Hi! You don't have to post this. I used to sincerely emjoy the confessions here and there and check this blog from time to time, but I think, and you seem to be starting to realize it, that it has done far more damage to the fandom that it has been fun. It's pretty much all a newcomer sees too in the tags now. And you seem so burned out. I think this may be the easiest way to destroy your love and enjoyment of the band. And to everyone else, it seems like they're addicted to the outrage they know they'll find here.
I feel like it's an unhealthy situation for everyone at this point. I empathize because it did seem like a good idea at first, but the anonymous nature of it just brings out the worst in people, and the eternal rehashing of frankly concerning opinions.
I was against it at first, but now I understand: I do think you should archive it/delete it, mostly for your sake, but also for the sake of the fandom, if you still love the group. It may heal the fandom a little and we may see more original posts about Må in the tag. That, and your mental health will probably thank you.
Sorry if this is out of line. I just feel we're all tired of the nature of the interactions here, you most of all. There's so much hate, so much casual mysoginy, that I don't think this is good for anyone at this point. Magbe, if the things people say can only be said anonymously, they shouldn't be said at all.
I hope you're well! Stay safe, and good luck with whatever it is you choose.