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Birds choose their neighbours based on personality

Birds of a feather nest together, according to a new study which has found that male great tits (Parus major) choose neighbours with similar personalities to their own.

Oxford University researchers investigated whether the personality of birds influences their social lives – in particular who they choose to nest near. The study involved analysing social network structure in a population of wild great tits at Wytham Woods, Oxfordshire, over six consecutive breeding seasons. Lead author and doctoral student Katerina Johnson explained: “We found that males, but not females, were picky about personalities, with males opting for like-minded neighbours. Our results emphasise that social interactions may play a key role in animal decisions.”

This tendency for males to associate with other males of similar personality may be particularly important during the breeding season when aggression peaks. Males fiercely defend their territories and compete for opportunities to mate with females and so shyer males may avoid setting up home near bolder, more aggressive individuals. Females, however, likely choose where to nest based on the attractive qualities of males.

The results also showed that this personality assortment amongst males was not affected by local environmental conditions. “Just like students choosing their flatmates,” Katerina commented, “birds may pay more attention to who they share their living space with than simply location.” She added: “Animal personalities can influence their social organisation and humans are likewise known to form social networks based on shared attributes including personality.”

Read more via Phys 

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Ok but can we talk about the fact that Parus majors are calles “great tits”?

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i’m trying to get used to the idea of living on my own because i’ll soon be looking for my own place… it’s just… so many things to consider.

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First of all, if you can have help from, I don’t know, your family or someone else, get it. It was really useful for me, my mom helped me to find an apartment, buy my stuff, to move in my new place… Since I was working, I didn’t have the time do all of that and, anyway, I would have been quickly overwhelmed, job or not.

Secondly, it’s very important to install a routine right away, in order to do what you have to do. Consider subscribing freely to the website Habitica, it might help you to have a checklist and to respect it. 

I had issues with this part, unfortunately, because everytime I left my place (to see my parents, for example), I couldn’t respect my routine and I tended to just let it go, once I came back. 

But if you can maintain a routine, try to do your tasks always roughly at the same time and always in the same order, I found out that it helped a lot with my executive dysfunction, for the time I was able to keep up an healthy routine.

Open your windows everyday. If you think you can’t do your dishes everyday, buy a dishwasher or take plastic plates. I did that when I had a room for another job and it helped a lot to not have to wash the plates. I spent already so many spoons on my job…

Make sure that you know what kind of services are close to your place. A supermarket near your apartment can do wonders on your mood and your day-to-day life. Being sure of what can be reached by foot and what cannot (for example, if I want to buy my favorite food, aka Sushi, I have to take my car. Also, no one is doing deliveries near my place, it’s a shame…) can really help you to ease your anxieties.

I might have forget some stuff. Don’t hesitate to ask me. I’m not a stellar model, my apartment is a mess, but I still can help c:. 

Thanks so much for the advice.

First off I’d like to say, for me the routine aspect of it doesn’t seem that daunting. I am thinking back from the time I was living with my dad, his girlfriend and my brother, back when i was going to art school. I think that if I was able to take care of the chores of a big house and grocery shopping on my own, while also being in art school and doing my homework for two years, I can handle a tiny flat with only me and maybe a cat. The difference is I wasn’t the one paying the bills. So routine-wise, that’s the real worry: paperwork. (the semi good news is I might qualify for an SAVS, this is a person who can help with all and any everyday task that are challenging. I say semi good, because i’m not sure yet, also i might not even need it in the end).

Second worry: I am on disability, and I will need to re-apply for it next year in january. This is tricky because I was told I need either the support of a psychiatrist or a general practitioner for this. Thing is I ditched my CMP psychiatrist because she’s a dangerous b*tch up to no good, and I am in the process of changing general practitioners because the current one is acting creepy as well when it comes to mental health issues and it’s a mess. Long story short, I have no idea where this will leave me next year when my disability pay rights end in july.

Third worry: all the steps required to get my own place. I am not currently working but the act of getting my own place is a new thing and I don’t know what I’m supposed to do and it’s overwhelming. Like you suggested, I’ll do this with the help of my mom and her friends as much as possible.

Really currently, the “second worry” takes precedent, because I need to know I can be financially stable. I am not worried about being on disability itself, because I am qualified for a lot of financial and other type of help, and I have a relative who lives on disability alone, and has his own place, and it’s just fine. I am worried about personally not being allowed to re-apply.

Since you yourself have a job, I am not sure if this is something you can help with directly. Maybe do you know someone who has gone through the same process? If so, can you reblog and @ them so they can comment? I’d appreciate it. Thank you.

I’m tagging french mutuals because this is french specific now. I need to know my rights as a french disabled citizen, again, if you know someone who is familiar with the process of re-applying for disability, let me know

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Hmm en fait elles se ressemblent mais c'est pas tout à fait la même, au temps pour moi.

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It’s finally finished! I wanted to make this comic for the snap election, but if the Tories win I feel like it’s gonna be relevant for the next few years. 

I messaged a few of the spoonie blogs I follow to see if they would be okay with me tagging them in this. I got responses from @spooniediaries and @heyatleastitsnotcancer but I didn’t want to tag anyone else who hadn’t given me their consent.

Caption/script under the cut - please reblog and share. (Note: the captioning is reaaaaally long - it might crash your phone if you’re on mobile).

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This is what I’m here for.

I double checked, this is true. It was in the NY Times.

Oh my gosh. 

“Each of the sisters renounced their vocation and left the church. In the intervening time, they have been outspoken about the church’s hardline stance against homosexuality. “God wants people happy, to live the love in the light of the sun,” Isabel reportedly told Italy’s La Stampa newspaper.”

To live the love in the light of the sun is the new go to wlw phrase of choice

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