one of the main things that makes me uncomfy about dd/lg is the fact that there’s always a laundry list of rules for the “little”, such as asking permission to partake in basic necessities, which makes me wonder what’s going to happen when the “little” becomes less brainwashed and more self aware, therefore less willing to cater to their daddy dom’s pseudo-pedophilic needs. my bet is on the daddy dom finding the next vulnerable, naïve girl to prey on and manipulate. this dd/lg garbage is romanticized to death on the internet (especially here on tungle dot hell), and it won’t be long before this shit ends up on the news.
men just voted en masse to deprive y'all of your human rights and already y'all are starting with the "don't demonize men :(" rhetoric.... please try to be serious.
the day y'all finally understand men are allegiant to male supremacy because it is in their class interests as men and not as a consequence of "hurt feelings" or "loneliness" or any other bullshit trying to shift the blame for men's own actions onto women is the day we'll finally begin to get anywhere.
I sometimes look at reddit stories, and a theme I've seen is men ranting and getting divorces and trying to ruin their ex-wives life for 'emotional cheating'. And honestly, that is the dumbest concept. Like your spouse gets emotional support from a friend and uses a friend as a confidante and doesn't turn to you because you have made it clear you are emotionally unavailable. She's not doing anything inappropriate, just being close friends with people and trusting them and being supported and cared for, like friends do. And you're getting all mad? Yet another example of terrible men.
My latest cartoon for New Scientist
To be clear, this isn't a bit. This is what they actually did. "Its too late" is the new "Climate change isn't real"... And its still a lie!
Every serious climate scientist agrees that there is no such as thing as too late, just as there is no such thing as too early. We should have done a lot more than we have to fight climate change, and the world will suffer for our inaction, but there is no point of no return. We can always work to reduce the amount of suffering that occurs, and eventually turn things around to the point where our planet is healing once again. Do not believe anyone who says it's "too late".
I don't really care if rapists can be rehabilitated or not, they don't deserve to be.
A 22 yr old in my org got drunk tuesday night and kinda shit on the fact that I'm running a community cleanup for our chapter. Said something along the lines of "i didn't join up to pick trash." Which really bothers me and it took me a while to figure out why. The whole point of the community cleanup is that we're returning to the neighborhoods where we knocked doors for A4 to help clean up their streets and provide material improvement for free in an effort to build inroads with those neighbors.
Like... if your socialism doesn't include picking uo trash, I'm guessing it also doesn't include doing the dishes, babysitting, or anything else that is important but not prestigious. Idk man, fuck off with that shit. You'll pick up trash and you'll like it until you understand why picking up trash isn't anyone's job but your own. I hate that attitude. If helping and doing activism was always fun and visible and impressive, everyone you know would already be doing it.
The first thing the new york chapter of The Young Lords (Puerto Rican American communist civil rights group(Worked alongside the black panthers))did upon forming their group was reach out to their community in east harlem, they asked their community what problems needed to be addressed and consistently the number 1 problem brought up was the trash.
In their chairman Felipe Luciano's words, “So we’re on 110th Street and we actually asked the people, ‘What do you think you need? Is it housing? Is it police brutality?’" Luciano says. "And they said, ‘Muchacho, déjate de todo eso—LA BASURA!” [Listen kid, fuggedaboutit! It’s THE GARBAGE!] And I thought, my God, all this romance, all this ideology, to pick up the garbage?”
And so the young lords responded to their communities needs and they picked up the trash. This was at a time (1969) when there were literal tons of garbage lining the streets, trash collectors would pick up some garbage every now and then but would leave most of it behind, they also refused to sweep the streets, and only allotted 6 big dumpsters in that entire 40 block area. This was due to racist/classist stances held by the almost exclusively italian american trash collector union.
The young lords stepped up in this situation, they go and ask for brooms and bags from the trash collectors union and get refused and insulted. They go back later and steal the brooms and bags, and get started cleaning their neighborhoods. This is a band aid and it doesn't fix things but it does show their community these people care, these people will listen and put in the work, these people are our people, it was the basis of community organizing, building trust and responding to people's actual needs.
While this did help and build trust the problem persisted and so the young lords came up with a program they called the garbage offensive (or maybe the trash offensive i forgot). They started sweeping all of the trash onto the side of the street and waited for the trash collectors to come by, when they refused to pick it up, the young lord would pile that all into trucks and haul it off to 3rd avenue in Manhattan(a much richer whiter area that gets high traffic). They dumped the trash into the middle of the street (not just bags of trash, we are also talking furniture, broken sinks, etc.) and then hauled off and they did this almost daily. They forced people to pay attention. The whole community started to get involved in this, kids, young men and women, and older community members too. They all started to join in on dumping the trash in the richer parts of the city to make people care and pay attention.
These protests got larger and bolder, they would sometimes pile up the trash high and then light it on fire, over turn cars and make a party out of it sometimes too. Police were called and showed up and attacked as they do but the protests persisted.
The Young lords published their demands and sent them out in a press release and their demands were listened too. In that years mayoral race every single candidate had to address the trash problem and promise solutions.
