What does it mean to be a man?

It means no matter what you do, it's never good enough.

We're supposed to pay for dinner, open doors for them, help them carry stuff. But nowadays that is insulting.

It means your mental health DOES NOT MATTER.

Male suicides make up 3x more than female suicides.

Guys don't open up because nobody fucking cares.

You're just told to get up and walk it off. So why bother opening up?

No matter how good we are it means a woman can divorce us, take half our money and our kids.

If you're unhappy in a relationship that's your problem, if a woman is unhappy in a relationship that is also your fucking problem.

Basically...

You've gotta be able to provide or you're a loser.

As Chris Rock once said "Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition he can provide something"

We Owe Today’s Feminism Nothing So Start Saying No To Their Hatred And Lies

Isn’t it interesting that anti-feminists encourage women and everyone else to think for themselves while feminists want to tell women and everyone else how to think? The moment you realize that there’s so much more to it than the little feminist bubble full of lies and deceit, you’ll start to become a happier person because no longer will you be under the illusion of patriarchies, rape cultures and oppression. 

Those against feminism are in no way against women. This is the manipulative spin feminists put on anyone who disagrees with them. What anti-feminists want is for the truth to be heard and to bring some common sense and genuine facts back into the equation. 

What’s wrong with proving to people that they really aren’t the evil oppressors from birth, they really aren’t the distraught helpless victims of oppression from birth. Proving that women aren’t being cheated out of wages, proving there is no rape culture, proving old white mythical men of the almighty patriarchy really aren’t controlling our bodies, proving that this movement is full of hatred and lies?

What’s wrong with proving to women of our country that in fact we have already achieved equality, we have equal or greater rights, we are already liberated, we are some of the most privileged, free and capable people on earth? We’re only making ourselves infantile and pushing ourselves back into the past by spreading the ridiculous idea that we are born into oppression, that we are always the victims, that we are scared of men’s “gaze”, that we are scared of being spoken to, that we are entitled to handouts and advantages for being women, that we deserve safe spaces that resemble kindergarten and everyone must treat us so preciously. 

What’s wrong with giving a voice to boy’s and men’s highly important and worrying issues, to call out the impact that today’s feminism is having on our classrooms and what these boys are being taught about themselves. Feminists don’t give a shit about this, in fact they physically go out of their way to shut these discussions and forums down and silence, even laugh at anyone who mentions these serious men’s issues. 

What’s wrong with encouraging others to think for themselves and have the freedom to say and think what you want for once? What’s wrong with sending out factual information, the correct statistics and providing some logic and reasoning for once? We sure as hell aren’t getting it from our media or schools, these are instead the breeding grounds for misinformation and deceit. 

The answer to all of this is there’s nothing wrong with any of this. What’s wrong is the feminists who shame and scare people into thinking these things translate to hate and misogyny because everything feminism says and does, no matter how appalling, violent or disgusting, feminist is always right and anyone who disagrees is a misogynist bigot. 

I know feminism paints the pretty picture of such a noble, wonderful, peaceful movement. The thing is, nearly all anti-feminists were once dedicated feminists themselves for a long time, it sucked us all in with its rosy definition and promises so we know how hard it is to go against the grain and be open to anything else but once you start looking at the hatred, abuse and lunacy that it creates, start looking at all the lies and hypocrisy that are being constantly exposed, look at the nasty message it’s sending to men and women, if you finally start asking questions, you can then see things from a more positive, encouraging perspective, one where you’re not blinded by delusion. 

You can still believe in equality without believing in feminism, they never have and never will own the right to advocate equality - as much as they try to con you into believing otherwise. They will never be the true voice for equality when the only equality they care about these days is the ‘fun stuff’ or when it means tearing men down. 

It’s time we stop letting ourselves feel ashamed or scared for simply disagreeing with them and calling them out on their bullshit. Since when did their set of ideologies become the only set of ideologies in history to be entitled to immunity from criticism? I know they have no leg to stand on but it still doesn’t give them any sort of right to avoid legitimate criticism. 

There’s nothing wrong with choosing to not be a feminist. The way feminism forces itself on us is meant to be everything it fights against. It’s okay to go against the grain no matter how hard it is to do. We owe today’s feminism nothing. 

Fairly accurate.