People are always sad about being friendzoned but never realize how good having a friend is
No… guys are upset about it girls couldn’t give a crap because we understand having friends is important
Friends are great, but desiring with all your being someone who doesn’t desire you in return is an agony almost everyone has gone through, or will go through, at some point in their lives, and I’m pretty sure there are a million girls out there right now who have at one time or another cried themselves to sleep at night after being told “I think of you more like a sister…”
im fucking scared that i’ll spend the rest of my life alone, but im also too afraid of rejection to do anything about it…
Me: *gets rejected one time*
Me to my heart:
“Rejection isn’t personal.”
Me:
I think my favorite thing about feminists is they rage against boys who complain about the friendzone but if they get rejected by someone they throw the biggest bitchfit ever, either he's a misogynist who hates women or she's been brainwashed by men
This is so true. LolDon’t even get me started on men who arent sexually attracted to overweight women….. My god they lose their shit.
little avoidant personality disorder things
- not being able to do school/job work with others or even go at all
- feeling like youre being judged by everyone including strangers
- having to ask if people still want to talk with you after a breakdown
- distancing yourself from friends when it looks like theyre doing fine without you
- thinking everyone else is better than you and that they deserve more
- restraining yourself in relationships because youll be rejected otherwise
- fearing criticism even when you need it
- struggling to make friends or meet new people at all believing they wont like you
Guilty of 2, 4, 5, 7 and 8.
Advice I could have used years ago.