or by kids. It has always been predominantly adults.

Kids are welcome in fandom, but they are the ones who must read the signs warning not to enter 18+ spaces

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teaboot

I hate that thing some people do where it's like. "I left my wallet on the table to see if you'd say anything" or "I wanted to see if you'd wash the car if I stopped doing it"

Cause like

I dont know about anyone else

But I am perpetually hovering three inches above the strong subconscious belief that everyone knows what they're doing at all times except me, so if you change your normal patterns and I notice, then I will assume it is an intentional choice with a thought-out plan behind it and I will avoid interfering

And if I don't notice, because I won't, because why would I, because not much bothers me and if you don't say anything to indicate you are bothered then how would I KNOW

Alternatives to experimenting on me like a lab rat when you suspect me of being inconsiderate:

  1. "I feel like I'm the only one who does this chore. Can we start taking turns?"
  2. "I'd like you to ask me how I'm doing more often."
  3. "It bothers me when this area stays messy so long. Can you do X when Y happens?"
  4. "I feel like the onus is on me to initiate X, and it's wearing me down. Could you try making the first move more? Like 3-4 times a week?"
  5. "I'm feeling upset right now and I'd like to spend some time with you."
  6. "When X happens, I feel like you're taking my work for granted."
  7. "I'm feeling neglected. Could you do X?"
  8. "I'm burnt out and need help."
  9. "I feel like I'm the only one putting effort into X."
  10. "Do you notice this?"
  11. "Are you bothered by this?"
  12. "I am bothered when this happens."
  13. "X habit of yours bothers me."
  14. "When X is like this, I feel bad. Can you [action] when you notice X?"

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An infographic style image in black and white that has an image of a stop sign symbol and beside it are paragraphs (which have bolded first letters) that read as:

Are you operating on an arbitrary set of terms and rules known only to you?

Have you created an ultimatum or specific if/then scenario for someone else without communicating it to them?

Have you considered making a decision and calculated all the conquences, potentional reactions to those consequences, and consequences for those reactions before you ACTUALLY made a decision?

Below these is a big bold all caps phrase reading as:

It may be time to say some words out loud to another person!

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reblogged

most important part of the writing process actually is when you loop a single song on max volume and stare at the word document and imagine the characters doing things for 14 hours. this is known as getting in the zone

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plumbum-art

similar with creating art

70% of the process is "doing nothing" and just letting your mind wander. for me "doing nothing" can be blasting my ears with one song on loop, sitting in complete silence and staring at nothing in particular, doing everyday chores, taking a walk, doing boring things etc..

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genuinely fucked up that if i want to interact with someone online i have to say words and have a conversation instead of just mashing my face against them like a cat

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anakachow

reblog to mash your face against your mutuals like a cat

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beebfreeb

Messaging people for the first time is so hard. What am I supposed to say? Like, "You seem really odd and your blog intrigues me. Do you want to have philosophical conversations or perhaps talk about fictional characters?" What! Whatever. I will just follow you back and stare at your blog with my big beautiful brown eyes.

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scribe-cas

Reblog if you're okay with people coming into your DMs with the "you seem really odd and your blog intrigues me, do you want to have philosophical conversations or perhaps talk about fictional characters"

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crushpdf

Make the most of the next two months

  • Get all your vaccines
  • Travel while we have a functioning DOT
  • Read and buy books on feminism, anti-racism, pro-lgbt
  • Attend drag shows
  • Don't skip any of your classes
  • Read and buy history books
  • Find your out-of-state networks
  • Learn to carry cash
  • Get birth control solutions
  • Support the Biden/Harris administration
  • Postpone large purchases and save money
  • Be careful of what you say online, like un-ambiguous attacks against the incoming administration, especially in spaces that contain your full name or personal information

Feel free to add on.

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buthowboutno

wow! as a broke college kid, i wish there was a way to access books and movies as well as scientific articles that the new administration isn't necessarily a fan of. man. If only there was a free and trusted vpn ( up to 10 gigs of downloadable data) to use in conjunction with an anonymizing router (also free up to 10 gigs) to safely, er, permanently borrow media in an untraceable way as well as share files. Man, what's that browser that keeps your online activity anonymous? I'm awfully attached to firefox, personally. If only i had a browser extension that would throw a smoke screen over my browsing data while blocking ads at the same time.

what was i talking about? hmm. weird.

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cracks knuckles Taking a break from the horrors and every other fic right now to write tabieita again, you're welcome. 💚💙

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