miss-ingno reblogged
Anonymous asked:
Do u think 4 year age differences are weird? Like a 16 and 20 year old?
… Agreed, but with the note that 16 is the age of consent in New Zealand.
Therefore in absolute theory I see no problem with it but in reality it’s skeevy.
I have no clue how this conversation started but as someone who dated someone 7 years older at age 16 I would liked to object. It really depends on the situation. This got long so I’ll put it under a cut.
#this got out of hand#sex#sex ed#sexual attraction#age gap#age of consent#in Germany we have a law that under16 can't date over21#if they do legal action can be taken and they have to have the parents permission etc#ingnopersonal#one day I will write a detailed post about my life experiences#which will include my ex#and various run ins with older people hitting on me making me uncomfortable#which i have way too many incidents of#and it started when I was 10#so I get why this is a difficult topic