Damn. Something like this wouldn’t make my day. It’d make my year.

I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve had any kind compliment regarding my looks in all my 43 years. I can remember each one because they’ve been so rare.

you are not incompatible with this world: you have a place in this planet (that you will find) and you have innate value too, just by being you

Heterosexual

It is perfectly fine to be heterosexual, you shouldn’t feel pressured to make up a new sexual orientation just because of a couple of toxic people or because you feel insecure. It’s ok to be a man and love women, it’s ok to be a woman and love men. Being yourself is ok.

Everyone deserves a second chance!

If you’re a teenage boy rn and you like Joe Rogan or Fight Club or MMA or military history or any other kind of thing like that, embrace it and don’t let yourself be shamed for it. Don’t fall into the “You’re only woke if your interests are exactly the same as those of the average woman.” trap. That’s not going to get you laid and its not going to make you happier. You’ll just reach your mid 20s and realize you neutered your personality to match a set of standards created by people with nothing but contempt for you.

Straight boys are wonderful and do not deserve all of the hate that they get

Positivity for Masculine Men

Tumblr recently has decided that masculine men are evil and that the only men who deserve love are feminine ones who wear flowers in their hair. Fuck that. Here’s some positivity for masculine men.

It’s okay if you’re protective of your partner It’s okay if you don’t like flowers It’s okay if you love working out and going to the gym It’s okay if you hate chick flicks. The Notebook is overrated anyway. It’s okay if you ‘man spread’ It’s okay to be proud of your muscular body It’s okay to hate the colour pink It’s okay to love and play sports Feel free to add

It’s okay to just be you….  however you do you….

I love masculine men. If you think there is absolutely anything wrong with masculinity or masculine men, get the fuck off of my blog now and kindly go fuck yourself.

Everyone always makes positivity for boys who like makeup. Boys who like feminine things. Boys who are emotional. And that’s great!

But shoutout to boys who like sports.

Boys who don’t usually express their emotions.

Boys who joke about inappropriate/immature things.

Boys who like weightlifting.

Boys who like dogs more than cats.

Honestly, why can’t we also appreciate masculine boys?

Feel free to add on!

Dear men,

- Don’t date women who are hateful towards men but say you’re an exception.

- Don’t date women who say hateful things about men and get angry when you get upset by them.

- Don’t date women who think sexism against women is awful but are okay with sexism against men.

- Don’t date women who constantly expect romantic gestures from you but won’t do the same for you.

- Don’t date women who think it’s okay to be mean to their male partners but would consider it abuse if a man treated a woman the same way.

- Don’t date women who don’t think men can be victims of rape and abuse.

- Don’t date men who wish they weren’t men who like men because “men are trash.”

We always tell women to only date people who know how to respect them. We need to tell men the same thing.

For all my (bi or het) male followers a guide so y'all know how to dodge a bullet!

Don't date r/nicegirls you guys! You deserve better!

You ever just see boys do something and think "I love boys"? 😍

Me trying to find a way into the circle

I don’t care if this hurts anyone’s feelings, I am sick and tired of seeing this crap!

Why can’t people leave boy positivity posts alone? Why can’t boys have something that makes them feel good about themselves without some ugly, entitled woman who can’t stand the fact that something isn’t about her for once commenting about how “gross” boys are and “lol I think you mean girls ;)”. Like shut up, that crap isn’t cute, I don’t care how many likes/reblogs you get from your nasty little followers, you aren’t being cool. It’s immature and disrespectful.

You want to spread positivity for girls, fine. You can either reblog the hundreds of posts on this site dedicated to girls or make your own. Don’t hijack or derail a positive post MEANT FOR BOYS/MEN just because you never grew out of your cooties phase. Like can you people just shut up for once and let boys have their positivity posts. Let them be happy, let them feel good about themselves. So many issues that boys face are often overlooked (often because of misconception that either these problems don’t exist) and honestly for you to go and add your unnecessary negative comments to boy positivity posts shows me that you’re just heartless and selfish and I fear for the well-being of anyone involved in your life. 

If you have to derail a post meant for boys or put boys down for your girl “positivity” then I think you need to look over the definition of the word “positive” again cause dang somewhere along the way it became twisted. I’m sorry boys loving themselves and being loved bothers you so much.