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This is an important lesson that direct action often pushes reforms, if we want reforms the best way to get them is to act and make the state react to us and catch up with our demands.
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Their demands included increased sanitation workers, hiring black and puerto rican sanitation workers, increased dumpsters, increase in pay to sanitation workers, end having to pay off your sanitation workers to ensure your trash gets picked up etc. Many of these demands were met and in the coming years the trash does end up getting picked up regularly and the problem does get dealt with.
The Young Lords end up going on to do so much more. They occupy hospitals, steal supplies from the government, and try to build towards a revolution in america. But it starts here, it starts with the trash it starts with all the small menial hardships. We can talk about revolution all we want but if our neighborhoods are unsanitary, our neighbors hungry, our needs uncared for nothing will come of it. The revolution you want to build however radical you are must start rooted in your community, their wants and needs. And part of that is picking up the trash, starting a community run daycare, and all the little unglamorous day to day struggles that weigh people down.
Thank you for this addition! I'm going to read it to the volunteers who come out to trash pick with us today 🤘
Police called to remove a group of lesbians from a bar because one wore an “offensive” t-shirt stating the dictionary definition of lesbian.
As we all know a sure sign of a group being an oppressed minority is the ability to utilize the police to bother people they don’t like.
starting to suspect that tech bros actually just don’t know what reading is
I know I just reblogged this but I think the really important takeaway here is that this techbro is not genuinely asking “how can we improve fanfiction?” What he’s asking is “how can we tap into this massive market?”
I keep thinking about how many of these chat bots are free—for now. And of course they are! It’s a classic marketing technique when you’re trying to get your foot in the door with a novel product: let folks use it, let them get used to it, then start charging for it. You don’t have to look any further than streaming to see a very recent example of how this happens.
And it’s going to happen with AI.
There’s nothing these assholes love more than making money off of other people’s hard work. But you can’t legally charge for fanfic! So how do you get around that? You charge for a chat bot (which you trained on other people’s fanfic). You can’t charge for the content, but you can charge for the thing that produces the content.
AI is theft, and there are a whooooole lot of people gleefully looking to make a buck off of our hard work.
Don’t use AI, don’t feed AI your favorite fic writers’ and artists’ work, don’t read AI fic, don’t engage with it. And if you do, well, I can’t force you to give a shit about other people, but AI is a paywall being built, brick by brick, between you and the things you love. Stop slathering on the mortar.
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This is it, right here
“Be nice to men” is such insidious advice to give when discussing young men radicalizing to the right. What they perceive as mean is women taking up space, having opinions and a say, and gaining rights like bank accounts, voting, and reproductive freedom.
“Mean” is simply us daring to consider ourselves important.
What does such a man think is nice? And why should we be so stupid as to give it to him?
Calls to fight male supremacy with female subordination are all calls for women to relinquish our rights for male comfort.
If they think this is mean, they should think about the constant atrocities women are subjected to.
“Be nice” okay we tried that. How do you think sexism flourishes?
you know what? normalize ruthlessly mocking men’s interests completely unprovoked the same way they’ve spent years mocking pumpkin spice lattes and pop music and animal crossing and the sims and every other completely harmless thing women often enjoy. I Love Revenge
What the fuck are you talking about? That would just create more mocking. Maybe no one should mock other people's interests.
No we should mock and denigrate men's interests for the next four hundred years at least.
So your solution to some men being mean to you is to be an even bigger asshole? How the fuck does that help anyone?
Who said anything about helping
so you're an asshole and have no intention of being kind?
Not to men 🤪
I love how when misogynists see women discussing starting to treat men the way men treat women (just talking about it, not even doing it) we’re somehow EVEN BIGGER ASSHOLES than the males treating us that way in the first place. 11th rule of misogyny. Whatever women suffer from, it is worse when it happens to men.
disabled people are worth whatever cost or resources is needed to keep them alive. disabled people are worth it even if they don't live long. they're worth it even if they will need extra support and resources for every day of their life. they're worth it even if they spend all they life indoors. none of it is wasted. none of it is in vain. time, effort, money, resources spent on a life are not wasted. these things have served their purpose. the joy of someone's existence is not undermined by not lasting forever. there's no meaningful point, some threshold where you can say "okay this is enough. after that it's not worth it." it's always worth it.
actually the fact that it took no time at all for people to start calling the 4b movement transphobic and not inclusive enough just proves yet again how trans rights are being used (very effectively) as a means to smash women’s liberation by vilifying feminists and derailing the conversation. like just come out as men right’s activists already it’s so obvious
I sometimes look at reddit stories, and a theme I've seen is men ranting and getting divorces and trying to ruin their ex-wives life for 'emotional cheating'. And honestly, that is the dumbest concept. Like your spouse gets emotional support from a friend and uses a friend as a confidante and doesn't turn to you because you have made it clear you are emotionally unavailable. She's not doing anything inappropriate, just being close friends with people and trusting them and being supported and cared for, like friends do. And you're getting all mad? Yet another example of terrible men.