Do u think 4 year age differences are weird? Like a 16 and 20 year old?
… Agreed, but with the note that 16 is the age of consent in New Zealand.
Therefore in absolute theory I see no problem with it but in reality it’s skeevy.
I have no clue how this conversation started but as someone who dated someone 7 years older at age 16 I would liked to object. It really depends on the situation. This got long so I’ll put it under a cut.